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Addicted to Dieting?

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Woman Stepping onto Scale

I spent many, many years managing the now defunct WebMD Weight Loss Clinic and have seen thousands of women lose weight, gain weight, maintain weight, gain weight - and start all over again. It often felt like a never-ending, no-win, vicious cycle. Could it be that some women are addicted to dieting?

Look at this post from the WebMD Diet Community, addiction. Here's a woman who has achieved an amazing goal. She has lost 100 lbs. She has a BMI of 22.

Is there such a thing as being addicted to losing weight? I've lost 100+ pounds and the thought of not losing any more and maintaining is making me feel a little bit lost.

She should be proud of the work she has done to get to a healthy weight. Maybe she is proud to have reached this stage, but she's also very concerned about what happens next. Which I understand. If you've spent years "dieting," it can be frightening to step on the scale and not see the numbers go down - even though you know that maintaining weight is your new goal.

Do you think this woman is "addicted" to dieting? Have you ever felt this type of fear?

~Denise
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Life. Flow. Fluctuate.

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recoverfromed 5 pts

I was definitely addicted to dieting for so many years! The idea of not being on a diet, or eating what I actually wanted would have terrified me!

fitfabulousforever 5 pts

Oh yes, I was addicted to dieting for most of my teen and adult life. It wasn't until I faced the fact that, there is no magic pill, and only by making a lifestyle change could I break the addiction. I've now been eating clean for over two years and finally feel free of the "diet addiction".

Gale Compton

sassymonkey 6 pts moderator

I've been playing the Denise role, with a bit of TW thrown in for good measure.

Contributing Editor Sassymonkey also blogs at Sassymonkey ( http://sassymonkey.ca ) and Sassymonkey Reads ( http://sassymonkeyreads.ca ).

JennaHatfield 10 pts

sassymonkey has lectured me enough.

Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )), from Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ), is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

Denise 9 pts moderator

...because it feels familiar. It's not unknown or unusual. The more often you "diet" the more it becomes your "normal behavior".

~Denise
BlogHer Community Manager
Life. Flow. Fluctuate.

Denise 9 pts moderator

Wow. I can just imagine how that would change your life and make you really conscious of your own weight.

~Denise
BlogHer Community Manager
Life. Flow. Fluctuate.

christinajeanne 5 pts

I think there are people who are addicted to dieting. I think I'm one of them. I diet and lose weight and then gain it all back. I fear having to maintain a weight. It can be both scary and happy to lose weight.

Denise 9 pts moderator

and I've thought about it for years. It's a societal issue - we're consumerist, we want everything FAST and NOW, we think bigger is better when it comes to anything we buy or are provided with, we're becoming more sedentary, and high calorie/high fat "treats" aren't treats any longer - they're part of our every day lives.

In order to resolved the obesity issue, we have to completely change society. And, I don't have much faith in that happening.

~Denise
BlogHer Community Manager
Life. Flow. Fluctuate.

Denise 9 pts moderator

How do you feel when you're in maintenance mode and the numbers don't go down?

~Denise
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Life. Flow. Fluctuate.

Denise 9 pts moderator

Now I want to know what you and @sassymonkey are talking about - mostly so I can lecture you both at the same time. I'm good at that. ;-)

Throw out the scale! You'll be happier without it.

~Denise
BlogHer Community Manager
Life. Flow. Fluctuate.

feelingbeachie 5 pts

I think you can definitely get addicted to dieting, especially if you lost so much weight. I think that so many people are obsessed with weight, myself included. I have always been thin. Actually I’ve been the same size since high school. However, my dad’s side of the family was extremely heavy. One of my uncles weighed over 700 pounds when he died. I have always lived my life afraid that my dad’s gene’s would “kick in” and that I would gain a lot of weight. As a result, I have always been so cautious of food and fitness.

niseag03 5 pts

We are so obsessed with weight yet the country keeps getting heavier and heavier so something is really off.

I was actually randomly thinking about this just today! We see on TV thin models and actors/actresses. And we worry, "Are we giving young women the wrong idea? Are we causing anorexia or bulimia?" (You can even at this point ask if we're causing a new kind of addiction to dieting -- which I think is absolutely possible.)

And yet America is getting heavier and heavier. Obesity could be called an epidemic. (Meanwhile, as you've mentioned, there is real hunger in the world still.)

Where's the balance? How do we find a happy medium? I think those questions are our struggle today as a society.

Denise
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Melissa Ford 5 pts

I think you can get addicted to anything that brings you pride. That you worked hard to do.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

WhitGrlwaFatAss 5 pts

We are so obsessed with weight yet the country keeps getting heavier and heavier so something is really off.

I can easily see how someone can get addicted to dieting. I've fought my weight my whole life and I started my blog to help me achieve balance by fighting real hunger in the world.

It has really helped turn my life around but I still think about my weight and food everyday. I've never found a way to turn it off completely.

Saving the World One Fat Ass at a Time!

www.jellykean.wordpress.com ( http://www.jellykean.wordpress.com/ )

JennaHatfield 10 pts

Or possibly have a bug in sassymonkey's email? I mean, honestly.

You can be addicted. I have been. Was. Not currently because I haven't stepped on a scale in three months. (GO ME!)

Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )), from Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ), is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.