10 Tips to Being a Happy and Productive Stay-at-Home Mom
By jessiejoathome on January 24, 2014
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I'm going to be giving some helpful tips on how to be a happy and productive stay-at-home mom today! I have to say first that even though some days are better than others, I always feel extremely blessed, lucky, proud, and happy to be a stay-at-home mom. Sometimes you will have an off day with kids crying and not feel productive at all, but that's what being a stay at home mom is.
You are home with your kids and that's what matters!
1. Stick to a schedule. I have learned that with little ones, it's so important to keep them on a good routine/schedule. Schedule changes are so hard on children, so try to stay consistent. We try to have the same time every day and night for waking up, naps, play time, lunch and supper, and especially bed time. I find the hardest times of the day are supper and bed time so that's the routine we try to work the most on.
One way to make our supper time routine less stressful is by having our family menu planned out weekly. This saves me time on deciding what to make! I used a picture frame and put bright colored paper behind the glass. Just use a dry erase marker to change your menu weekly!
2. Become an early riser. I used to sleep until the girls woke up. Then we would all be tired, trying to wake up and get some breakfast, and it would become chaos. Now I try to wake up before the girls so I can have some coffee and sit by myself and watch the morning news. Get yourself ready for the day during this time. Shower, get dressed, do your hair, brush your teeth; whatever your routine for getting ready is, do it in this time. That way if you do have to go somewhere, you just get the kids ready and go. Plus it's a kick start to the day and that way you can get more done instead of sitting in your pajamas all day.
3. Make lists/goals/rules. I'm the type of person who makes lists for everything, but it really does help to have a "to do" list everyday. The night before I write down things I need to get done the next day. It's a good idea to not forget anything important that needs done (which is easy with little ones!), and the feeling of crossing something off your list is a feeling of satisfaction. Writing down goals helps as well to always have something you are working towards, whether it be for yourself or helping your kids. If your kids are old enough, it's a good idea to put a lists of rules or chores that are visible for them and to stick by.
4. Keep up on housework. Yes, at times this is impossible, especially with a three-year-old and a nine-month-old, but it's best to try and stay on top of it! I've seen some people only designate one day a week as 'cleaning day,' however I find that with kids, it's more efficient to do a little bit of cleaning everyday. Besides keeping up with the laundry and dishes, I try to do one room a day. It also makes everyone in the house feel so much better when toys are picked up before bedtime, so the next day you can start fresh and not with a leftover mess from the day before. When you keep up on the housework, it means more quality time with family.
5. Get out and get involved. Just because you're a stay-at-home mom doesn't mean you literally have to stay at home. Get out of the house with your kids and go to the park or library. Even going for a walk or playing in the yard works. We make it a point to go outside at least twice a day, and when the weather is nice out we might be outside almost all day! Fresh air and a change of scenery are good for both mom and baby. You can also make play dates with other moms or go to reading groups for kids so they can interact with others and you can be around another adults and have some mom time.
6. Go on date nights and spend alone time with your partner. This is so important! Staying connected with your partner while raising children can sometimes take the backseat so always take the opportunity to have some quality alone time with them. Go out on a date or to a movie; you can even take the kids to a babysitter and have a movie night at home, just the two of you! Time away from the kids a few nights a month is good for your relationship.
7. Do 'You Time'. Having time for yourself is important as well. Sometimes we as moms forget to take care of ourselves because we are taking care of the kids and house all day. It's important to set aside time for yourself, whether it be early in the mornings, during nap time, or after the kids have gone to bed. Find your own hobby if you haven't already. In my spare time, I love to crochet. It's a great stress reliever!
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