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Are You Faking an Orgasm? Please Yourself and Not Just Your Partner.

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Some men (not all, some) feel that sticking it in is enough to please a woman.   Only 40% of women can have an orgasm alone from sexual intercourse.  I was talking to a girlfriend of mine who is getting really frustrated with her boyfriend because he is just not getting it!  She has told him that she cannot have an orgasm from intercourse alone.  She wants oral.  She wants to be fingered.  Does he do it?  No.  He thinks there is something wrong with her.   He just seems to want to get right to the sexual intercourse and not bother with the foreplay.  Well, there are actually a number of women out there who enjoy the foreplay (maybe even more than intercourse itelf.)  So, getting back to my girlfriend, she suffers with dissatisfaction and fakes the orgasm.

 

Guess what guy guy?  Eventually, your girl is going to come to the point where she says she has had it and finds another man who gets it.  Take the time to please your woman.  If you don't want to give her oral (some men hate giving oral) use a vibrator on her and let it do the work!  Get her turned on and then start the intercourse.  Stop being selfish, and step up.  For the women out there faking it, be honest with your man, and tell him that you need extra stimulation, whether it be oral or using his fingers on you to get you to orgasm.  Suggest using a vibrating erection ring during intercourse, or a clitoral vibrator that he can hold against your clit during sex for extra stimulation.  If he continues to not make an effort, you may need to move on.

 

 

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delwalk 5 pts

You write "She has told him that she cannot have an orgasm from intercourse alone." And then you write, "she suffers with dissatisfaction and fakes the orgasm." So it appears her mouth is saying one thing and her body the other.

The first thing she should do is stop faking the orgasms. Her mouth and her body should be saying the same thing. If he still doesn't get it after that, dump him already.