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Autism Activist Holly Robinson Peete: More Than a Celebrity Apprentice

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Holly Robinson Peete's appearance on The Celebrity Apprentice has communicated one very clear message about autism parents: Don't get in our way when we're trying to help our kids!

Though her focus and drive have drawn criticism from viewers and from co-contestants such as Cyndi Lauper, Holly has always been frank in her determination to win the Celebrity Apprentice jackpot for her autism charity,  The HollyRod Foundation.

That drive is rooted in her family's autism story. Holly and her husband Rodney were told to keep their expectations low after their son RJ's autism diagnosis, but they refused to impose limitations on their boy. RJ is now a young teen, and while he still has autism, he also has friends, plays sports, and tells his family he loves them  - in defiance of the autism stereotypes his parents were told to anticipate.

So, Holly knows from experience that getting our children with autism the support they need can transform their quality of life. Her appearance on Celebrity Apprentice is only one part of her tireless efforts to get both financial and therapeutic support to the autism families who need it. She also runs a never-ending campaign for autism awareness and acceptance, constantly giving interviews and appearances, making songs and videos, and even writing books to teach parents and society to value children and adults all along the autism spectrum. She never stops encouraging parents to reach out, and to hold on to hope.

I have to say, I suspect the Celebrity Apprentice version of Holly is the product of careful editing. I've been talking with Holly for two months, both about her children's autism book My Brother Charlie and this interview, and she always remained kind and funny, even when her April Awareness Month schedule made me wonder if she had a clone. But you don't need my word when you have so many of hers:
 
You fought so hard for autism on The Celebrity Apprentice. How did it feel to play yourself on TV, instead of a fictional character?

It was awkward for me because it was my first (and likely only) reality show! It was scary to have my image in the hands of some editor whose sole mission is to make "compelling" TV! Yikes! But to win a record setting amount so that families wouldnt have to decide between rent and treatment for a child ... well that made it all worth it.

Did you know about controversial reality show contestant Hissa Hilal of Millions Poet (Saudi Arabian American Idol equivalent, her daughter is highlighted in the video but not the short article) who also competed on reality TV on behalf of her child's autism? Have you considered reaching out to her?

I hadn't!! Amazing! What bravery and courage ... in the face of such oppression.

Was it hard for RJ, your son with autism, to have you away for six weeks while you were on The Celebrity Apprentice set? How were you, being away from your four kids for so long?

It was hard on ALL four kids (and Dad!) but as  family they are all so connected to our mission -- they feel that HollyRod is their charity too and understood why it was important for Mommy to do her 'thang' for families affected by autism. My daughter [Ryan] has a mural on her wall in her room that features her favorite quote by Marian Wright Edelman "Service Is The Rent we Pay For Living!"

Your twins Ryan and RJ have two younger brothers, Robinson and Roman. Were they born after RJ's autism diagnosis? Were you worried about autism with them?

Autism can run in families so I was panicked for my younger boys and watched them like hawks when they were toddlers!!

We did plan conscientiously to have more children partly to build a bigger "Team RJ." We felt like Ryan has taken on so much of the responsibility of protecting her brother on her shoulders. It gives us great piece of mind to have these two extra little soldiers that have RJ's back when we are not here anymore.

My kindergartner Mali adores My Brother Charlie, your new children's book about autism that you wrote with your daughter Ryan. Mali wants to know when you'll be writing a book about her and her brother Leo. I believe she meant, "Do you plan to write a book for younger siblings of kids with autism?

Awww, Miss Mali! I

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alysia 5 pts

Thanks for sharing this great interview! I was pulling for her, but it was good to see her in the final two. Anything that helps get the word out about autism in mainstream TV is good news as far as I'm concerned.

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DivaLea 5 pts

I auditioned for "Wife Swap" in 2006 to win the $50,000 to renovate my house and get care for my autistic son. I figured the inevitable indignity would be worth it to repair our home and take care of my son.

Both home repair and care eventually happened, but not via "Wife Swap," though by similarly radical routes.

I wish you the best of luck on Celebrity Apprentice!

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planetjoshmom 5 pts

Thank you again Shannon for another great interview :) Holly is such a tireless champion! Would love to see Charlie going to middle school, Josh starts in September as well.

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Nordette Adams 6 pts

Had to say that because while Holly seems tough and focused, she's never seemed mean to me on the show.

Thank you, Shannon. :-) I like watching Holly on The Celebrity Apprentice and was aware of her before that via her autism work. I've also enjoyed her appearances on Oprah. She's always seemed authentic.

I'm happy she decided to do this interview.

I like Bret and was saddened to hear about his recent health scare ( http://bigsole.blogspot.com/2010/04/bret-michaels-... ), but I think Donald Trump could use Holly more.

I say that despite Diabetes running in my family and having no personal contact with autistic children. I hope she wins.

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Mom101 5 pts

As much as it pains me to go against my boy Brett on the Apprentice, that Compassionberry Snapple flavor is absolutely inspired marketing. (And I say that as a cynical ad chick with Snapple as a former client.)

Holly has been remarkable in her ability to bring such awareness to autism over the years through thoughtful advocacy. I bet her kids are incredibly proud of her.

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Denise 9 pts moderator

I'm a 21 Jump Street fan girl ya know but I had no idea she was Gordon's daughter. Now I think I need to go and check out My Brother Charlie. I'm adding it to my TBR pile now.

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