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So, I survived our first week back to home schooling after the winter break. I'll readily admit that I dreaded it.

Keeping a routine is not my strong point. I laughed at the idea of having scheduled feedings or naptimes for the boys when they were infants. My philosophy was feed them when they are hungry, put them to bed when they are tired, and try not to mix the two up.

Somehow, though, home schooling has made me see the wisdom of routine. Life homeschooling three boys just runs more smoothly when the boys know what to expect day-in and day-out. So, I've risen to the occasion and created a rough schedule that we keep.

Then, winter break arrives and messes up my tidy world. Oh, don't misunderstand.  We all needed and enjoyed our break. And, without the routine, I could actually catch up on other parts of our lives that needed attention.

Still, as January 4 rolled around, I started to cringe. After so much free time to play outside, watch movies, play computer games and build with their toys, I just knew they would test me again to determine how very serious I was when I said to finish their math or read their literature. I made a mental note that it would take at least three days to get them back on their tasks without constant hovering. I warned my spouse I was in for some tiring days and told him he might want to plan on getting some take-out food.

Monday finally arrived. I got a bit of a reprieve because the boys go to lessons outside the house on Mondays. Tuesday, however, was all mine to handle. Just as I expected, my oldest became dramatic over anything that meant he might have to think, while my middle son suddenly had a terminal case of daydreaming. On we soldiered, however, as I refused to be drawn into one's theatrics while continually directing the other back to his work.

By Wednesday afternoon, thing were running smoothly. I would even go so far as to say that the boys were gaining a sense of accomplishment as they completed their assigned work. I can honestly write that I'm looking forward to the coming Monday morning.

So, I survived another holiday break. Now, when does spring break fall this year?

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abeautifulmess 5 pts

It is nice to meet you!  I have not been on here in a while.

I love your idea for Hand-On Fridays... this would definitely be motivation for keeping focused Monday thru Thursday.  Also, a nice way to transition into the weekend.

Part of the reason that we love homeschooling is that we are able to use our own creativity and to keep things really interesting for the kids, and for ourselves as well.  If we are enthusiastic about a subject or activity, odds are the kids will be too.

Annie Peters 5 pts

It is nice to know it's not just my crew! You are a nicer mommy than me, though. :) I tend to get a bit stricter because if I give an inch, they run a mile.

However, I will say that I did come up with one idea. For those who fall in line and make a dilligent effort on their subjects on Monday through Thursday, we have Hand-On Fridays. All texts are put a way and the kits, art supplies, science experiments, DVDs, and educational board games come out. And they are in control of what we work on. So, hopefully, I'm not too mean!

Nice to meet you, by the way!

Annie

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Cybermomma 5 pts

I've been sticking with our 6 week on/ 1 week off schedule.  It has given me hope.  Usually about 4 days into week one, I am daydreaming about week 7.  It's not that I don't enjoy time with the boys learning, it's just that need for me to stick to my guns while we are schooling.  My parenting confidence level always drops when I struggle to get them to focus on math for more than 30 seconds. 

Today we had a fellow homeschooler coming over at 2pm.  That meant we had to be serious about our work in the morning.  They did it!  They saw the goal and kept at it.  I couldn't believe how easy it was.  If only I could know that will happen again...

Cybermomma

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abeautifulmess 5 pts

I can totally relate to what you are talking about here.  That first week back after the holidays can be a struggle!  After spending two weeks full of freedom, visiting with relatives, parties, and lots of time with Daddy... my three kids are not too enthusiastic about settling back into our usual routine. 

Over the last couple of years, I have learned to make that week back a little looser (schedule-wise) and try to include some extra fun details.  For example, I make them a special breakfast that Monday morning... nothing fancy but like muffins and yogurt parfait. 

I also try to include in our reading aloud/discussion time a book or topic that the kids have really wanted to learn about which seems to help everyone get back into things.  I also managed, this year, to coordinate with their grandparents to take them on an end-of-the-week outing (to Hershey Chocolate World), so this was really something for them to look forward to.

Nice to see here that we are not the only ones who go through this... thanks for sharing.