10 Dating Tips for Men from Women

8. Put some effort into how you dress, we appreciate that!

I’m not saying that you have to get all dressed up, in fact, sometimes that shows you’re trying a little “too” hard. Plus, I like a guy who can dress well but also can be casual and a little rugged. But if you’re going to take a girl out, especially if it’s the first date, put a little effort into your appearance. We like that!

9. Don’t call at 2 am.

Every girl, and guy for that matter, probably has a story about dating someone who only calls or texts them to “hang out” at 2 am. If it’s in the early phases of a relationship, and you can set a proper date at a proper time, you’re better off just going home to bed than calling us up at 2 am. Simple.

10. Have confidence in yourself.

This last one is a little more positive than the rest. I don’t want to seem like I’m just ragging on you guys! I understand that men have a tough time in the dating scene, too. We all do. And often men need a dose of self-love just as much as women. So this last statement trumps all the other advice: have confidence in yourself. No matter who you are, what you look like or what you do, just be confident in that. Nothing is more sexy than a man who knows who he is and doesn’t make excuses for it.


Happy Dating!

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