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5 Tips to Thrive in Chaos (What Good Is Vision When You’re Up to Your A** in Alligators?)

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I knew there’d be pushback the minute I dubbed vision the #1 leadership characteristic.

"Get real," several readers e-mailed. It reminded me of the cartoon a colleague once gave me, bearing the caption: “When you’re up to your a** in alligators, it’s hard to remember your goal was to drain the swamp.”

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In a time of economic chaos, when many people are desperately trying to keep those writhing reptiles from nipping off their knees, lofty vision talk sounds unrealistic.

It’s difficult to keep your eyes on the prize, your focus on the vision, your hand steady to the wheel when the assumptions you thought were well grounded turn out to be quicksand. But a counterintuitive skill that can help you thrive in times of change and disruption is to embrace chaos as opportunity.

Sara Clemence, 36, is now a travel editor at the Wall Street Journal. But in 2008, she was working her way up the media hierarchy with an undeclared vision of eventually running her own publication. She’d just landed a spot at a hot new magazine, Conde Nast Portfolio when a wave of layoffs knocked her out of her job.    

“Getting laid off was a blow to my ego and self-image,” she told me. “I considered myself an achiever, someone who would leave a position for something better, but never lose a job…I spent a weekend lying on the sofa, staring at the ceiling and wondering if I'd ever get up again.”

If that wasn’t enough to rattle her vision, a few months later, Clemence snagged a position with another magazine—and it folded that same day, leaving her unemployed again.

Of course, magazines weren’t the only businesses crumbling. The breadth of the financial industry’s misdeeds were being laid bare. In September, 2008, Lehmann Brothers closed, filing the largest bankruptcy in American history. Over $600 million in debt, setting off a spiraling chaos that has affected every part of the economy, the Lehmann crash knocked many people’s visions for a loop.

With friends experiencing layoffs all around, Clemence and two colleagues seized the opportunity in chaos. They created a website they called Recessionwire. Its goal was to help people get through the challenging times by providing tips to navigate the financial environment, sharing personal experiences, and serving as a source of economic information and trends.

Clemence said, “I needed to give myself the space to feel bad about what had happened. Only then could I start thinking in terms of possibility.”

The chaos was “a chance to consider anything!”

Similarly, as the magnitude of the Lehmann collapse suffused the public consciousness, people began to ask, “What if Lehmann Brothers had been Lehmann Sisters?” The testosterone-driven high-risk culture of the financial industry had clearly failed; that new vulnerability opened people’s minds to embrace change toward greater gender parity.

There are no magic answers to keeping true to your vision when the tectonic plates are shifting under your feet. But here are 5 tips to help keep your head above water and the alligators at bay.

1. Think positive. Be like Monty Python: Always look at the bright side of life. You might as well, since chaos is inevitable because change is inevitable. And whoever is most comfortable with the ambiguity created by change is most likely not just to survive but to thrive.

2. See your moment and seize it: Paradigm shifts don’t happen in moments of stability. Wars, economic upheavals, diseases like HIV/AIDS, social justice movements—these all cause social turbulence. “Normal” patterns are interrupted by technological innovations--the automobile, television, the pill, cell phones, the Internet, Twitter. Suddenly, if a woman can offer a solution in a traditional male field, and it works, no one cares whether she has higher-pitched voices and doesn’t follow football scores. Seize the advantage when boundaries are hazy because that's when the world is open to new solutions.

3. Take the lead.  Courage to act in the midst of chaos is the core of leadership: to own responsibility when you don’t have total authority, to make decisions when you know none of the options is perfect, to lead even when you’re quaking in your boots. As Clemence says, “Creating Recessionwire was empowering. I learned a tremendous amount about business, and about—well, remember that old Nike slogan, ‘Just Do It?’ I used to think that people who did extraordinary things were somehow different. I learned that they're people who ‘Just Do It.’”

4. Look through other eyes. How do people in completely different fields and points of view approach

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Aletha 6 pts

I wonder if those who told you to get real are paying attention to all the tributes to Steve Jobs calling him a visionary. Even the President did that. I think it is undeniable that his vision made Apple what it is today. For some time this year it was the most valuable publicly traded company in the world. If vision is unrealistic or not what matters in the real world, would Apple have made such a mark?

The end of the Think Different commercial says it all, "Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do." (from the Wayback Machine at http://web.archive.org/web/20010228171255/http://w...

Gloria Feldt 8 pts

Like x 3, Aletha!! Also I am laughing because from personal experience I can tell you that when you are a visionary who succeeds, everyone loves you and when your vision doesn't quite make it, they kill you. Sometimes they try to kill your vision for a variety of reasons before it becomes successful. So there is risk involved. But as Jobs' life shows, the risk is well worth the result. Aletha

Biz Shrink 5 pts

Gloria - Before responding to alligators I wanted to let you know how much I'm enjoying your book and feel I have found a long lost friend of mind.

When the oceans of life start casting us around it helps to have an anchor, and sometimes it's a vision that anchors us. At the same time, as is the case with Clemence, it's important to be flexible and creative about how that vision plays out.

There is something in me that has always reached for deep exploration and wanted to understand "essence", whether it be a person's essence, the essence of life, the essence of the problem, etc. I am driven by this search, but where and how my work happens has changed at various times throughout my career.

You've delivered an important message in your post, and as in your book, you've expressed it well.

Like Dorothy I look forward to being on the panel of mentors with you at 3Plus International Mentoring Event in NYC. http://3plusInternational.com/event.

For those who will be attending, bring something that helps you to hold onto your hats.

Warm Regards,

Anne

Gloria Feldt 8 pts

Anne bizshrink , Thank you for tippy-toeing through the alligators here. For me, what you are calling essence would be integrity. My awareness of integrity as the central value around which I needed to build my work and life grew over the years as I was challenged in various ways to take or not take stands, make decisions, and be accountable for the results. Whenever I would be tempted to sacrifice integrity for expedience, I found that I would feel terrible when I succumbed and great when I stuck to doing what I thought was right even if others disapproved. More importantly, I am usually more successful in reaching my goal when I am true to my sense of integrity. Sounds sappy but it's true for me.

Perhaps we'll get a chance to drain some swamps at the upcoming (10/13) 3Plus International Mentoring Event in NYC. http://3plusInternational.com/event. (Oh gee, I might have to go into my "why I love the # 13" routine again.)

What an interesting question/challenge: "For those who will be attending, bring something that helps you to hold onto your hats." Gotta think about that one.

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@DorothyDalton 5 pts

Hi Gloria -hope this comment makes it! To paraphrase what I wrote yesterday I suspect chaos is the new normal and the qualities required to deal with that are flexibility and resilience.

To keep those alligators at bay,having a strong relationships and a network of mentors and sponsors is one way for us all to provide support for ourselves.

Looking forward to meeting you at the 3Plus Women’s Career Booster and Mini-Mentoring Event in New York on October 13th! For any woman who feels they need a mentor to meet their career challenges –please join us!

Check it out! http://www.3plusinternational.com/events/

Gloria Feldt 8 pts

Great reminder that we are not alone, @DorothyDalton, and we need to seek out mentors and sponsors if we don't already have them.And we need to be mentors and sponsors to others. What characteristics do you seek in your mentors? And do you share the Catalyst perspective on the difference between mentors and sponsors?

I am very excited to meet you at the 3Plus event--highly recommend to all--come join us for mentoring opportunities and a chance to meet some fabulous women if you are in NYC 10/13. @DorothyDalton

Aletha 6 pts

I posted this comment yesterday to the parallel entry at the 9 Ways blog, which as a visionary feminist revolutionary hit me pretty close to home, and Gloria invited me to repost it here.

The irony of the admonition to get real generally is lost on those who think a bold vision for change must be unrealistic. What if what is generally considered reality is really a house of cards? There is nothing intrinsically real about the way business and politics are done; they are both based on a house of cards, and when enough people start doubting the public relations spin that keeps the status quo going, reality bites and it crashes. This is not some academic or pie in the sky observation. People get hurt when reality bites, because the vision that animates conventional wisdom is inherently unsustainable, to put it mildly. When cutthroat competition, domination, violence, military might, and all the other forms of power over are highly valued and accepted as the way things have to be, what does it mean to get real? To me, that admonition means giving up, accepting that nobody can do anything to stop the headlong rush to doomsday.

Needless to say, my concept of reality is diametrically opposed to that. When enough people wake up, smell the coffee, and realize the powers that be do not give a damn about our well-being, but are in fact actively destroying our well-being and laughing all the way to the bank, perhaps then people could realize it does not have to be this way, and take power from those who would keep us powerless. It may seem that the only way to do that would be a violent revolution, but that would only change who is in charge, solving nothing. What I have in mind is a nonviolent feminist revolution. Feminists are not bound by the limitations of conventional wisdom. We can do better.

Gloria Feldt 8 pts

Aletha, this is a power-FULL statement and I really encourage others to weigh in on your how you've defined vision and reality. I will too of course, but I'm doing too much talking already!Aletha

elaineR.N. 49 pts

Hello Gloria: Glad to see that you are writing for Blogher. Don't know if you remember me, but we met about 10 years ago when I was working for Tampax and we were a sponsor at V-Day. You have been an inspiration to me for a long time and I am looking forward to reading your posts and happy that your words will reach millions.

Gloria Feldt 8 pts

Oh my, Elaine, where are you now? I'd love to reconnect, because I do remember you very well. elaineR.N.

elaineR.N. 49 pts

I now live in Wake Forest, NC after retiring from P&G about 4 years ago. Last year, I began working with Tampax and Always again, as a consultant, to talk about periods and puberty, as well as women's health issues. As part of that, I blog about health related topics mostly and answer questions from women and teen girls about those topics.

I see that you have been blogging for awhile, but I didn't start reading your posts until earlier this year after Blogher sent out news about your syndication on the site.

Your topics are of interest to me and I can connect with your perspective and approach.

Do you ever travel to my area of the world??

Gloria Feldt 8 pts

I left PPFA in 2005 and started blogging soon after. I love the freedom of it. Have written a couple more books since then, the latest being No Excuses: 9 Ways Women Can Change How We Think About Power. Most of my time now is spent making keynote speeches and conducting workshops on women, power, and leadership, including the lessons of No Excuses and the 9 Power Tools I'll be talking more about in these BlogHer columns. it is very gratifying to inspire and mentor women in a more complete way than in my previous life, as meaningful and important as that was.

We have friends who retired in Durham we visited when I had a speech nearby. Lovely part of the country. My e-mail is gloria st gloriafeldt dot com --continue the conversation there?

Thanks for reading-it's great to know we share perspectives on leadership, especially given that your career has been in the corporate world and mine in the nonprofit world. In my observation there are more similarities than differences. elaineR.N.

elaineR.N. 49 pts

Hi Gloria: It seems as if your email address above didn't visualize correctly. My email address i: elaineplum@aol.com

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Gloria Feldt 8 pts

From Stacey R. Auch via Facebook: I am in an alligator swamp right now. Right in the middle. Thank you for this because I'm remembering my original vision, but it's like I'm seeing it without the rose colored lense.......alligators are tiring.

I'm wondering: has anybody else had this experience? Is losing the rosy colored glasses a good thing or bad thing?

Maggie.Lloyd 5 pts

I guess for me it's always easier when I can see the gators coming but when they sneak up on you (and they are darn sneaky) I often need to retreat, strategize and then come back with a bigger boat!!

Gloria Feldt 8 pts

How do you find that bigger boat? Any particular strategies that might be helpful to others? Maggie.Lloyd

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