4 Red Flags to Never Ignore in a Potential Partner

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Dating can be a stressful process, especially if you’re looking for something long term. In the beginning your time is spent getting to know your potential partner. You’re taking note of the things you like, those that you dislike and paying attention to the characteristics that make this person unique (at least you should be).

However, sometimes you can get caught up in the superficial part of dating! And when this happens, the blaring red flags that are waving in front of you’re face, are often ignored as you reason them away at the sake of the very relationship you’re trying to establish.

To prevent wasting a substantial amount of time picking up the pieces, here are 4 Red Flags you should never ignore when looking for a potential partner:

1) Inconsistencies: 

Usually one of the biggest red flags that is ignored because it may be explained away because of your unofficial status. If a guy is serious about getting to know you he’s pretty deliberate in his actions. He’s going to keep up with the texts, the calls, and even his stories. You want to pay attention to those moments where you raise an eyebrow because he isn’t keeping up with the basics, at the very least.

2) Still in Contact with Ex:

You may not be his girlfriend just yet, but keep and eye out for a lingering ex. RED FLAG! You want to be clear ...

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