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Are Eco-Moms The New Soccer Moms? Does It Matter?

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The other day, an e-mail landed in my inbox with links to a couple of articles on 'Eco-Moms.' "I'm curious what you might think about 'Eco Moms'" wrote the sender, "... positive trend or just another stereotype (like soccer moms, security moms, etc)?"

This, I thought, was an interesting question. I consider myself an 'eco mom,' and I've pretty much convinced myself entirely that my environmentalism stems entirely and more or less equally from two motivating factors: my desire to preserve the Earth for my children (tree-huggerism), and my desire to preserve myself and my children for more time on this Earth (paranoia about health and wellness). It had never occurred to me that my membership in this group might somehow conform to a stereotype, or that it might be compromised in some way by some kind of stereotyped trendiness.

But here's what I read when I followed one of the links, to the Consumer Reports blog:

'In recent years politicians on both sides of the aisle have tried to woo soccer moms, NASCAR dads, and Starbucks Republicans. But during the 2008 U.S. presidential election, candidates might have to focus their efforts on voters whose party color isn’t Republican red or Democratic blue but green . . . in the eco-friendly, environmentally aware sense....

What’s the hot new voting bloc, the fashionable faction? EcoMoms. In living rooms across America, these moms-on-a-mission are gathering to discuss ways to run more-sustainable households and shrink the carbon footprint of their families. Think 21st-century versions of Tupperware parties (without the plastic) or makeup-buying get-togethers (minus the chemical-laden cosmetics).'

They might have added, 'on blogs across the interweb...' Because, yes, we're everywhere, we eco-moms (I happen to be a Canadian eco-mom, so my status as a member of a potential voting bloc is irrelevant in the context of the original article, but still: I gots my opinions) and we have, as a group, some power. But does it do us a disservice to characterize us as just the latest incarnation of Soccer Moms?

I thought about this again when I read this post about Halle Berry 'going green' with her newborn's nursery (correction: nurseries). How's Halle going green? By decorating her three (THREE) nurseries exclusively with organic materials. (For a less consumerist example of a celebrity eco-mom, see this post on Andie McDowell). Which, on the one hand, great: more power to anyone who makes an effort and promotes the cause of eco-friendly anything. On the other: is this a sincere effort to serve the cause of environmentalism and protect her own and her baby's health, or just an effort to be on trend? To be an 'eco-mom,' because it's cool? And, does it matter?

My gut tells me that it doesn't matter. It is, in part, because of the growing eco-maternity movement - fuelled in some part, yes, by its trendiness - that moms everywhere have a better understanding of the connections between the environment and their health and the health of their children (which, let's be honest, is generally priority number one for mothers in considering environmentalism: how does this effect the health of my born and unborn children? how does this effect my own health?) We know, most of us, about bisphenol-A and toxins that can effect fetuses and about the reasons why organic cotton is gentler on skin and about issues concerning exposure to pesticides fumes and smogs and other icks precisely because these issues have become, to some extent, trendy to follow. And if it seems that politicians are now more likely to listen to moms on these issues because the trend has expanded so far to include virtually everybody, well, hey - that's not a bad thing, is it?

Not if it gets results, of course. But what if it undermines the cause? What if the 'trendiness' of eco-maternity really does just make it seem as though eco-moms are just another version of soccer-mom: fundamentally absorbed in their own interests and disinclined to think beyond their own communities? As a mere mom-fad? What if becoming just another voting bloc - or, egads, just another market - diminishes the reputation of eco-maternalism (I am, of course, totally making all of these words up) as the crucially important cause that it is?

For me, being an eco-mom is all about preserving my health - my life - and the health and lives of my children (I hug the trees because they help me breathe - not

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jennydecki 5 pts

A fad or trend makes something more readily available to the masses.

What the masses choose to do with the availability will determine the long lasting effects of the trend.

I think eco is "chic" now, but I really think the accessibility will breed more purchases, which will bring it gradually into the mainstream. I think that it's a good profit center. People get to feel good about themselves, have something to brag about to the neighbors, and help the earth a little bit.

Win-Win-Win

blackdomesticgoddess 5 pts

I am a stay at home mom who gardens, create my own soap and body care items. But I use disposable diapers, so I suppose I don't fit into any niche, which is fine with me!

I think that eco-mom is just another niche that business/media has created and for which they wish to create a market.

Cee Cee
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Melanie Nelson 5 pts

I, too, received that e-mail linking to those articles. I was hesitant to respond until I knew who the sender was (since I didn't immediately recognize her). It turned out to be a marketing firm that reps Consumer Reports. I didn't care for that tactic--send out blanket e-mails asking for opinions without stating who you are or what your intentions are.

As far as 'Is this a fad?' I remember reading all the same press back in the early 90s. It faded away and now it's back. The media love to pigeon-hole us moms. It's just the latest in a long line of labels.

Do what you do because you feel it's the right thing to do, not because the media give you a choice between Soccer Mom and Eco-Mom. Personally, I'm unapologetically neither. And I bet there are others! ;)

Chilihead

Don't Try This at Home ( http://donttrythisathome.typepad.com )

Motherhooduncensored 5 pts

I figure if you're going to get behind a trend, go the eco-mom or eco-friendly direction. It's way better than the damn crap we used to wear in the 80's, that's for sure.

Kristen Chase ( http://kristenchase.net )

ReadySetMom 5 pts

pulled from your post: "...eco-moms are just another version of soccer-mom: fundamentally absorbed in their own interests and disinclined to think beyond their own communities?"

there's a major discrepancy there. enviromoms or ecomoms do think beyond their own communities. if there's anything that's made me an activist in my tenure as a parent, it's becoming more environmentally aware, and actually trying to motivate my family, and others, and those way beyond my community to actually do something about it.

Renee
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Crunchy Carpets 5 pts

because of pressures on businesses, etc and that is ok.

if we can make sure the stuff we buy is safer etc..that is ok...trendy or not.

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Gift of Green 5 pts

Nice post. I agree with your two motivations for being an eco-moms. All this fuss over whether or not global warming is "real" or not. We should be resourceful no matter what the case is what I believe Eco-moms stand for...

Amy
Gift of Green
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OldDani 5 pts

Yes, eco-mum is a trendy label right now. I don't think it is a fad tough, in the sense of short lived trend. I do think it can be an excuse for consumerism. "Oh I must replace all my X with Y because Y is so much more environmentally friendly" The opportunism of a free market exacerbates that too. Bringing eco-concsiousness to the fore, in whatever way it occurs, has some value. The trendiness of the eco-mum affects the market place. Producers realise the trend and compete for eco-friendly product placement. Hopefully this trend is the start of a new and better way forward. Of course I'm born optimist...

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JanetD 5 pts

It may be trendy to be an "eco mom" but I don't think it's a trend in the sense that it's going away like skinny jeans hopefully will. The reason so many moms have jumped aboard the solar powered green train is because we're becoming more aware.

Thanks to the internet which disseminates information further and faster than TV and newspapers, we're quickly learning what a toxic place the world really is and it's only natural that our maternal instincts kick in and prompt us to action in the interest of our children and future generations. Of course, having a few cute celebs like Leonardo DiCaprio and Brad Pitt, championing green causes certainly doesn't hurt.

I think once you know all the bad stuff, you can't unring the bell; you can't just go back to your old ways when you get bored of being an eco-mom because you know your children's future depends on it.

Her Bad Mother 5 pts

... such that 'Halle Berry bought these' becomes the selling point of environmentalism, and eco-moms become viewed simply as consumers, rather than as (to whatever degree) activists.

If it sells eco-concern, great. But trends have a nasty habit of wearing off and being replaced by other trends. Does eco-maternalism need to worry about that?

amygeekgrl 5 pts

Interesting. I got the same email. ;)

My reply was this:
"I'd like to think it's the beginning of a real movement of women who want to change things for the better. I am certainly not doing it because it's trendy, but I could see how others might fall into that.
I guess it's hard to say for now what will happen with it all. I often wonder if the green movement will die out in a few years or if it's the beginning of a new (old) way to live. Time will tell. "

I'm with you, I'm doing it for my children and my children's children. I want the Earth to be around (and in good condition) for a long long time.

Amy
Crunchy Domestic Goddess ( http://crunchydomesticgoddess.com )
BlogHers Act contributing editor ( http://www.blogher.com/special-events/bloghers-act )

sarcasticjournalist 5 pts

I GUESS I'm an ecomom, though I don't really feel I fit in with the types of people in that NY Times article (read it awhile ago so my memory may be a bit off).

I have a hard time with people like Halle who just buy "organic" paint or put solar panels on a MANSION (Julia Roberts) and call themselves "green."

The entire "movement" is getting swept up into buying things and trying to one-up each other on lifestyle choices.

For me, it is about doing my best to tread lightly on this earth, organic paint not included.

Rachel, AKA Sarcastic Journalist, now hanging at The Simple Family. ( http://www.thesimplefamily.com )