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Tips for Boomer Women

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Boom.  Can you hear it? It's not a bomb. It's not an auto's backfire. It's not even the sound you hear when the other shoe drops.

Rather what it is are voices. Millions of voices. Millions of Baby Boomer voices.  Women’s voices.


Lady Boomer
Image: Sporrer/Rupp via Cultura/ZUMAPRESS.com.

First let me give you 3 Tips for Boomer Women:

  • Don't let yourself become Invisible.
  • Boom your voice.
  • Refuse to go quietly into that good night.

Let me tell you why.  

I'm a Baby Boomer; I have gray hair and look a bit like my grandmother.  Actually I look like a grandmother because I am a grandmother and so very proud of it.  I attended the BlogHer11 conference and have already written about my personal invisibility experience.  I wrote that the question about aging and beauty I brought up at the Own Your Beauty breakout session resonated with quite a few women.  The question asked by one person that has stuck with me is:  how did I all of a sudden cease to count?

So, and hence, my tips. I have a personal observation that the Baby Boomer generation just might be the first of our species who won't retire...not if "retiring" means ceasing to be heard in the marketplace or any other arena of influence. In January of this year there was a plethora of articles about the fact that the first of the Boomers turned age 65. The articles tended to talk about Social Security and how aging Boomers will fade into the ether.  Instead I would like to suggest that maybe there is a different way to think of the fact that every day for the next 20 years 10,000 people will turn age 65 and that they are:

  • still viable people who have something worthwhile to say
  • a huge dollar sign and marketing presence
  • still able to vote...I think politicians would be wise to remember this
  • mature, experienced and a wealth of creativity and innovative thinking

Here's the suggestion: let's indeed change the conversation. Let's abolish the word "aging" and accept the descriptor "mature." When my mother was my current age she actually did consider herself to be getting "old." I do not. My generation is healthier than our parents' generation was so it is not outside the realm of dreams that those Boomers now age 60 can live another 40 years...that is quite a window inside of which to build a whole new career.  To invent new things. To seed and grow new ideas and innovations. To find a cure for cancer and to help fix the legacy code of a troubled planet.  I want to say:  Boomer Women: find your voice and do not go quietly into that good night.

I have discovered I want to write about this in greater depth and give other women a way to be heard and encouraged to do so.  I’ve developed a survey and invite Boomer women to sign up to receive this survey.  Sign up at: http://bitly.com/BoomerEmail and I’ll send out the survey.  Let’s get loud.  I hope you’ll join me.

 

Linda C Smith, Artist and Writer

http://www.intlnat.com

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The Snarky Boomer 5 pts

WoW- we are having universal thoughts as boomer women. I created a blog back in July 2011 for this very purpose, to have a voice. (boomersberg.com) To give a platform for other boomers who feel marginalized-devalued and pitched to the side, like an old worn outdated book. Hey, there is still good information in here or is it that only archeologists and those who study ancient text will find us interesting?

HomeRearedChef 197 pts

I'd love to be heard, Linda, but I hate to admit that at the moment I've lost my voice. (Sigh!) Tomorrow, September 8th, I turn 55 years old, and though I would love to have said instead "celebrate" my 55th birthday, there aren't too many things to celebrate about. I am glad to have life, but now I am looking desperately to see where I now fit in, in society.

I am not a quitter, but for the moment things do appear a bit dim, considering the current economy. But I hear what you are saying. (Smile!)

Mary Rothschild 5 pts

I think you'd enjoy Mary Catherine Bateson's book Composing a Further Life: The Age o Active Wisdom. Interview with her is here http://fwd4.me/05ay

Thanks for this post.

LindaCSmith 10 pts

Mary Rothschild Thank you for the link...I bookmarked it. I will listen to her interview and take a look at that site, it looks interesting.

Lisa Carpenter 5 pts

Hi Linda! Count me in. I hail from the last year of the Boomer generation and was in the Boomer Bloggers session. I wrote a post not too long ago on the exact moment I was relegated to the "older woman" position and my daughters moved into the limelight. A bit unnerving.

I'm with ya on remaining loud and lively! Off to request a survey.

Best always,

Lisa

LindaCSmith 10 pts

Lisa Carpenter Hi Lisa, could you share the link to that post? I have two daughters who are now in their early 30's and very interested to know if they, too, will become "invisible" some day.

kyranp 6 pts

Hi Linda! I believe I was sitting at your table when you posed that question in Own Your Beauty, and I was so very glad you did. I wrote about my own fear of becoming invisible with age in my book, and it's something I think I'll continue to grapple with for a while. I for one am glad your voice is booming.

Best,

Kyran

LindaCSmith 10 pts

kyranp Hi Kyran...it was indeed great to meet you at BlogHer11! I'd love to read the excerpt from your book where you talk about this issue...and to write about it. I've been reading some of the comments made in the returned surveys and I'm realizing what a huge issue this is and what magnificent voices there are "out there" that deserve to be heard.