This Is 34: Pearls of Wisdom on my 34th Birthday
By Alanna Rusnak on December 31, 2013
The most amazing thing happened yesterday...
I turned 29 for the sixth time!
I'm getting really good at it.
My parents showed up after dinner with dessert and a gift (including Burt's Bees Lemon Butter Cuticle Cream which I immediately proceeded to apply to my lips before reading the packaging). As the candles were lit, Zander's best friend Simon asked, "So, how old are you, 26?"
"Oh, I love you!" I exclaimed like a mooning Marilyn Monroe.
He just grinned.
I try not to dwell on the number but I JUST CAN'T HELP IT. Something about being in your thirties demands a certain amount of maturity and accomplishment I just don't feel I've reached. I still feel like I'm a little ninth grader daydreaming of kissing a boy for the first time.
We recently spent a night in a Toronto hotel, the kids nestled up together in one queen bed and beside me Scott gave a shake of his head and said, "I just can't believe we're here...look at us...look at Zander...he's so huge..." And I can't believe it either because it's been a blink and it's been a lifetime.
I dare say, much must have happened in 34 years. I must have some wisdom to impart now than I am halfway to the darling age of 68 (at which point I shall be ballroom dancing on a cruise ship in the Caribbean with a pool boy named Francis).
These are for you. 34 pieces. String them together into a pretty necklace...for they are pearls!
1. Hold your heroes to a high standard.
2. Squeeze the toothpaste from the end.
3. Put a lock on your bedroom door.
4. Perfect a strong handshake.
5. Give credit. Take blame.
6. A little chocolate every day makes you a better person.
7. Forks on the left, spoons on the right.
8. Be slow to hate and quick to forgive.
9. Just because you can doesn't mean you should.
10. Climb trees.
11. Never ever ever say one of the following: 'How far along are you?' 'You're going to lose that, aren't you?' 'You might want to rethink that second piece of pie.'
12. Always always ALWAYS say one of the following every single day: 'I love you.' 'You're beautiful.' 'Thank you.'
13. Eat dinner at the table as a family - no screens. 'How was your day?' is not a stupid question!
14. You're never too old to need your mom.
15. A grudge is never worth it.
16. Pouring a bad cup of coffee down the drain is better than letting it gurgle around in your stomach.
17. Hold the door for strangers.
18. Say no to new credit cards and limit increases.
19. Find out if there will be food there.
20. Don't litter.
21. Go for walks without a destination in mind.
22. Turn Facebook notifications off on your cell phone.
23. Take so many pictures that it annoys your kids.
24. Keep your promises.
25. Read what moves you. If a story doesn't make you laugh, cry or shudder you've probably just wasted valuable hours of your life.
26. Do things that scare you.
27. Be like Jesus - not like his followers.
28. Don't let the dirty dishes pile up.
29. Snow tires are worth it!
30. If it's something you can do yourself, don't wait for someone else to do it - initiative is a beautiful thing - be proud of your capabilities and accomplishments.
31. Your children think you're a hero. Don't let them down.
32. Love your enemies.
33. Cherish your friends.
34. Treasure your family.
So, there you have it. In all things be true to your own happiness because how can you bring joy to others if you haven't any of your own?
Blessings and Happy New Year's Eve!
First shared here
Alanna Rusnak writes honest blog posts reflecting her world as a mother of three, wife of one, employee of a church, and a lover of beauty over at SelfBinding Retrospect
More Like This
Recent Posts by Alanna Rusnak
Most Popular on BlogHer
Most Popular on Work/Life
Recent Comments on Work/Life