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I feel as passionately as anyone, and possibly more so than many, about the upcoming elections. But I promised myself that on the occasion of my very first post as a BlogHer Contributing Editor in the Election 08 category, I would not mention the names of any of the presidential or vice presidential candidates.

Why? Because candidates come and go - but most of us still have our right to vote that we can exercise, every single time an election of any type comes around. (I know that not everyone who contributes to this community may still have that right and I would love to hear from them in particular - but only if they want to express their thoughts about it.)

For as long as I can remember, I've loved the idea of voting, if not the people for which I could vote. I've always bought, lock, stock and barrel, that my vote matters and counts.

The first vote I remember casting was for George McGovern in 1972 when I was in fifth grade. I was the only one in my class who voted for the eventual Democratic loser (to Richard Nixon, two years before Nixon would resign as a result of the Watergate scandal, namesake for all future -gates to be).

In 1980, I voted as a freshman in college, in D.C. and the hostages were still being held in Iran.

In 1984, I was living in Israel and somehow recived two absentee ballots. I sent back just one - promise. (An interesting parallel occured for me that year, as I got to witness the formation of that country's coalition government with the post of prime minister being shared by Shimon Peres and Yitzhak Shamir - more than 14 parties shared control of the government! I spent the night at a hotel in Jerusalem with many other Americans watching the returns with an enormous ballot sheet on which we kept crossing out numbers of parliament seats as the votes came in; Israel has direct representation, no electoral college and all Israeli Arabs are included in the voting.)

In 1988, I'd just moved to Ohio and was shocked that people had to vote for judges - in Connecticut, it's all by appointment (or at least it was). I thought the judicial elections were the most antithetical to justice idea ever and I'm still pretty uncomfortable with it, though I'm not sure the appointment system is any better. I don't recall for sure, but I actually think I may have voted absentee for CT that year.

By 1992, I was married, carrying a lot of debt, working and thinking about buying a house and starting a family. The legal profession was a terrible place to find a job, but I had one. And I voted in Ohio for the first time.

In 1996, 2000 and 2004, I voted in Ohio also, and I remember in 2000 crying, with great tension in my heart and chest, at the idea of a Bush-Cheney government. Being a lawyer, knowing many lawyers, I was proud of Al Gore's leadership in helping those of us who supported him come to understand that the public process had to stop - we had to move forward. Our stability and strength as a government organized by a man-made constitution depended upon it. But it was very, very hard on a personal level.

And then, a year later, I started a blog and got to interview, with other bloggers, candidates for every state race, for local races and, yes, I got to interview Barack Obama (I know - I was going to not say it but it's not in the context of his run for president!) at the Ohio Democratic Party state dinner.

As most political bloggers will probably tell you, blogging about politics can be intense. But anyone who still has an image of us blogging in pajamas, never getting out and only regurgitating what others say has never met one of us. We are the active of the active - and I get more so with every entry.

And it's this resurgence of involvement for me - now that I'm a working parent in midlife but having lived in Washington, DC and working in the government and interning on Capitol Hill - that's come from blogging and participating in online political communities that has strengthened my adoration for the right to vote - no

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Nordette Adams 6 pts

I haven't always voted, and I've felt plenty guilty about it because for an African-American woman not to vote, someone born into two groups that struggled specifically for the right to vote, seemed a cardinal sin to me. My immediate and extended family members voted, and I recall going with my mother into the voting booth ( http://www.momsrising.org/node/865 ) as a child, but I married early and moved around the country with my spouse for a time. Making sure everything was in order so I could vote in a new town seemed to slip away from me as a young mother trying to figure out life. Then in the 90s, I made it my business to vote. I said, really it's time to grow up, girl.

This year I worked on voting rights issues for a while, an enlightening experience, but taking it personally, I've been after my daughter, age 27, to make sure that everything's straight with the Board of Elections down here so she'll have no trouble casting her vote in November. I've explained to her that in our state some may be taking measures to check IDs and challenge African American voters specifically ( http://www.newsweek.com/id/158392 ).  She needs to make sure the address on her voter registration card matches the address on her driver's license and do so before the Louisiana voter registration deadline of October 15.

It's a growing concern with voting rights groups, the Republican emphasis on supposed voter fraud and the creation of laws that actually make it more difficult to vote.  The laws supposedly address the nearly nonexistent crime of voter impersonation. I find the accusations ridiculous because it's an almost disheartening struggle to get eligible voters to leave their homes to vote at all in many of the neighborhoods targeted by these new "voter protection" laws. In low-income neighborhoods in particular, people have to be convinced that their voices and votes count and that they have the power to change government. No one I know of out there can convince hundreds of thousands of people to vote illegally, the kind of election tampering the new restictions address. Instead, it's fairly easy to keep people from voting who have the right to vote, and the average American doesn't seem to care that the right to vote is under attack.

Thank you, Jill, for this provocative, touching post and also great job on your first post as a BlogHer CE.

Nordette ( http://blogher.org/blog/nordette ) is a Contributing Editor with BlogHer.com whose personal blog is hosted on another site at this link ( http://bigsole.blogspot.com ). Most recent BlogHer post at time of this comment, "Hurricane Season: Peace after Revolution ( http://www.blogher.com/hurricane-season-peace-afte... )."

( http://blogher.org/blog/nordette )

whoke 5 pts

I was on maternity leave in November 1994 with my second child and watched as the entirety of state of government in Ohio switched from Democrat to Republican. I remember feeling despondent because the issues I cared about were effectively off the table for the next 12 years. In fits and starts, Ohio state politics are returning to issues that matter to me as a citizen, parent and voter.

While I strongly object to the tone of the recent days of the presidential election, I believe that this protracted election has at the very least helped to combat voter apathy. Improved civic engagement is a goal to which we should all strive. 

Jill Miller Zimon 5 pts

Since I think it's fair to say that many Americans who live in the states also wish for and vote on an America that never was too.

Jill
Writes Like She Talks ( http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com )

Sara Gunderson 5 pts

Living abroad sure has expanded my worldview. Unfortunately, it doesn't always have that effect. It all depends on whether or not a person lets themselves, and how they see things, change. Too many hold on tight to an America that never was.

Sara

Jill Miller Zimon 5 pts

Re: Democrats Abroad Global Primary.  For those who are US Democrats abroad, here's ( http://www.democratsabroad.org/ ) the link for that group.

I had never heard of it until this year but it seems so logical and with the Internet, way more accessible.  I thank you for making the effort - I bet a lot of people don't and I would argue that Americans abroad are perhaps the most insightful voters.

Jill
Writes Like She Talks ( http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com )

Jill Miller Zimon 5 pts

Do Canadians tend to feel they have real or at least adequate choices? Do people tend to appreciate the voting rights there?

Jill
Writes Like She Talks ( http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com )

Jill Miller Zimon 5 pts

Other people probably don't care about this, but I learned about Cynthia Samuels because I was looking for a basic book about why we vote and what it means and wouldn't you know, the only one that really existed at the time I was looking (about a year ago) was the one reviewed here ( http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=940... ) in the New York Times (it is out of print), called Lead! It's a Free Country ( http://www.abebooks.com/servlet/BookDetailsPL?bi=1... ) and written by...Ms. Samuels!  This is all true - as soon as I found the book or received it - I forget which - I emailed her and thanked her for writing such a thing.

THEN through BlogHer I actually got to meet her and learn from her - and continue to.

It's what we call...b'sheret ( http://jewbiquitous.blogspot.com/2007/01/glossary.... ). :)

Jill
Writes Like She Talks ( http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com )

Jill Miller Zimon 5 pts

I almost like taking my kids with me more than the voting itself - I think it's so important for them to see the connection.

This is 100% true - last night at the dinner table (we aren't kosher or super religious but we do have a Shabbat dinner every Friday night), we got on the topic of the elections somehow - we were asking my middle school child if she knew who the president was (she did) and then my youngest asked something about the current campaign and how it works and my high schooler explained it to all of us - he did a very nice job!  And they asked my husband and I about who we would vote for if we were decided and then we talked a bit about voter registration in Ohio. It was really neat because, much to my surprise - they really listened. :)  Also, my oldest is thinking about doing Model UN and so this is all fun for him - or at least he makes it look like he likes it!

I was really satisfied, as a parent and an American.

Jill
Writes Like She Talks ( http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com )

Jill Miller Zimon 5 pts

I loved those huge machines - Wizard of Oz almost.

Jill
Writes Like She Talks ( http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com )

Jill Miller Zimon 5 pts

I love the Mommy Can title too - that sure sounds consistent with what you've described. I think it's so easy to get lost in the fears of the unlikely rather than the hope of the little moments that mattered, you know?  We - I know I take them for granted sometimes.  I've seen those blogs that are about making sure they say something good every day or note something good every day.  I toy with the idea but I haven't done i t- I wonder if we could have a page for that at BlogHer - a page of inspiration or something with memories like yours.

Jill
Writes Like She Talks ( http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com )

Sara Gunderson 5 pts

I voted for the first time in 1990, casting an absentee ballot. And I've been voting absentee ever since. In fact, the first (and only) time I've ever voted in person was this February when I voted in the Democrats Abroad Global Primary. I deliberately chose to vote in person rather than voting online, which was one of the options available.

Sara

Jill Miller Zimon 5 pts

Thanks for sharing. Truth is important - for the speaker, the listener and the recorder.

Thanks for contributing. :)

Jill
Writes Like She Talks ( http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com )

KiwisCanFly 5 pts

I am a political junkie.  I know that out on the blogs-sphere there is a lot of opinion, and facts get a little distorted or largely misrepresented.

My pet peeve is when a journalist writes blantant untruths.

Professional journalist have an ethics code.

I cut this from the Society of Professional Journalism:

The duty of the journalist is to further those ends by seeking truth and providing a fair and comprehensive account of events and issues. Conscientious journalists from all media and specialties strive to serve the public with thoroughness and honesty. http://www.spj.org/ethicscode.asp ( http://www.spj.org/ethicscode.asp )

Gerard Baker is United States Editor and an Assistant Editor of The Times. An article titled: Barack Obama the speechmaker is being rumbled. September 12, 2008.

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/comment/columnist... ( http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/comment/columnist... )

“He has the most solidly left-wing voting history in the Senate” wrote Baker.

However Politifact the non-partisan fact checker says

“But in fact, it is true for only one rating for one year. Measurements for other years and by other groups show Obama is not the No. 1 liberal — in some cases, far from No. 1. So we find McCain's statement to be Barely True.
http://www.politifact.com/truth-o-meter/statements...

Baker writes:

“His one act of bipartisanship, a transparency bill co-sponsored with a Republican senator”

A quick internet search located these:

In addition to working on nuclear non-proliferation, Obama and Lugar co-sponsored legislation expanding the Nunn-Lugar framework .

Brownback himself sent out a press release ( http://blogs.usatoday.com/onpolitics/2007/05/obama... ) in May 2007, touting their co-sponsorship of the "Iran Sanctions Enabling Act," which would increase economic pressure on Iran.

Obama was an official co-sponsor ( http://blogs.suntimes.com/sweet/2006/04/post_15.ht... ) of Brownback's Darfur Peace and
Accountability Act in 2006.

Brownback and Obama collaborated ( http://obama.senate.gov/press/051216-obama_brownba... ) to introduce legislation establishing a clear U.S. policy towards the Congo in 2005

Legislation that would significantly revamp the structure of CAFE with Norm Coleman (R-Minn.), Dick Lugar ( http://null/news/maindish/2006/06/07/little/ ) (R-Ind.), and Gordon Smith (R-Ore.).

Gerard Baker is entitled to his opinion.

The voter is entitled to honest representation by journalist.

I object to Baker's blantant falsehoods which are obviously partisan. Influencing the less informed voter.

This is serious times, a serious, well considered and informed vote is our RIGHT!

PunditMom 5 pts

First, congratulations on your new BlogHer gig and welcome!!

I will NEVER forget my first time voting -- 1976 in small Pa. town, pushing the curtain aside, entering the voting booth and encountering what seemed to be the most giant machine with all sorts of little levers that I had ever seen.

I was a true political geek in high school and making sure I was registered to vote (I didn't turn 18 until October) was one of the highlights of my life then. And I have never missed an election since then. It is too important.

PunditMom ( http://punditmom1.blogspot.com )

Jill Miller Zimon 5 pts

Every American should work toward making sure there's someone in elected office whom they feel represents them - that's what voting is all about.

But just to clarify what you wrote - did you mean you first voted when George Sr. was running as VP? Or do you mean when you cast a vote for McCain?  I understand Palin's on the ticket - but she's not running analogous to GWBush, right?

Jill
Writes Like She Talks ( http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com )

thlsralv 5 pts

I love voting and the principles and ideals behind it - since I've only been eligible for one presidential election so far, I'm especially looking forward to this one!  It was an honor to cast my first vote (ever!) for GW Bush and it'll be even more of an honor to vote for a conservative woman!     

Jill Miller Zimon 5 pts

Chills.  Wow, Michelle - your parents really cared and believed and trusted.  See - I think that's often was is so so hard - esp. being some of the areas we've got in this country where people really politicize the entire process.  But to have the faith that somehow, some way it will all work - this is not easy.  I think about how we teach our kids at a young age about how it is supposed to work - but are we setting them up, because we know it doesn't always?

I know what you mean - I would feel horrible if I didn't vote - though it's possible I've missed a few because I was in Ohio while in grad school and I didn't change my registration.

Thanks again Michelle - sorry to keep saying wow. lol

Jill
Writes Like She Talks ( http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com )

Southerngirl 5 pts

My first experience with voting was when I was very young.  My mom and dad would drive people to the polls in my hometown.  I remember this because it was a time when I got to spend the whole day with my parents.  They bothe had jobs, businesses and community responsibilities so it was rear to get to spend hours with either of them. My mom always talked to us about doing for others.  Her rule of life was to whom much is given much is expected.  So every year we drove seniors and young moms to the polls.  I remember my dad driving his truck and my mom driving the car and they would do this almost all day.  As a kid I would go from one car to the other.  Then when I learned to drive I did this as well.  I have not done this in years but ironically my son signed me up to drive seniors to the polls this year.  My hometown involved the first of the cases that led to Brown v Bord of education so the people in that community took pride in their vote. 

The first campaign I worked on was a local campaign for Rep Alex Harvin.  When went to college I worked hard for Jesse Jackson's campaign.  At a HBCU it was an exciting time for us.  Later I worked to get Mayor Kurt Smoke elected in Baltimore.  And I have worked on someone's campaign in some way ever since.

Beyond my mom and dad it was those videos of the dogs and hoses being used on the marchers in the 60s.  People worked hard to get little old me the right to go into that booth.  I feel not voting would be the most ungrateful thing I could do.  I don't think I could make it throgh an election cycle without voting. 

Michelle

I blog at http://www.mommycan.blogspot.com/

L16 5 pts

All I really remember about my first vote was that I had never heard of some of the parties until I saw them on the ticket.  My guy won our riding handily and has for the past 16 yrs so I don't feel a sense of urgency to vote.  I didn't vote in our last election and am kind of ashamed of that now, but I will vote on Oct 14, regardless of the fact that my guy will no doubt be reelected.  If/when my husband and I move to the states, given the stark differences I perceive in the two parties I would absolutely want to be a citizen so I could vote.  I wish I could donate money or do something for the Amer party I like but obviously I can't for good reason.

My husband is from Ohio so he has been wild about making sure he gets his absentee ballot for this election.  Craig Ferguson did his bit to get the vote out yesterday in an 8 min monologue which was pretty well done.

The one thing I like about both candidates right now is they are emphasizing service to one's country - it's more than just going out and voting every 4 yrs.  I am really trying to take this to heart, and think about how I can serve my own community.

Jill Miller Zimon 5 pts

I'm a sucker for this kind of ruminating - thanks for sharing too.

Jill
Writes Like She Talks ( http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com )

Csamuels 5 pts

My first vote was absentee but it was pretty exciting - I got to vote for Senator Eugene McCarthy, the peace candidate of 1968, for whom I was working.  By the 1972 election I was married and living in Palo Alto.  I always loved voting in California because people opened their homes; you voted in people's garages or basements.  Once in LA I voted in the driveway.  It was so close to the ground; you really got the idea. In Manhattan too, despite its size, communities voted together.  It was so great to go with my kids and see all the other parents with theirs - all of us taking our children into the booth with us to "pull the lever."  

This is a great question - valuing our right to vote is sometimes so automatic that we don't notice the privilege.  And a privilege it is.

Cynthia Samuels, Partner
Cobblestone Associates, LLP
Blog and Media Strategies and Content Development Online and on Television   Don’t
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MMarquit 5 pts

I love this post. Thanks for sharing this. Even though I turned 18 in December, I went down to the county courthouse and registered to vote. And I voted for the first time in a presidential primary in 2000.

First I voted for McCain in the Republican primary (here in Utah, I regularly change my party affiliation from an independent to Republican, just so that I can vote in primaries -- since elections for local office rarely have Democrats in them and the primaries are the real deciding votes). Then I voted for Nader. Because I wanted -- so badly -- for him to get the 5% nationwide that would allow the Green Party a seat at the debate table. Because the two-party system is mostly broken and we badly need an injection of a different viewpoint.

At any rate, I love voting. I take my son with me when I go. We talk issues. And I will never give up this right without a fight.

This Time, It's Personal ( http://www.bloggingprofessional.blogspot.com )

Yielding Wealth ( http://www.yieldingwealth.com )

Southerngirl 5 pts

Thanks for this post Jill.  I had never thought about why I was so passionate about voting I just always did it.  My parents really did beleive in the system and lived what they taught us.  Though we did not always appreciate it. :)  They were both high school grads who became leaders in our community.  They have both passed and I still get people that I do not know telling me how my parents touched their lives in some way. Ordinary people really can do extrordinary things.

Michelle

I blog at http://www.mommycan.blogspot.com/