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Barack Obama's Acceptance Speech: What it Meant to Me

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Nearly eight months ago I teared up at a political moment:

I just broke into tears - happy tears. I think believe Barack Obama is going to be the next president of the United States. A black man in my lifetime.

Tonight I cried again.

Although the energy in the stadium was palpable and I felt a little surge of adrenaline building when we walked into Invesco, it didn't happen until the end. When Obama tapped Biden on the shoulder, grabbed Joe, Jill and Michelle and headed out to thank the crowd a final time. Michelle and Barack wrapped their arms around each other's waist, embraced, kissed and waved to the crowd. This beautiful black couple - the next President and First Lady.

And then it hit me again all over. The realization that the next president will be black.

I have two nephews and a niece and I worry for the boys in ways I never do for my niece simply because my nephews are growing up to become black men in America.

My youngest nephew is a typical 11 year old in many ways. He likes playing video games, sports and listening to music on his iPod. He is a kind, quiet and thoughtful young man. In short he is a typical American boy.

Please note: I said typical American boy not typical African American boy. And the sight of Obama as President will help keep it that way. Nobody will ever again be able to see my nephew and tell him that he can't, that he's not good enough. That he cannot achieve any dream he dreams. Because come inauguration day, yes he can.

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Maria Niles 5 pts

That's such a great project.

Inspiring us to shed some of our cynicism and get involved as citizens is already a great achievement by Obama. I can only imagine what he might be able to do for this country as president.

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Sarjack 5 pts

Maria,

Oh no, don't cry...not over a long weekend!

It's crazy though, right?  I gotta tell ya', I can be a pretty cranky-pants New Yorker and Obama just makes me feel like some big hippie ;-)  Besides reguarly donating to his campaign, (which I have NEVER done before), I've felt a responsibility to really walk the walk, not just talk the New York democrat talk.  I've become actively involved in charity work, using my blog to help raise awareness and money for a group called Project Peanut Butter. They produce a Ready to Use Therapeutic food called "Plumpy'nut" that is a freaking miracle for starving African children.

What the hell! This Obama guy's got me organizing bake sales at my office!  I'm going to lose all of my snarky New York City street cred! ;-)

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Maria Niles 5 pts

Sarah,

I'm tearing up just reading your comment. I don't think you had to be there to feel the weight of the moment.

And, great as it was, here's a little secret, all I could see was his tiny disembodied head in the distance so mostly I watched the screens ;)

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Maria Niles 5 pts

Thank you for your comments, Jane.

This time in our history with Obama, Clinton and now Palin in momentous and should make us all proud. And I hope we can all be interested in issues and concerns of people of every race, ethnicity and gender regardless of how we identify our own. We will all be stronger for it.

And, nope, not Italian as far as I know but it is a common thought ;)

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Sarjack 5 pts

Hi Maria,

I'm trying very hard to not be jealous of you for being in Denver that awesome night, but I'm finding it difficult;-)  Maybe commenting on your great post will allow me to live vicariously through you...

I remember watching Barack at John Kerry's convention and exclaiming "woah!".  My interest in government and politics immediately shifted from a callous hatred of the other party to asking myself deeply and personally "what does this country mean to me and what could I do?"   I also remember waiting for the subway, reading "Dreams From My Father" and for the first time in my life someone stating exactly what it felt lt to be bi-racial in this country.  I had never been able to verbalize it myself.

And now there's the memory of Denver and realizing that all of my instincts about this guy were right.  Barack allowed to me to feel better about myself on a personal level and as an American.

President Obama...

PRESIDENT OBAMA!!

amazing.

-Sarah 

Maria Niles 5 pts

I hope so, too and I'm feeling confident he will win.

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Maria Niles 5 pts

How fortunate to get to see them witnessing this history.

And I heard similar stories from many folks about how they wished their parents or grandparents could be here to witness the moment. Hopefully they know that their sacrifice and struggles contributed to shaping a new America.

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Maria Niles 5 pts

Men of his generation paved the way for the history of that night.

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Maria Niles 5 pts

The pastor who led the benediction to close the convention first invited those who were of faith join him in prayer which I thought was respectful and then he invited participants to finish the prayer with the words of their faith and tradition.

I said "amen."

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Maria Niles 5 pts

Thank you for your kind words, Lara. I love what you've been writing at your blog about your reactions. I'm looking forward to reading more.

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Maria Niles 5 pts

"Let's seize our own culture and shape it up."

Thank you.

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ByJane 5 pts

I never could figure out why you were doing the Women of Color coverage, Maria.  I thought you were Italian.  I watched Obama's speech last night with a friend who is African-American; I was more excited than she.  I'm not sure what this says except that it seems to me a good thing.  

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Trisha 5 pts

Oh god!  I hope Obama wins!  We are really screwed if he doesn't! 

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Southerngirl 5 pts

My 12 year-old is in out of his mind excited right now!  I have tried my best to raise them to be colorblind.  When he was 5 he told me that African Americans celebrate Kwanza, I told him not all as we do not celebrate it.  He said we are African American? I was proud and scared at the same time. I worried about not preparing him for the meanness of the world but I was also happy that he did not see color even his own.  When my 7 year-old told his cousin last year that he was not Black but brown and his auntee was dark brown.  Nobody is white or black.  I just about fell over.  Obama, Jesse Jr., and yes Micheal Jordan and Magic johnson have made me very comfortable in my decisions in raising them.  They have a village that is all kinds and all colors that love and look after them.   For my 12 year-old he just says mommy he makes it OK to be smart.  The fact that he is Black is not lost on him but his main thing is he makes it OK to be smart!  He has his brother and sister chanting yes we can and has signed me up to drive senior citizens to the polls.  I think he will try to go in the booth with me to make sure I get it right. I love this kid! 

Watching the Black men in that audience cry and thinking about what this means has me tearing up right now.  I know my grandma would need a whole box of  Kleenex if she were here.

Michelle

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weemsrj 5 pts

While listening to Obama's speech last night I kept wishing my father were still alive. I'm grateful to live to see this moment, but black men like those born in my father's generation would have been ecstatic!!

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Mata H 5 pts

We are a better country for what happened last night.

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Maria Niles 5 pts

Thank you, Judith and Lara

It was an incredible night and I feel fortunate to have been able to witness it live.

At one point Martin Luther King Jr.'s children ( http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/chi-mlk-kidsaug...,0,3791718.story )walked past us and reminded me so vividly that this was the 45 anniversary of the I Have A Dream speech. My lifetime. And the feeling I was left with at the end of Obama's speech was that we might be seeing Dr. King's dream coming true.

Goose bumps.

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Laracolvin 5 pts

My nephews (my niece, too, but lemme tell you, she'll rock the world with or without role models) are never far from my mind when I read about black men in our country. And for them to have the opportunity to grow up in a country led by a black man is something that I worried would honestly never happen in my lifetime - or theirs. This campaign is inspirational, yes, on so many levels. But what you said is the most personal for me. My nephews - my little brave, smart, beautiful, inclusive nephews - will know when I ask them what they want to be when they grow up that they can say "President of the United States" and that dream can become a reality.

I can't get what you said out of my head, so I think I'll go write about it now! :)

Thanks,

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Judith in Umbria 5 pts

I never thought I would live to see the day for a black candidate nor a female candidate and both in one season. It gives me hope that with a bit of prodding and pushing, the United States might grow up after all.

There have been altogether too many people for too long a time held prisoner by ignorance and egoism. Let's have done with it. Let's sieze our own culture and shape it up.

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