BALANCING IT OUT......INTEGRITY....3RD RATE ROMANCE......DATING....THE LAST KISS.....WISDOM......FRUGAL....

Marriages do go through their seasons….The GLOW season in the beginning, the child raising season in the middle, and the renewing stage later in marriage…..Marriage can have its ups and downs the longer it goes, but a great marriage takes work….but is so worth it’s weight in gold to give it one’s best….For a great marriage is far better than all the dating in the world…..A Great Marriage can be Heaven….

 

OUR FOUNDATION….

OUR LIVES are like building a house……We have to start with the foundation and build upwards….So often people want everything NOW and are not willing to build their lives correctly….Sometimes people simply want to rush through life and get the “prize” without building the foundation to their lives first….

Often we feel we are stuck….when truly we are not stuck….We are simply where we need to be doing what we need to be doing before moving on to the next level….Often success is built one layer at a time the way a house is….We can’t put a roof on a house that is not there……We have to put our foundation down first and build each room the way we want it to be before we can even think about putting the roof on…

Build a solid foundation in each area of your life so that when the storms of life come your house will be solid…..and you will also have the best looking house around…..all because you built a SOLID FOUNDATION….

 

WHEN WE AREN’T READY…

So often in life people aren’t ready for when their opportunity arrives……Sometimes they don’t even recognize their opportunities when they do arrive……That is why discerning what goals, dreams, and visions one has for their lives is important. To have clarity of what exactly they do want and to come up with a plan to make it happens is key to being ready for when the opportunity arrives….

We have to do the footwork beforehand…For if an “opportunity” arrives and we are not prepared for it it simply will not recognize us…..So it is up to us to begin to build into our lives what will make for a great way for us to draw in those opportunities as well as receive them into our lives when they come…

Not all opportunities are equal. Recognizing the right opportunity from one that is not is key to success. There are many opportunities in life that look right but truly are not the best we can do….Knowing when to pass up an opportunity is key to making way towards what truly is the best opportunity for us….Also recognizing a real genuine opportunity when it does arrive and not passing it up is another key to success…

There will always be opportuintites available to us….but they won’t always be the right ones or won’t always be the best we can do….Knowing when to say no to something is important and knowing when to say yes to something is equally important….

Being both prepared for the right opportunity and recognizing when it comes can take a person all the way to where they want to go in life…..Their Dream……Be Ready….

Saturating one’s mind with positive input is a good thing….It helps keep us pointed in the right directions for our lives….Whether it comes to health, finances, religion, relationships, or any other aspect of our lives we want to keep on the positive roads……

 

TRY BEING NICE….

I like being nice…….For me NICE works…..I am one of those people that smiles at other people as they go by….I wave at people with a full nice wave to say “hi…” I simply love being nice….

I see so many mean and nasty people out in the world that I wonder what is going on in their lives. How they can even live with themselves…How truly underneath it they must not even like themselves……People who are not nice simply in my opinion must not be happy at all…

I simply do my best at avoiding not nice people and I gravitate towards nice people…..Yes, sometimes people try to take advantage of nice people….That is why I keep my " radar" on to detect if someone is not nice….For I don’t allow my niceness in any way to get abused….I simply respect my niceness too much to allow that to happen….I simply love being nice and I will protect my niceness by staying as far removed as I possibly can from anyone who isn’t’.

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