Is Black the New Bitch?
by Maria Niles

This week, just in time for the panel on which I will be speaking at BlogHer (Race and Gender: What are the lessons of 2008) the political universe goes and plops down a gift wrapped race and gender intersectionality political issue for me to blog.


Jesse Jackson on Barack Obama * I wanna cut his nuts off!

Some observers have focused on the intra-racial aspects of Jesse Jackson's claim that in Obama's speeches on fatherhood, Obama is "talking down" to black Americans.

The added dimension to this comment that exposed some debate and division within the African American community, is the sexism in Jackson's comment about his desire to castrate Obama. Did Jackson feel comfortable directing his comment to Obama in part because Obama is black?

Racialicious guest contributor Luke Lee shares the case of Kim Ng. Ng was harassed at work by being "mocked her in gibberish-speak that was supposed to approximate Chinese" which she calls "the worst episode of sexism – not racism – she has experienced." Lee calls this intersection "racialized sexism."

Let’s say you’re a woman of color climbing the ladder in one of the most male-dominated “boy’s clubs” in America. You’re the assistant to the top spot and when at a meeting with others in your business, a man singles you out asking who you are, why you’re there, what you are and then proceeds to make fun of what he perceives to be your race. While that strikes (and rightly so) everyone as racist, Kim Ng makes an important point here in that when this happens, it’s also sexism. Or more so sexism than racism, according to Ng.

In this case racism is enabled by sexism and functions as a mask.

BlogHer Contributing Editor Snigdha Sen raises an interesting point about a recent so-called honor killing case: And Indian man felt his family was shamed when his son married a black woman and he had his son's wife murdered. If it had been his daughter who had married a black man, likely he would have killed the daughter. Though both would be an issue, ultimately sexism would be enabled by racism and as in the previous case the racism masks the underlying sexism.

During the primary Hillary Clinton was often ascribed masculine traits, seen as positive, through reference to her imaginary possession of male anatomy (testicular fortitude, cojones). Rather than, as with the Hillary Nutcracker, calling out the sexism inherent in the valuing of supposed masculinity and in ascribing strength to having testicles, some feminist supporters not only trumpeted these sexist descriptions of Clinton but turned them on Obama to make emasculating claims.

For example, Donna Darko wrote:

Of the comparable toughness between Sens. Hillary Clinton and Barack Obama, Clinton adviser James Carville tells Newsweek: “If she gave him one of her cojones, they’d both have two.”

No, if she gave him one of her cojones, he’d have one.

I wonder if such commentary would be made if Obama were white (and before you get up in arms that I am accusing Clinton supporters of racism, I am not, please read to the end).

Obama's leadership style embodies qualities of collaboration and consensus building. Those traits are often seen as "female." As a result in Newsweek Martin Linsky wonders if Obama will be "the first woman president?" Ellen Goodman at The Boston Globe sees "the female style - modeled by a man."

Goodman notes the double edge of this sexist sword however:

Ilene Lang heads Catalyst, which surveyed more than 1,200 senior executives in the United States and Europe. This research calculated the tenacity of double binds and double standards. It showed how hard it still is for a woman to be seen as both competent and likable. And it led her to the conclusion that "What defines leadership to most people is one thing. It's male."

As for the Obama style? "Both men and women are much more likely to accept a collaborative style of leadership from men than from women. From women it seems too soft," she adds ruefully.

Feminist author, Courtney E. Martin points out in her post at Crucial Minutiae "Sissy Boys and Big Daddy President" where this apparent lauding of Obama's feminine style meets the troubling racist road:

Obama challenges traditional notions of masculinity and power; McCain reinforces them. One might argue that Obama can do this because of another gross stereotype–”the angry black man.” Because Americans are conditioned to see him as hyper-masculinized by virtue of his race, he has a little more wriggle room in which to try on the so-called feminine style and still be considered manly. It’s hard to imagine McCain ever being feminized, but we certainly saw that happen with John Kerry last go-round.

And that leads me to the answer to the question I posed - no, Obama's gendered critiques are not enabled by his race. While there clearly are intersections of race and gender inherent in the criticism and analysis of Obama, sexism has been directed to white male candidates, as well - white male Democrats that is. Remember the attacks on John Edwards about his hair? The attacks on John Kerry calling him a "pussy" while questioning his war record? Ann Coulter calling Al Gore and Edwards "fag"?

But the most interesting -- and important -- thing about Coulter's hate speech isn't that it is representative the of attitudes of her ideological fellow travelers.

It is the similarity between what Ann Coulter was trying to do by calling John Edwards a "faggot" and what countless "respectable" members of the "MSM" do every day.

Coulter's comments, of course, weren't about convincing people that John Edwards is gay. They were about trying to strip him of his masculinity, to feminize him -- and in doing so take advantage of the cultural stereotypes that equate strength with men and weakness with women to portray Edwards as "wussy" (her word).

The use of epithets like "faggot" to feminize and weaken seems largely self-evident, but for those who desire or require further discussion of this topic, bloggers such as Digby, Bob Somerby, and Andrew Sullivan have all made excellent points this week; excerpts of their work appear below. Glenn Greenwald, meanwhile, explained a corollary principle: "As critical as it is to them to feminize Democratic and liberal males (and to masculinize the women), even more important is to create false images of masculine power and strength around their authority figures."

It is important not only to not lose sight of why these attacks on men are sexist and as worthy of our attention as the attacks on Hillary Clinton and Michelle Obama. As David Mott at Dad's House points out, describing certain qualities as masculine and feminine and viewing them as positive only when performed by the "appropriate" gender, dehumanizes men as well as women:

As a single dad, I spend a good deal of time cultivating “feminine” qualities. When I’m taking care of my kids, I’m caring, nurturing, accepting, showing a softer side. While many of my male friends exhibit some of these same qualities, for the most part they seem more comfortable letting their wives carry the bulk of those traits. Raising my kids alone (the half time they are with me), I don’t have that option.

As Courtney Martin says:

It’s still a fascinating time to examine Americans’ perceptions of gender and power, even with our brave lady out of the race.

And, if you'll be at the BlogHer Conference and are interested in discussing issues of gender, power and race my co-panelists and I would love to talk with you at our panel.

Additional reading:

Liz Cox Barrett at Columbia Journalism Review: Media' Mixed "Nuts" (a.k.a. "A Base Phrase"-Gate)

liketheark at LiveJournal: Barack Obama, future transsexual "Because enforcing binary gender roles makes everything alright!"

Deborah Siegel at Girl w/ Pen!: Is Obama Leading Like a Woman?

Renee Cramer guest posting at Girl w/ Pen!: This Bridge Called Barack

Nordette: Jesse, Obama, Men, and Their Nuts

*Note: The title question is a play on Tina Fey's Saturday Night Live sketch where she declared "bitch is the new black!"

BlogHer CE Maria Niles discusses these issues at her blog PopConsumer

Comments

 

excellent post!

Maria, I am in the middle of reading Derick Jensen's 700 pg "The Culture of Make Believe" in which he delves deeply into the dynamics of racism/sexism/hatred in America. He speaks of the objectification that must precede such hatred -- it is a complex and stunning read that I can not accurately describe in a short space. It is worth a read.

I am pleased, also,to see BlogHer having you address these issues head-on at the conference. WTG BlogHer!!

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Adding to my reading list

Sounds like an interesting read. Now if only I were making progress on my reading list, sigh. I actually wondered if I could squeeze in a re-read of Patricia Hill Collins' Black Feminist Thought before the conference.

And, the objectification that must precede such hatred - it's worth remembering that racism and sexism spring from the same well of dehumanization. They share roots and are inextricably linked.

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Bernie Mac joke

I just read this not five minutes ago:

Introducing Obama at the high-dollar fundraising event in Chicago,
Mac delivered a 10-minute standup routine during which he joked about
sexual promiscuity and referred to women as "hos."

"My little nephew came to me and he said, 'Uncle, what's the
difference between a hypothetical question and a realistic question?"'
Mac said toward the end of his routine. "I said, I don't know, but I
said, 'Go upstairs and ask your mother if she'd make love to the
mailman for $50,000."'

"Hypothetically speaking, we should have $100,000. But realistically
speaking we live with two hos," Mac said, delivering the joke's
punchline.

Sigh.

Anyway - I just started reading Beyond the Whiteness of Whiteness.  It was recommended to me by a good friend but otherwise, I know nothing about it.

 

Jill
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Sigh, indeed

And, interestingly, in the article I read about this incident Bernie Mac was quoted in his apology as saying "Obama is a man's man." And I just shook my head at yet another gendered comment.

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Context

I've been given some context by people I trust to know more than I do about such things and while the joke, such as it is, still falls flat (kind of like McCain's I don't beat my wife thing), I think your comment, Maria - about how it is still a gendered comment (with a laugh dependent on putting women down I would add) is still dead on, and it needs to be eradicated as something to laugh at.  I think that's what bothers me the most.  I know we value being able to laugh at ourselves, but it feels like the usage and the lines are just all over the place, and damaging.

Jill
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Racism or Sexism--Which is the Biggest
Elephant in the Room?

Maria--

Very thought-provoking post.  What got me writing here is the concept of "racialized sexism" referred to by Luke Lee in his comments about sexism and racism experienced by Kim Ng.  As a Black woman, I've experienced so many situations similar to what Kim describes that it would make you cry.  Frankly I did cry sometimes. 

To say though that a given situation is more sexism than racism just underscores that the impact of either or any of the "isms" is clearly in the mind of the beholder.  So which is the biggest "elephant" in the room.  Well from my perspective which I ranted about recently in my list of 50 experiences of being black in America , racism is always the biggest elephant in the room.  

Maybe if I were some other racial minority I could view being discriminated against for being a minority and a woman as "racialized sexism" but I just can't.  I don't think you can throw the "isms" in a blender and come up a smoothie.  

Karen

BlogHer Contributing Editor

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Thanks, Karen

I appreciate your comment. And it is a very good point that individuals experience isms differently so we should be cautious about attempts to rank them. Love the smoothie analogy!

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Brilliant

Your writing on race and gender during this election has been some of the best I've read for anyone. I think you should seriously consider a book. Seriously. 

 

Kim
BlogHer Contributing Editor|Professor Kim|

 

Wow

Thank you, Kim. I'm deeply honored.

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Check...Is this Funny?

Maria,

And Sisters

Take a look at the cover of the Nw Yorker..I posted it here at blogher...Is this Funny? I have no words for this.  I can't wrap my brain around this.  Speak on it if you have the will to do so.

Love,

Babz

 

Hadn't seen

Hi Babz -

Thanks for the heads up on that - here's an Ohio blogger's take on it.

What upsets me the most about this, and I know people may disagree, but I HATED the New Republic cover of a hysterical Hillary Clinton - do you remember that one? And I wrote about it and got into very nasty comment threads with people I know personally, mainly men, who refused to see the sexism and misogyny in it. And I would say, what if they did this to Obama? And still, groans and eye rolls.

Now - equally unacceptable is this New Yorker cover - I'm sorry - but it's just not okay in my book.  It is just as bad as the Hillary cover and though, I can't believe we can even have this as a benchmark, not as bad as that Daily Kos image of Michelle being lynched which was absolutely stupefying (Kim Pearson wrote a great BlogHer piece on that).

I guess this is what I mean about the lines being all over the place and no mutual understanding across a broad enough section of society to say - you may not sell with these images, you may not satirize in this way.  I don't mean in a free speech restriction kind of way - I mean in a "this is nasty, mean-spirited, plays on people's fears and does nothing to promote improving ourselves or our world."

Sorry - I just hate this stuff people try to slide by.  How on earth is that cover ok?  Replace it with Jews, or Latinos.  Why is such caricaturing being done?

Maybe it's me and having no sense of humor.  But I just don't like it.

Was that honest enough? oy - sorry.

Jill
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I think what's most

I think what's most disturbing about that cover is the fact that someone actually THOUGHT it was satire.  It's not satire.  It's parroting back a racist sentiment without any sort of criticism or commnentary.  It upsets me that someone so high up on the New Yorker staff is so ignorant as to both humor and critical commentary.

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Thanks Jill... It isn't funny to me either!

I appreciate the Ohio blogger link!  And I agree with you!  The Hillary Clinton NewYorker cover wasn't funny and neither is this. 

Love,

Babz

 

Equal opportunity

Maria,

Just so you and your readers know, I say this kind of thing to men of all races, especially white men. MAN UP. GET SOME BALLS, GET SOME COJONES. 95% of the men I've criticized online have been white (check out archives of feminist blogs like Feministing, etc). It's not a racial thing. Obama really does need to man up. Is that sexist? How else can you say it? Be a man? Toughen up? Be tougher? Be stronger? Get some balls seems most appropriate.

Alicia

 

Not racist, sexist

Alicia,

Thank you for commenting and adding context to the comment of yours I quoted. I don't think it was a racial thing and I'm sorry if I did not make that sufficiently clear. I asked the initial question about racial context because the desire to cut off Obama's balls came from an African American.

I have no issue with holding and stating the opinion that Clinton was a tougher candidate. But when you value the quality of toughness and equate it with masculinity and having testicles then yes I do believe it is sexist. If Obama needs to "man up" you are saying that being "feminine" does not qualify you to be president. You are saying that Clinton has to be "a man" and that women unless they behave as if they have balls aren't tough enough to be president. So, yes, I do believe, as you ask below, that saying Clinton has balls is just as sexist as telling Obama to get some.

Hillary was a strong, well qualified candidate without assigning her additional anatomy. Also, as quoted above it plays into conservative Republican rhetorical traps which increasingly are seeping into the mainstream media and dominating our political narrative:

Glenn Greenwald, meanwhile, explained a corollary principle: "As critical as it is to them to feminize Democratic and liberal males (and to masculinize the women), even more important is to create false images of masculine power and strength around their authority figures."

I would hope we can fight not perpetuate this form of discourse.

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Clinton has balls

Conversely, was it sexist every time I said CLINTON HAS BALLS. CLINTON HAS COJONES. CLINTON WEARS THE PANTS. CLINTON IS THE MAN IN THIS RACE. All these were said by the media also. How else do you say it? Clinton is the strong one in the race? Clinton is the tougher one in this race? It's much more direct to say it this way,

 

I'd say yes, that's still

I'd say yes, that's still sexist, because it's still equating masculinity with strength.  You've assigned strength/toughness as a prerequisite for the presidency, and by associating that with male anatomy, essentialized masculinity as tough and more presidential.

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Tes-TIC-u-lar fortitude

Wasn't it funny when the union leader said Clinton had

 Tes-TIC-u-lar fortitude.

 Come on, you loved it.

 

Wish I could hear you speak

Maria, I agree with Prof. Kim that you should do a book, and I'm sorry I won't be at BlogHer to hear you speak.

You posted this shortly after I posted my weekly post, which asks readers "When was the first time you realized being a woman was a disadvantage?"

I didn't have time to comment on your post here that night.

In my case, recognizing gender bias came later because race played a bigger role in my life. So I've done some thinking about the gender/race issue. I hope you'll drop by and share your experience.

BTW, I've been talking about the Jesse nuts flap at my personal blog at which I also have that video showing how difficult it was for male anchors to address "cutting off nuts."

I agree that we need to also be aware when we're showing sexist attitudes toward men, especially if applying Gloria Steinem's definition of sexism which is to create policies or adopt attitudes that assume one gender is superior to the other.  My daughter and I have to watch what we say around my son sometimes.

Words are like toothpaste; hard to stuff back in the tube once out, and you'd think Jesse would know by now to assume someone's listening to him.

Thanks for a great post, Maria.

Nordette is a Contributing Editor with BlogHer.com whose personal blog is hosted on another site at this link, BigSole.