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Where are the rehab centers for the poor, suffering brownie addicts?   I am a 40 year old woman who has struggled with weight issues since the f...
 
 
 
 

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Are You a Compulsive Over Eater?

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For years I've felt like an alcoholic who ate sugary confections instead of drinking tumblers of vodka. After decades of fumbling around in the dark, I finally found a program that addresses the compulsive nature of my disastrous diet. I finally have hope that I can get my life back on track and stop letting myself be controlled by food. This is the quiz that changed my life:

 

  1. Do you eat when you’re not hungry?
  2. Do you go on eating binges for no apparent reason?
  3. Do you have feelings of guilt and remorse after overeating?
  4. Do you give too much time and thought to food?
  5. Do you look forward with pleasure and anticipation to the time when you can eat alone?
  6. Do you plan these secret binges ahead of time?
  7. Do you eat sensibly before others and make up for it alone?
  8. Is your weight affecting the way you live your life?
  9. Have you tried to diet for a week (or longer), only to fall short of your goal?
  10. Do you resent others telling you to “use a little willpower” to stop overeating?
  11. Despite evidence to the contrary, have you continued to assert that you can diet “on your own”    whenever you wish?
  12. Do you crave to eat at a definite time, day or night, other than mealtime?
  13. Do you eat to escape from worries or trouble?
  14. Have you ever been treated for obesity or a food-related condition?
  15. Does your eating behavior make you or others unhappy?

 

I'm sure many of you think these questions are crazy and can't begin to fathom how some of us can think like this. Please don't judge - this post is not intended for you.

 

But if you feel like you can answer 'YES' to at least three of the above questions, let me introduce you to the program that is saving my life: Overeaters Anonymous.

 

It is a sister program to Alcoholics Anonymous in the same vein as Narcotics and Gamblers Anonymous. It is NOT a diet program, it is a program to help you learn how to make peace with whatever has power over you.

 

I don't want to speak for OA, they describe the program far better than I ever could. I just wanted to provide a resource for those who are seeking it. My life was out of control for far too long. I wish I'd found this program years ago.

 

If the quiz above had you thinking "Did she put a Nanny-cam in my house? How did she know!?", then let me reach out my hand and tell you hope is nearby. In addition to the traditional "face to face" meetings, OA has a long list of phone and online meetings also. The online meetings are a great way to test the waters and get a feel for the program. I have learned a tremendous amount in just a few weeks.

 

Check out www.oa.org

Good luck and welcome home.

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FatCat 21 pts

I just read your first blog post, and between that one and this one...What are some of the things you are doing that you think help?

(I loved your intro to yourself on your main page by the way)

BrownieRehab 6 pts

FatCat

Thank you so much! I'm so sorry it took me so long to reply to you.

The first thing that helped me to realize I was truly an emotional eater was the emotional eating journal that I talk about here: http://brownierehab.blogspot.com/2012/01/different...

The second thing that really helped me was joining OA and finally taking the third step. OA can be overwhelming at first - it is a program truly based on Alcoholics Anonymous. We follow the same exact steps, just substituting addiction to compulsive eating for alcohol. It has a spiritual component to it that I struggled with at first. It's NOT religious - you can be agnostic or atheist and there is still a way to interpret the spiritual component that can work for you. It might not be a quick fix - it's taken me about three months to get into the right frame of mind. But when it finally clicks...it WORKS.

Good luck to you. I try to only post when I have something I really want to say, but your feedback truly means the world to me.

FatCat 21 pts

BrownieRehab Hey!!! I missed you around so it's nice to see you again! It's an interesting process losing weight and not overeating. I'm not really sure just what my triggers are - certainly some emotional stuff, but I also think a lot physiological stuff. Heck - I don't know! I'll definitely check out your blog.