The $100 Question: Yvonne from Joy Unexpected Asks if Your Parents Are Your Facebook Friends

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$100 Question Yvonne

Welcome to The $100 Question, where your fellow BlogHers are asking questions ... and every answer could be worth one hundred dollars!

Let's meet today's host: Yvonne from Joy Unexpected!

Yvonne is a writer, a photographer, and mother of three intelligent, beautiful children who are going to be rich and buy her a house in Hawaii some day. She loves reality TV, bean dip and getting good deals through Club Member Savings. She's been blogging since 2002 at where she writes about her life, her thyroid, her shrinking ass and her (one) celebrity friend.

$100 Question Yvonne

Yvonne's photo courtesy Joy Unexpected

Ready to play? Here is The $100 Question for Friday, May 7th:

Do you accept friend requests from your parents on Facebook?

When I saw the request, my heart sank: "Your sister wants to be friends with you on Facebook."

I love my sister. She is my best friend. The fear I felt in my heart when I saw that request wasn't about my sister. It was about the fact that my mom is one of my sister's Facebook friends. And if I accepted that friend request, my profile would show up on her friends list, and it would just be a matter of time before I got a notification that my mom wanted to be friends with me on Facebook.

There was no way I could ignore the request from my sister. So I did what any grown woman who didn't want her mom to friend her on Facebook (where she would find the picture of that *ONE TIME* where you thought it would be funny to use your cleavage as a placeholder for your shot glass.)

I blocked my Mom on Facebook.

I felt guilty (and paranoid) about what I had done.

Not guilty enough to remove her from my block list, but guilty enough to create a new Facebook account. A Family Only Facebook account. One where I would accept friend requests from my mom and not worry about being judged or scolded on my profile page for all to see. One where I wouldn't have to worry about angry or concerned phone calls after I update my status with things like "Suck on THIS, MONDAY!" (Because I never update there. Like, ever.)

So tell me: Have you accepted, or would you accept Facebook friend requests from your mom (or dad) on Facebook?

How to play: Tell Yvonne your answer to her question in the comments below by 5 p.m. Monday, May 10 to be eligible to win. We'll enter all the comments into a randomizer and choose one lucky commenter to win. Comment as many times as you like. Click here to read the official rules. Good luck!

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