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Balloon Boy, The Sequel? Bloggers React to Abby Sunderland's Dad's Reality Show Connection

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When Abby Sunderland was adrift in the Indian Ocean, her plight made headlines and bloggers buzzed about the ethics of the situation. How young is too young for epic adventures? Why would parents let a child barely legal to drive a car attempt to sail around the world? As Dr. Helen blogged, are Abby Sunderland's parents negligent or noble?

Possible answer? Greedy.

  The Huffington Post reports that Abby's father has been selling a reality TV show deal since earlier this year:

Amid fierce criticism for allowing their 16-year-old daughter Abby's almost-tragic attempt to sail around the world by herself, the NY Post now reports that Laurence Sunderland had signed a contract for a reality show "about his family of daredevil kids". Sunderland insists Abby's voyage was not a publicity stunt, claiming the trip had been planned since Abby was 13. In regards to the nearly $300,000 cost of the rescue operation, the Sunderland's maintain that they are broke.

Here's a video of Abby and her dad before she embarked.



The lack of transparency from Laurence Sunderland taints the whole story, and now social media channels are full of a different level of discussion, with people wondering why are we learning about the reality show development after we've already followed Abby's story since January, worried about her rescue and celebrated her safe rescue?

Did her dad push Abby and her brother to risk their lives because teens sailing in the face of danger is saleable?  Was the family comfortable with the obvious huge dangers Abby would face because they would receive even more press if she failed than if she succeeded? 

The very professional website features a "Sponsors" page, but no mention of the reality show.

This story brings up lots of questions about parenting and media ethics, so of course bloggers have lots to say about this story:

Bloggers on Abby Sunderland and Her Parents

Sandra Rose wrote she was on to the father's secret story:

I knew it. When Abby Sunderland’s “missing at sea” drama began to unfold last week, I turned to a friend and said, “watch this turn out to be a publicity stunt.” It had all the markings of a made-for-tv stunt similar to the balloon boy debacle: a pretty blond teenager goes missing after weeks at sea alone. Presumably her sail boat overturned and the nearest rescuer was 400 miles away. She was at risk of being eaten alive by sharks or raped by pirates.

Jo at On Food, My Travels and a Scent of Chocolate brings up a good question about how the rescue was handled.  She doesn't understand why Abby's boat wasn't towed and instead apparently was left at sea:

I certainly don’t understand why they would leave the boat out in the ocean to become a hazard to shipping apart from anything else. Nor do I understand why Abby having lived on board for so long allowed it to be abandoned in that way. Don’t think the insurance company will be very happy about it. OK, the mast was broken, but masts can be repaired.

Muireann Carey-Campbell at Bangs and a Bun thinks Abby's parents are abusive:

But if we don’t hear of a case out of California of a girl wanting to divorce her parents some time soon, I’ll be very surprised. Parents, if you don’t like your kids very much, there’s plenty of ways you can let that be known without sending them out in a dingy to tour the world.

When Abby was in distress, Bri Taylor at Moms Gather wrote the heartfelt response of a worried mom:

This story makes me so sad. Granted she must be an adept sailor to be prepared for and allowed to make this journey, but I still don't think I would let me sixteen-year-old depart on a sailing trip alone around the world. I do understand the parents desire to support their daughter's dreams and encourage her to meet her full potential, but wow. That's such a long, difficult journey without complications; with this new development, it's simply heartbreaking.

Maralee wrote at Famecrawler on Babble that she thinks that the bad press of the news about the reality show will tank the family's ploy:

As of now, no one has taken the bait and purchased the show, most likely because of the backlash her journey has caused. However, it is being promoted by Magnetic Entertainment of Studio City, Calif. on their web site

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DrumsNWhistles 5 pts

On the reality show, God forbid we should see children willing to stretch their minds and bodies and learn the ways of the sea on reality TV. Better we should stick to Sarah Palin and C-Span reruns of fat old men bankrupting us.

God forbid any parent would give their 16-year old daughter permission to do what she loves, and what she's been trained to do. Because that 2-year window between age 16 and age 18 will make all the difference between a success and a failure, doncha know?

Ok, sarcasm aside, at least as much as I can muster at this time...I searched all over BlogHer but couldn't find any blogs or commentary about Zac Sunderland completing his circumnavigation at age 16. Not one cluck from a parent about how they wouldn't let their kid do that. Not one mention of how dangerous or irresponsible his parents were for letting him sail around the world, and indeed, through the Indian ocean and attendant storms.

Storms happen. Sailing is expensive. Zac and Abby Sunderland have grown up around sailboats and are expert sailors. I can't think of a better education or way to raise a leader than to let them tackle something like sailing around the world and then supporting them.

Abby did exactly what she was supposed to do. When her mast broke, she set off the distress signals and waited for rescue. She remained calm, she stayed with the boat (which, by the way was designed not to capsize) and rather than being the hero or stubbornly clinging to her dream of completing her sail, she triggered the signal to bring her home.

I'd be proud to have that girl as my daughter and as my friend. She clearly has confidence, leadership skills, has set her sights on what it means to have goals and has learned what it means to fall short.

We ought to be applauding Abby and her family. Instead, we criticize.

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jaelithe 5 pts

I have been struggling with what I think about this story.

On the one hand, it seems like reality TV culture has made it way too easy for too many parents to cross that line between supporting your kids' dreams and talents and exploiting your kid for financial gain. If that's truly the story behind the story here with Abby, then I feel very sorry for her.

ON THE OTHER HAND, a 13-year-old boy, Jordan Romero, climbed Mount Everest just a couple of weeks ago -- an incredibly dangerous thing to do, even with help -- and all I've seen in the media is praise for him. He is MUCH younger than this girl, and doing something equally dangerous. So why did he and his parents get a congratulatory interview on the Today Show, and Abby Sunderland's family get raked over the coals?

Is it because her family really is shady, and the press can smell something isn't right? Is it because she ran into dramatic trouble, while Jordan didn't?

Or is it because she's a girl and when people look at her, they don't see a "real" athlete?

Think about Shaun White. His parents have been letting him practice not just one but TWO potentially dangerous sports since he was nine or so. He's a millionaire and a hero to legions of kids. And I don't think anyone has criticized his parents for letting him snowboard at a pro level while still a minor.

But what if he had fallen and broken his neck before he ever won a medal? What would people say?

I really don't want my kid doing ANYTHING as dangerous as sailing around the world at 16. But if he asked me to, and I knew he could do it -- if I knew he was as good as any adult -- would I really say no? I won't know until a day like that comes. (And I hope it won't. I hope he picks a much safer career. Heh.)

stirrednotshaken 5 pts

Whether or not the whole thing involved money, what about the simple fact that parents set their 16-year-old off around the globe?! As much as it may have been a dream of Abby's, I'm sure that there was familial pressure and that her parents fed that dream instead of encouraging her to wait and not need to "break records". And it sounds like there was a lot of pride in having "daredevil" kids and pushing each one to top the last.

cfloyd1290 5 pts

I think they did it for the money. Supposedly Abby's mom is having her 8th child, so my guess are things are tight financially and they need the money. Also, I think her dad has pressured her, and she probably received a lot of pressure from her brother and other relatives, family friends, and others since her brother sailed around the world by himself at a young age.

WritRams 5 pts

Please networks, I implore you, make it stop.

(Maybe they should just take the money they were going to pay the dad for the TV show and reimburse the rescue fees?)

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nrainey 5 pts

It's pretty obvious, at least to me, that the dad is looking for financial gain. I just dont see how a parent, regardless of how much experience the child has, allows her to sail the world by herself. Her rescue could have just as easily turned into a recover mission. That is one lucky girl.

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