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    <title>Plastic Envy</title>
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    <published>2009-06-23T18:00:59-05:00</published>
    <updated>2009-06-23T18:00:59-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Susan Wagner</name>
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    <category term="Body Image" />
    <category term="plastic surgery" />
    <category term="Fashion" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>My friend L had a tummy tuck this winter. She had been talking about it for years, ever since the birth of her third baby. She's a tiny little thing, but after that last pregnancy, her stomach was never flat again, and it bothered her. A lot.</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>My friend L had a tummy tuck this winter. She had been talking about it for years, ever since the birth of her third baby. She's a tiny little thing, but after that last pregnancy, her stomach was never flat again, and it bothered her. A lot.</p>
<p>I never really understood why she wanted the tummy tuck. But all those years ago, when she first brought it up, I was substantially thinner than I am now; in the 18 months after my last baby was born, I went from a size 12 to a size 0. I don't know how; the business of caring for two children wore me down, I think. I remember L telling me that I was &quot;waif-like&quot; and then saying, gently, that she didn't mean that in a good way. She was right; I was too thin. </p>
<p>But I also remember her pointing to my flat stomach and saying, &quot;You're so lucky.&quot;</p>
<p>These days, I'm not wearing a size 0 any more -- not even close. I'm still slim, but there's nothing waifish about me. I don't miss that other, thinner self, but I would kind of like to have my flat stomach back. </p>
<p>When I saw L this week, I was astounded by how fantastic she looked. And honestly? I was a little envious.</p>
<p>Okay a <i>lot</i> envious. </p>
<p>I'm not someone who would ever have plastic surgery; I'm not opposed to it -- if you told me you were having a proceedure of some sort, I wouldn't scoff or try to talk you out of it or scold you -- I just can't wrap my head around the idea of actually doing it myself. But for a variety of reasons -- geography, social class, age -- I know more and more women who are having various little improvements: breast implants, tummy tucks, lipo. My knee-jerk reaction is always to think first about the cost -- L's tummy tuck was the equivalent of a year's tuition for one of my kids, for example -- but I am finding that when I see these friends, with their newly revamped bodies, I am jealous.</p>
<p>And that surprises me.</p>
<p>I'm happy with my body these days, after years of finding one thing or another to dislike about it, everything from my flat chest to my big thighs to my surprising inability to get pregnant. But then I had two babies, and got bigger and smaller and stopped caring so much about what size bra I wore or how my legs looked in shorts.</p>
<p>As I have gotten older, of course, I've found ways to compensate for the little things I don't absolutely love; I have a great padded bra, for one, and a better sense of which hemlines work for me. I also have a healthy respect for my body and what it's capable of.</p>
<p>But I would still love to have a flat stomach and a pair of perfect breasts. Although I tend to forget that until I see a friend who has bought herself a new flat stomach and a pair of perfect breasts.</p>
<p>In the end, I put that perfect body in the same category as a gigantic diamond ring or a pair of Manolos: I understand the aesthetic appeal, but I don't think it would work for my everyday life. But not everyone feels that way: two years ago, <a href="http://www.tertia.org/so_close/2007/02/tennis_bracelet.html" target="_blank" title="So Close">blogger Tertia Albertyn opted for the boobs</a>. &quot;I am dead keen for a new set of perky boobs.  I toyed with the idea a while back then kind of wrote it off but I am reinspired now.  I want those boobs. Keep the diamonds, give me new boobs!&quot;  </p>
<p>These days, I can understand where she's coming from, even if I might not want to go there myself. </p>
<p>What about the health risks of plastic surgery? <a href="http://www.empowher.com/news/herarticle/2009/06/16/are-breast-implants-absolutely-safe" target="_blank" title="empowher">Marcia Yerman, at empowher</a>, reviews &quot;Absolutely Safe,&quot; a documentary about breasts implants and their side effects. Honestly, this convinced me that my push-up bra is the right way to go. </p>
<p>And for the days when I need a reminder that plastic surgery isn't always what we imagine it might be, there's this: <a href="http://www.awfulplasticsurgery.com/" target="_blank" title="Awful Plastic Surgery">Awful Plastic Surgery</a>.  </p>
<p>What about you -- ever find yourself envying another woman's newly revamped body? Why -- or why not? </p>
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  <entry>
    <title>The Uniform Project - One Year, One Dress, One Cause</title>
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    <published>2009-06-21T16:01:03-05:00</published>
    <updated>2009-06-21T16:01:03-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Susan Wagner</name>
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    <category term="The Uniform Project" />
    <category term="Fashion" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Here is the essence of simplifying: Sheena Matheiken is wearing the same dress every day for a year, and blogging the whole experience. She's calling the experience <a href="http://www.theuniformproject.com/" target="_blank" title="The Uniform Project">The Uniform Project</a>; it's a combination of fashion challenge and social outreach.</p>
<p>Matheiken describes her project this way: </p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Here is the essence of simplifying: Sheena Matheiken is wearing the same dress every day for a year, and blogging the whole experience. She's calling the experience <a href="http://www.theuniformproject.com/" target="_blank" title="The Uniform Project">The Uniform Project</a>; it's a combination of fashion challenge and social outreach.</p>
<p>Matheiken describes her project this way: </p>
<blockquote><p>Starting May 2009, I have pledged to wear one dress for one year as an exercise in sustainable fashion. Here’s how it works: There are 7 identical dresses, one for each day of the week. Every day I will reinvent the dress with layers, accessories and all kinds of accouterments, the majority of which will be vintage, hand-made, or hand-me-down goodies. Think of it as wearing a daily uniform with enough creative license to make it look like I just crawled out of the Marquis de Sade's boudoir.</p></blockquote>
<p>The Uniform Project is also a year-long fundraiser for the <b>Akanksha Foundation</b>, a grassroots movement that is revolutionizing education in India. At the end of the year, all contributions will go toward Akanksha’s School Project to fund uniforms and other educational expenses for slum children in India.</p>

<p>I love this; I love the way that Matheiken is challenging the notion of fashion by reinventing the uniform, and I love the way she connects this her own memories of wearing a uniform -- and I especially love that she's using this entire enterprise to raise money for kids who really need it.</p>
<p>Of course, Matheiken isn't the first person to take the one-dress-one-year challenge, or to blog it. <a href="http://kottke.org/09/06/the-uniform-project" target="_blank" title="Kottke.org">Jason Kottke has a roundup of similar projects</a>, and <a href="/node/19415" target="_blank" title="The Brown Dress Project">I wrote about one, the Brown Dress Project</a>, for BlogHer. But Sheena Matheiken's project is different: Rather than trying to break out of the bonds of fashion and style, she's working to make the uniform hip and cool.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/matheiken/sets/72157615742084557/" target="_blank" title="The Uniform Project on Flickr"><img src="http://i199.photobucket.com/albums/aa195/FridayPlaydate/3484041334_0d2b321615_o.jpg" alt="The Uniform Project" align="left" height="213" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="320" /></a>Matheiken and her friend, designer Eliza Starbuck, worked together to create the perfect dress -- and then they made 7, one for each day of the week. The dress is made of heavy-duty cotton and is a tunic design that can be worn forward or backward; it also has pockets, Matheiken says, because she hates to carry a handbag. For the next year, she will dress it up and down with layers and accessories, all found on Etsy or eBay or in thrift stores, or donated by readers.</p>
<p>The Uniform Project is started in May; the website officially launched in June. But already, Matheiken is creating buzz, not all of it positive. Readers at <a href="http://unclutterer.com/2009/06/13/the-uniform-project/" target="_blank" title="Uncluttered">Uncluttered questioned how seven dresses is really creating less clutter</a>. &quot;Huh? How is having 7 identical dresses 'uncluttered'? Why didn’t she choose a single dress that could be hand washed every night and dripp-dried. If she needs seven dresses why not have seven different ones. Gimmicky and silly.&quot;</p>
<p>Readers are also questioning the sustainability angle; many have argued that the Brown Dress project, in which Alex Martin quite literally wore the exact same dress day in and day out for one year, was a more pure exercise in sustainability, because the wear and tear on that dress was clearly evident. I don't disagree with this, but I think that Matheiken is walking a line between sustainability (we don't need a lot to look great) and fashion (one dress can be incredibly versatile). Her project is about doing more with less, not about doing without.</p>
<p>But The Uniform Project is also a fund raiser, designed to help impoverished Indian children pay for school uniforms. In this context, Matheiken's playful reinvention of her basic black dress becomes even more interesting. She is herself the product of Indian schools, and her relationship to clothing as a uniform stems from her childhood: </p>
<blockquote><p>I was raised and schooled in India where uniforms were a mandate in most public schools. Despite the imposed conformity, kids always found a way to bend the rules and flaunt a little personality. Boys rolled up their sleeves, wore over-sized swatches, and hiked up their pants to show off their high-tops. Girls obsessed over bangles, bindis and bad hairdos.</p></blockquote>
<p>For Matheiken, then, the uniform is all about individuality, not about conformity; she treats her basic black dress like a canvas, creating quirky and dramatic characters with accessories and shoes. Her uniform is a constant challenge, not a concession to the rules. </p>
<p>Frankly, I don't think I could do what she's doing. But I'm fascinated by the project, and can't wait to see how else she wears the dress. </p>
<p><a href="http://joannagoddard.blogspot.com/2009/06/uniform-project.html" target="_blank" title="A Cup of Jo">Joanna Goddard at A Cup of Jo</a> has links to the Akanksha Foundation, as well as a selection of images from The Uniform Project.</p>
<p><b>What do you think -- is The Uniform Project a gimmick or a call to simplify? Or is it something else all together? </b></p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Gal Pal Keeps Your Clothes Deodorant-Free</title>
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    <published>2009-06-18T20:40:55-05:00</published>
    <updated>2009-06-18T20:42:17-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Susan Wagner</name>
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    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Hot summer weather means doing everything you can to stay cool -- including layering on more deodorant. Unfortunately, that can lead to unsightly stains on your clothes, which is really not cool. There's nothing worse than looking down during cocktail hour to find a big white streak on your skirt. </p>
<p>You need a Gal Pal.</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Hot summer weather means doing everything you can to stay cool -- including layering on more deodorant. Unfortunately, that can lead to unsightly stains on your clothes, which is really not cool. There's nothing worse than looking down during cocktail hour to find a big white streak on your skirt. </p>
<p>You need a Gal Pal. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.gal-pal.com/store/index.php?main_page=product_info&amp;cPath=2&amp;products_id=3" target="_blank" title="Travel Gal Pal"><img src="http://i199.photobucket.com/albums/aa195/FridayPlaydate/travel-gal-pal-store-front.jpg" alt="Travel Gal Pal" align="left" height="206" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="275" /></a><a href="http://www.gal-pal.com/store/index.php?main_page=product_info&amp;cPath=2&amp;products_id=3" target="_blank" title="Travel Gal Pal">Gal Pals</a> are nifty little purse size pads that rub out deodorant -- and makeup and lotion -- marks on your clothes. They work without water or chemicals, which makes them safe for even the most delicate fabrics.  Rub the Gal Pal gently over the spot and voila! no more deodorant tracks.</p>
<p>According to the Gal Pal website, &quot;The Travel Gal Pal is a two-sided DRY pad that allows you to lift and remove a variety of marks, such as white deodorant marks, make-up/baby powder, lint, dirt and crusted food from most fabrics in seconds. The two different textures of the pad work together. The coarse gray side loosens dirt and marks while the pink softer side effectively buffs them away leaving you smudge free without having to remove your clothes.&quot;</p>
<p>I love my Gal Pal; I wear a lot of black and navy blue in the summer, and I'm constantly finding lotion and deodorant on my clothes. I'm amazed at how well the Gal Pal works; it doesn't pull the fabric of my clothes or leave a worn looking spot, but it <i>does</i> remove whatever schmutz I've wandered into. </p>
<p>Got stubborn deodorant stains? <a href="http://www.fushionmag.com/houseliving/the-magic-of-vinegar/" target="_blank" title="Fushion Magazine">Julie Wiegan at Fushion Magazine</a> recommends white vinegar. </p>
<p>Want to get the deodorant off at the end of the day? Diana at Hot Beauty Health <a href="http://www.hotbeautyhealth.com/underarm/beauty-review-does-clarsskin-underarm-cleanser-actually-work" target="_blank" title="Hot Beauty Health">tested Clarskkin Underarm Cleanser</a> and loved it.  </p>
<p>Te-See at Beauty Style Watch recently had a &quot;piticure,&quot; which included an introduction to <a href="http://www.beautystylewatch.com/2009/06/09/get-your-pitacure-with-dove/" target="_blank" title="Beauty Style Watch">Dove's Ultimate Visibly Smooth</a> anti-perspirant/deodorant.  Is it the best deodorant ever? That's up to you. </p>
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  <entry>
    <title>How to Pack For Your Summer Getaway</title>
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    <published>2009-06-16T21:22:50-05:00</published>
    <updated>2009-06-16T21:46:31-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Susan Wagner</name>
    </author>
    <category term="BlogHer &#039;09" />
    <category term="Fashion" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Still thinking about what to pack for BlogHer? In the comments on <a href="/why-wear-blogher-09-and-why-stop-worrying-about-it-already?wrap=beautyhacks/beautyhacks/fashion" target="_blank">this post</a>, <a href="http://www.sassymonkey.ca/" target="_blank" title="Sassymonkey">Sassymonkey</a> articulated what I'm sure is a common worry: </p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Still thinking about what to pack for BlogHer? In the comments on <a href="/why-wear-blogher-09-and-why-stop-worrying-about-it-already?wrap=beautyhacks/beautyhacks/fashion" target="_blank">this post</a>, <a href="http://www.sassymonkey.ca/" target="_blank" title="Sassymonkey">Sassymonkey</a> articulated what I'm sure is a common worry: </p>
<blockquote><p>We're going to be gone for a whole week because we're heading to Chicago early to play tourist. That's a lot of clothes to pack when you are playing tourist vs not playing tourist. I'm not a good packer. I once, as a child, went away for the weekend and was not informed we'd be going to a wedding and ended up wearing the world's worst outfit ever. I'm still scarred. So I overpack. Always. And yet always forget something rather vital in addition to packing a whole lot of clothes I never wear. Sigh.</p>
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<p>
You really can pack for more than two days without needing a steamer trunk; it just takes planning. Oh don't roll your eyes at me -- it's not that hard. So whether you're Chicago-bound this summer, or heading somewhere else for a week or so, let's talk about how to decide what you'll take. </p>
<p>Start by making a list of everything you're planning to do on your trip. If you will be combining general touristy things with a wedding or conference or reunion, then include all that. Don't be daunted if you find that your list covers a lot of different kinds of events -- you don't want to get to your destination and realize that you're spending a week at the beach without a single swimsuit. </p>
<p>For example.</p>
<p>Once you've listed what you're doing, think about what you're going to wear. Three rules to follow when you get to this point:</p>
<p><b>Plan to be comfortable.</b> If you know it will be hot at your destination, don't plan to wear pants for sightseeing, no matter how much you want to look like all those photos of Jackie Kennedy; pack shorts or skirts or little dresses. </p>
<p><b>Plan to be yourself.</b> If you're not someone who ever wears a dress for day, then don't feel like you need to start now. If you love your shorts, pack them. By the same token, don't take a suitcase full of brand new clothes -- fill in blanks or replace what's not working, but for the most part, stick with pieces that are tried and true. </p>
<p><b>Plan to get dressed up at least once.</b> It's not hard to pack a really beautiful embellished tee or a simple skirt or something that is a little more dressy than your touristy shorts and polo combination. This is a vacation, after all! Go ahead and celebrate. </p>
<p>What else?</p>
<p><b>Mix and match.</b> Pack pieces that will work in more than one way: a pretty skirt that you can dress down with Keds and a tee for sightseeing, or dress up with a bright tank and some embellished sandals for night.</p>
<p><b>Layer, layer, layer.</b> <a href="http://www.webteacher.ws/" target="_blank" title="Web Teacher">Virginia De Bolt</a> has this very very smart suggestion: </p>
<blockquote><p>A sweater or a light jacket is a must for the folks like me who are in that stage of life where the blood moves awfully slow. Jeans, capris, really it's all okay, but have something with long sleeves for the air conditioning.</p>
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<p>A cardigan or light jacket or pashmina scarf are all perfect options for layering. </p>
<p><b>Accessorize!</b> Even if you're a jeans-and-tee girl, a really beautiful necklace or a cool pair of earrings can give your outfit a super cool edge. </p>
<p>Finally, the good stuff: Five things I am absolutely packing for BlogHer (and really, these are the five things I pack for pretty much every trip, with the exception of the beach, where I pack only swimsuits and pajamas -- seriously).</p>
<p>1. Cardigan.</p>
<p>2. Pashmina.</p>
<p>3. Pencil skirt.</p>
<p>4. Laptop-sized tote. </p>
<p>5. Pretty flats.</p>
<p>Want a more detailed list? <a href="http://mzchristie.blogspot.com/2009/06/what-to-pack-on-vacation-over-summer.html" target="_blank">Christie has a great one</a>. </p>
<p><b>What five things do you always pack? What five things do you always regret <i>not</i> bringing? And next week: Organizing nitty gritty, or how to actually choose your outfits. (Can you tell that I have A System for packing? Because I totally do.</b>  </p>
<p><i>Susan Wagner writes about style at <a href="http://www.workitmom.com/bloggers/workingcloset/" title="The Working Closet" target="_blank">The Working Closet</a> and about chic suburban living at <a href="http://fridayplaydate.com/" title="Friday Playdate" target="_blank">Friday Playdate</a>. She can pack for a week in less than 20 minutes, but only because she spends weeks obsessing about it beforehand.</i> </p>
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  <entry>
    <title>What to Wear to BlogHer &#039;09 (And Why to Stop Worrying About it Already)</title>
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    <published>2009-06-14T20:23:08-05:00</published>
    <updated>2009-06-16T07:53:35-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Susan Wagner</name>
    </author>
    <category term="BlogHer &#039;09" />
    <category term="Fashion" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>BlogHer's 2009 conference is in less than six weeks, which means we're entering a phase that totally stresses me out; I like to call it the <i>what-the-hell-do-I-wear?</i> phase. In the past week, I've started stumbling across the first of what will be far too many posts written by women who are convinced that they need to purchase an entirely new wardrobe in order to fit in at BlogHer. </p>
<p>Let's get one thing clear: You do <i>not</i> need to buy new clothes for this event. Nor should you feel any pressure to look some particular way when you show up in Chicago. </p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>BlogHer's 2009 conference is in less than six weeks, which means we're entering a phase that totally stresses me out; I like to call it the <i>what-the-hell-do-I-wear?</i> phase. In the past week, I've started stumbling across the first of what will be far too many posts written by women who are convinced that they need to purchase an entirely new wardrobe in order to fit in at BlogHer. </p>
<p>Let's get one thing clear: You do <i>not</i> need to buy new clothes for this event. Nor should you feel any pressure to look some particular way when you show up in Chicago. </p>
<p>There are no rules about what to wear to BlogHer; I can promise you that if you're making the trip to Chicago in July, you will see absolutely everything, from suits to shorts, at the conference. BlogHer is all about inclusion, which means that no matter what you have on, your voice matters, and you will be welcomed into the conversation.</p>
<p>At least a third of you think I'm lying through my teeth right now, don't you? I'm not, but let's talk about strategies for BlogHer -- or, if you're not attending BlogHer this year, for any time you're meeting people from the Internet who know you through your words rather than through your closet.</p>
<p><a href="http://flotsamblog.com/2009/06/12/an-hour-in-the-life/" target="_blank" title="Flotsam">Alexa at Flotsam</a> is asking a couple of fairly standard questions: &quot;What does one wear at BlogHer? Does one change in the evenings? Change into what, exactly?&quot;</p>
<p>Let's start with what to wear during the day: Wear what you're comfortable in. If you're a jeans-and-tee kind of girl, don't buy yourself a bunch of dresses -- wear jeans and a tee. BlogHer -- or any meetup with Internet peeps -- is about being yourself, not dressing up as someone else.</p>
<p>Of course, there are caveats: If you're coming to BlogHer to look for work, think about how to present your most professional self; pair your tee with dark wash, mid-rise jeans, for example, rather than that low-rise pair with the hole in the ass.</p>
<p>If you're coming to BlogHer to get away from your everyday life, think about bringing those pieces that you wish you could wear everyday but that just don't work for you -- the sweater you don't want the kids touching or the dress that is just not quite appropriate for the office. </p>
<p>More caveats: Road test everything before you pack your suitcase -- does that blouse really work with those pants, or is it too long/short? Better to know now than when it's the only thing you have to wear for the entire day. If you're going to buy new things to wear to BlogHer (or on any trip, really) wear them once before you hit the road. New clothes are so appealing, but you want to know that things are comfortable and functional before you're stuck in them all day with no other option.</p>
<p>Also! Pack comfortable shoes for day. I don't even have to say that, do I?</p>
<p>Back to Alexa's questions: &quot;Does one change in the evenings? Change into what, exactly?&quot; Okay, here's where I confess: <a href="/party-blogstar-comprehensive-list-blogher-09-parties" target="_blank" title="BlogHer 09 parties">This list of parties</a>? Makes me a little nervous. Because suddenly I feel like I'm in tenth grade again and don't have a date to the prom, which shouldn't matter because the prom is for juniors and seniors but <i>everyone</i> in my class is going, except me, which probably means I'm a total loser. </p>
<p>Do not pretend you don't know what I'm talking about.</p>
<p>What do you wear at night at BlogHer? Again, wear what's comfortable. Don't feel like you have to bring a cocktail dress just because there are parties that start during the cocktail hour, but if you're an LBD kind of girl, pack it. Wear what will make you comfortable, physically and psychologically.</p>
<p>What will I be wearing? The same thing I wear every day, honestly -- dresses and skirts, and maybe a pair of cropped pants. I'm bringing cardigans because I'm always cold and flats because heels are too hard to walk fast in. </p>
<p><a href="http://room704.us/2009/06/what-to-wear-to-blogher-09-part-one/" target="_blank" title="Room 704">Kaiser Mommy at Room 704 is planning her conference packing</a>; go see what she's looking at wearing.  <a href="http://www.socialluxelounge.com/2009/05/05/what-to-pack-for-blogher-09/" target="_blank" title="Social Luxe Lounge">Ciaran at Social Luxe Lounge is also planning</a>; I want the orange print dress she's coveting. </p>
<p><b>Do you have packing tips for BlogHer, or questions about what to put in your suitcase? Let's hear them! </b></p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Closet Full of Stuff You Don&#039;t Wear? Time to Host a Swap!</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogher.com/closet-full-stuff-you-dont-wear-time-host-swap" />
    <id>http://www.blogher.com/closet-full-stuff-you-dont-wear-time-host-swap</id>
    <published>2009-06-10T14:08:08-05:00</published>
    <updated>2009-06-10T14:08:08-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Susan Wagner</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Fashion" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>So you're <a href="/organizing-your-closet-keep-it-cheap-and-easy?wrap=beautyhacks/beautyhacks/fashion" target="_blank" title="BeautyHacks">cleaning our your closet, getting all organized and edited</a> -- but now you have a big pile of stuff that doesn't work for you, but that seems too nice for Goodwill. Some of us have that friend or sister or neighbor that we trade closet cast-offs with, but what if you have more stuff than just one person needs? Or what if your stuff is in a range of sizes and shapes?</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>So you're <a href="/organizing-your-closet-keep-it-cheap-and-easy?wrap=beautyhacks/beautyhacks/fashion" target="_blank" title="BeautyHacks">cleaning our your closet, getting all organized and edited</a> -- but now you have a big pile of stuff that doesn't work for you, but that seems too nice for Goodwill. Some of us have that friend or sister or neighbor that we trade closet cast-offs with, but what if you have more stuff than just one person needs? Or what if your stuff is in a range of sizes and shapes? Or what if you're just looking for an excuse to hang out with your friends and talk about shoes all evening? </p>
<p>Methinks it's time for a clothing swap.</p>
<p>There are a few simple tips that will make your swap go smoothly. Start by inviting a group of women who are similar sizes and shapes. No, they don't all have to be built exactly like you, but choose a fairly small range, so that everyone will be able to find something that fits. <a href="http://touchstonetherapy.blogspot.com/2009/05/clothing-swap_11.html" target="_blank" title="Touchstone Therapy">Anna</a> says, &quot;I sent an evite to 12 women for Saturday from 3-6 at my apartment. The requirements were that they be in my age group (30-mumble), between the sizes of 6 and 12, and women I knew would be honest if I looked ridiculous in something.&quot; I like the way she laid the groundwork here; she found a strategy to guarantee that everyone would both be able to wear something from the swap pile and to insure that everyone's choices would be both age-appropriate <i>and</i> really stunning on them. </p>
<p>Anna and her friends had some other very savvy rules: &quot;No one was allowed to talk themselves into something they didn't look fantastic in. A few folks took some three-month trial pieces ('If you don't wear that in three months, it goes to Goodwill or back to the next swap!'). A few times there was discussion over a certain piece ('I like it but I don't love it. If <i> you</i> love it, you should take it. It looks great on you!'). Anna's friends were cordial and generous and kind, which is important when you're trading clothes.</p>
<p>(You can see the full Flickr set from Anna's swap <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rrrock/sets/72157618008916492/" target="_blank">here</a>.) </p>
<p>So how do you organize the actuall swapping? That's up to you. I would suggest having everyone unpack what they've brought and arranging pieces by category (pants, skirts, dresses, tops, shoes, etc). You can provide private spaces for changing, but your friends should be ready to show off every outfit they try on. If you have a guest who is particularly good at mixing and matching and creating outfits, you might put her in charge of acting as personal stylist. Serve some light refreshments, turn on some music, and get dressed!</p>
<p>If you're thinking about a higher-end swap, of designer pieces, say, or evening wear, you might want to host something more like a community tag sale. Participants can price each piece (you provide tags and paper to keep track of who wants what) and then they can settle up with each other at the end of the night. Keep it reasonable, though -- the goal here isn't to make a million dollars off your friends, but to trade the things you're not wearing for things you will.</p>
<p>What about the leftovers? The host can arrange to donate whatever isn't swapped, but one rule should always be that no one leaves with anything she brought -- once it comes into the swap, it can only go home with a new owner. </p>
<p>The best part of a clothing swap, though, is the possibility that you might come home with something fabulous. <a href="http://bearca.blogspot.com/" target="_blank" title="Bearca">Rebecca</a>, who is a veteran swapper, says that at her last swap, &quot;I scored a pair of Hudson jeans and a few Michael Stars tank tops that didn't fit a friend anymore, while simultaneously shedding items from my closet that weren't getting worn.&quot; </p>
<p>Have you ever hosted or attended a clothing swap? Do you have any tips for successful swapping? Or are you opposed to this in general? Let's hear it!</p>
<p><i>Susan Wagner writes about style at <a href="http://www.workitmom.com/bloggers/workingcloset/" title="The Working Closet" target="_blank">The Working Closet</a> and about chic suburban living at <a href="http://fridayplaydate.com/" title="Friday Playdate" target="_blank">Friday Playdate</a>. She has a pile of things she would be happy to swap, if you just lived a little closer.</i> </p>
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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Foundation Brush Demystified!</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogher.com/foundation-brush-demystified" />
    <id>http://www.blogher.com/foundation-brush-demystified</id>
    <published>2009-06-08T12:45:47-05:00</published>
    <updated>2009-06-08T12:45:47-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Susan Wagner</name>
    </author>
    <category term="BeautyHacks" />
    <category term="Makeup" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I use a foundation brush every single day -- or at least every single day that I wear foundation (which is nearly every day, honestly). I love my brush because it gives me great control and coverage, and it seems more hygienic than using my fingers. But I always worried that a brush would layer my foundation on thicker than I really wanted and leave me looking made up rather than just polished. </p>
<p>But now I've found a solution to that! And totally by accident, which is typical of all the great solutions in the history of solutions. </p>
    ]]></summary>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I use a foundation brush every single day -- or at least every single day that I wear foundation (which is nearly every day, honestly). I love my brush because it gives me great control and coverage, and it seems more hygienic than using my fingers. But I always worried that a brush would layer my foundation on thicker than I really wanted and leave me looking made up rather than just polished. </p>
<p>But now I've found a solution to that! And totally by accident, which is typical of all the great solutions in the history of solutions. </p>
<p>I wash my foundation brush after every use, to prevent bacterial buildup. One day last week, I didn't shower until later in the day -- right before dinner, in fact -- and the next morning, when I got ready to put my makeup on, the brush was still damp from the night before. I used it anyway and you know what? The slightly damp bristles on the brush thinned my foundation just enough to leave my skin looking smooth and perfect but not at all made up.</p>
<p>Ta da!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.target.com/Sonia-Kashuk-Nylon-Foundation-Brush/dp/B000FRB2M8/qid=1244483010/ref=br_1_7/178-4160421-4931914?ie=UTF8&amp;node=13418071&amp;frombrowse=1&amp;pricerange=&amp;index=tgt-mf-mv&amp;field-browse=13418071&amp;rank=pmrank&amp;rh=&amp;page=2" target="_blank" title="Sonia Kashuk Foundation Brush"><img src="http://i199.photobucket.com/albums/aa195/FridayPlaydate/319TNR93N1L_AA400_.jpg" alt="Sonia Kashuk Foundation Brush" align="left" height="320" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="320" /></a>The next day I tried rinsing the brush and then blotting it with a towel -- same results. Like a damp foundation sponge, a damp foundation brush really lightens up the application, but still gives you the same even, smooth, perfect results.</p>
<p>I'm using a <a href="http://www.target.com/Sonia-Kashuk-Nylon-Foundation-Brush/dp/B000FRB2M8/qid=1244481748/ref=br_1_23/178-4160421-4931914?ie=UTF8&amp;node=13418071&amp;frombrowse=1&amp;pricerange=&amp;index=tgt-mf-mv&amp;field-browse=13418071&amp;rank=pmrank&amp;rh=&amp;page=1" target="_blank" title="Sonia Kashuk">Sonia Kashuk foundation brush</a>, which retails at Target for $9.99 (there's <a href="http://www.target.com/Kashuk-Tools-Foundation-Brush/dp/B000FYRCWK/qid=1244481847/ref=br_1_9/178-4160421-4931914?ie=UTF8&amp;node=671463011&amp;frombrowse=1&amp;rh=&amp;page=1" target="_blank" title="Sonia Kashuk foundation brush">a slightly higher end brush</a> that retails for $14.99, too). When you're shopping for a foundation brush, look for synthetic bristles (natural bristles are too hard to clean). Wash your brush after every use; I like baby shampoo or baby wash for my makeup brushes, since it's gentle and rinses easily. Air dry, and replace as needed -- my last foundation brush, washed nearly every day, probably lasted almost two years before the handle split.</p>
<p>Need more brush cleaning tips? Row at <a href="http://cosmetic-candy.com/?p=6730" target="_blank" title="Cosmetic Candy">Cosmetic Candy found a great cleaner</a> -- at the local art store!  </p>
<p>Target reviewers who disliked the Sonia Kashuk brushes recommended the EcoTools line; <a href="http://primpcesses.blogspot.com/2009/05/review-update-ecotools-foundation-brush.html" target="_blank" title="Cheap and Chic">Cheap and Chic has the lowdown on these brushes</a>.</p>
<p>And <a href="http://www.faboverforty.com/beauty/la-mer-treatement-powder-foundation/" target="_blank" title="Fab over Forty">Kari at Fabulous Over Forty</a> has a cautionary tale about great foundation that should NEVER be applied with a makeup brush. Heed her experience. </p>
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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Skip the Hose</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogher.com/skip-hose" />
    <id>http://www.blogher.com/skip-hose</id>
    <published>2009-06-07T20:41:08-05:00</published>
    <updated>2009-06-07T20:42:31-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Susan Wagner</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Fashion" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p><i>I have a short cocktail dress that I am going to a formal in. (No, not wearing a long dress -- this time.)  I would like to wear less shoe -- a high heel sandal.  The dress is brightish blue (I have a &quot;no black&quot; rule this year) with a black trim.  What should I do --  to hose or  not hose? <br /></i></p>
<p><i>- Joyce</i></p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p><i>I have a short cocktail dress that I am going to a formal in. (No, not wearing a long dress -- this time.)  I would like to wear less shoe -- a high heel sandal.  The dress is brightish blue (I have a &quot;no black&quot; rule this year) with a black trim.  What should I do --  to hose or  not hose? <br /></i></p>
<p><i>- Joyce</i>Joyce should skip the hose, for several reasons. While a short dress is perfect for evening-- even for a formal event -- hose will make the dress look frumpy rather than sophisticated. And with the dress Joyce has described, her only hosiery options are either a sheer stocking (which almost never looks natural) or black stockings, which are too dark for summer.</p>
<p>Joyce is planning to pair her dress with a pair of evening sandals, which also rules out stockings; any sort of hosiery will be visible under the sandals, which are, after all, meant to show off bare feet.  While you can pair peep toes with dramatic tights for winter, sandals should never be worn over anything. Ever.</p>
<p>So what should Joyce do instead?</p>
<p>If she's going to wear her short cocktail dress with bare legs and she's feeling a little on the pale side, she might want to look into a self tanner, or an airbrush tan.  She should opt for a very light &quot;tan&quot; either way, just enough to give her a little color, if she desires. </p>
<p>A pedicure is also in order if she's sporting a sandal; she can do it herself at home, or go to a salon for the deluxe treatment. What colors are best? I like to pair a dramatic pedicure -- black or deep red or bright pink -- with a more subtle manicure. Joyce can also choose a color that compliments her shoe; black polish is nice with silver shoes, while black goes with ... well, everything.</p>
<p>Not comfortable with bare legs for a formal event? Invest in a really great pair of hose, with a higher denier -- they'll look more natural and be less likely to run or ladder. Match the color to the skin on your arms for a natural look. And trade out the sandals for a dressy evening pump.</p>
<p>The <a href="http://www.fabulousafter40.com/style-q-a-the-lowdown-on-pantyhose/" target="_blank" title="Style After 40">Glam Gals at Style After 40</a> say yes, panty hose will age you -- but they have tips for looking less old, if you need to wear hose. </p>
<p>Looking for other bare-leg-looks? <a href="http://fashiontribes.typepad.com/fashion/2009/06/a-cute-summer-sun-dress-look.html" target="_blank" title="fashiontribes">Fashiontribes' Lesley Scott</a> has summer sundress suggestions, and <a href="http://www.fabsugar.com/3241493" target="_blank" title="FabSugar">FabSugar wants to know which Olsen twin looked better</a> at the premier of The Hangover. Hey look NEITHER is wearing stockings! Which totally proves my point. </p>
<p><i>Susan Wagner writes about style at <a href="http://www.workitmom.com/bloggers/workingcloset/" title="The Working Closet" target="_blank">The Working Closet</a> and about chic suburban living at <a href="http://fridayplaydate.com/" title="Friday Playdate" target="_blank">Friday Playdate</a>. She doesn't own any panty hose.</i></p>
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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Closet Boring You? Have a Party!</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogher.com/closet-boring-you-have-party" />
    <id>http://www.blogher.com/closet-boring-you-have-party</id>
    <published>2009-06-02T14:00:00-05:00</published>
    <updated>2009-06-02T14:41:57-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Susan Wagner</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Fashion" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Style experts all say the same thing about cleaning out your closet: Get rid of everything that you're not actually wearing. It sounds so simple, but there's always that one piece -- a dress or skirt or blouse -- that you can't quite work into your everyday wardrobe because it's too fancy for casual wear and too fussy for the office. But you don't want to part with it because it's just really cool or fun or distinctive, and every time you look at it you know it would be <i>perfect</i> if you <i>just</i> had a place to wear it. </p>
    ]]></summary>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Style experts all say the same thing about cleaning out your closet: Get rid of everything that you're not actually wearing. It sounds so simple, but there's always that one piece -- a dress or skirt or blouse -- that you can't quite work into your everyday wardrobe because it's too fancy for casual wear and too fussy for the office. But you don't want to part with it because it's just really cool or fun or distinctive, and every time you look at it you know it would be <i>perfect</i> if you <i>just</i> had a place to wear it. </p>
<p>How about this: Instead of waiting for an opportunity to wear that can't-part-with-it piece, create one! Throw a party, specifically so you can wear that unwearable item. If you like, make it a girls' night and invite everyone to wear her unwearable piece. Or just take advantage of your role as hostess and dress up a little. </p>
<p>The theory is simple: Most of us wear what's practical for every day, especially in a recession. We're also going out less, which means that we're wearing our every day clothes for everything. Working that great taffeta ballet skirt or elaborately beaded tee into that very practical wardrobe can be tough; there's always a reason to opt for something more practical (pants, say, or a tee that can go in the washing machine). Busting out that awkward piece will give you the rush of shopping without spending a dime. </p>
<p>Or it will convince you to part with that complicated piece forever. But we'll get to that in a minute.</p>
<p>Keep the party simple; I'm all about the cocktail hour these days, because it's the perfect combination of affordable and chic. Serve one signature drink -- margaritas are always popular, although a Madras (vodka, orange juice and cranberry juice, with a twist of lime) is perfect for summer. Set out simple hors d'oeuvres (a cheese plate and some olives or fresh fruit, or chips and a selection of salsa), turn on some music, and enjoy!</p>
<p>A word of caution: Try on whatever it is that you're planning to wear <i>before</i> your guests show up. Make sure it fits and is comfortable to sit and move in. It's possible that the reason that dress just hangs there is because you can't breathe in it, or because it constantly slips off your shoulders. If your can't-part-with-it piece is too small, either pack it up or give it away; don't leave it hanging in your closet. If it's too big and can be altered, then do it; if it's too big and cannot be taken in, pack it up or give it away. </p>
<p>Make a deal with yourself, though: The party is an opportunity to do something with that piece you don't know what to do with.</p>
<p>What if you have more than one can't-part-with-it piece in your closet? Then consider hosting a clothing swap! We'll talk more next week about how to do that.</p>
<p>Is your unwearable dress something formal? Consider donating it to a group like <a href="http://dreamgroupplanners.blogspot.com/2009/05/dont-miss-out.html" target="_blank" title="The Cinderella Project">The Cinderella Project</a>. &quot;DreamGroup and the Cinderella Project are working together to gather<br />
beautiful dresses for young ladies to wear to their high school prom or<br />
graduation event.&quot; I love that.</p>
<p>Still having a hard time imagining letting go of your clothes? Time to revisit <a href="http://www.thebudgetfashionista.com/archive/fashion_advice_the_cost_per_wear_ratio2/" target="_blank" title="The Budget Fashionista">The Budget Fashionista's cost-per-wear rules</a>. Print that out and hang it in the closet.</p>
<p>The girls at <a href="http://www.stylebakery.com/ask-us/question_about_vintage_tank_dress_and_ray-ban_wayfarers.html" target="_blank" title="Style Bakery">Style Bakery have tips for updating a vintage dress</a> -- if your unwearable piece is a tank dress, check this out. </p>
<p><i>Susan Wagner writes about style at <a href="http://www.workitmom.com/bloggers/workingcloset/" title="The Working Closet" target="_blank">The Working Closet</a> and about chic suburban living at <a href="http://fridayplaydate.com/" title="Friday Playdate" target="_blank">Friday Playdate</a>.</i> </p>
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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Band-Aid Friction Block Makes New Shoes Super Comfortable</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogher.com/band-aid-friction-block-makes-new-shoes-super-comfortable" />
    <id>http://www.blogher.com/band-aid-friction-block-makes-new-shoes-super-comfortable</id>
    <published>2009-06-01T10:11:04-05:00</published>
    <updated>2009-06-01T10:11:04-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Susan Wagner</name>
    </author>
    <category term="BeautyHacks" />
    <category term="Skin" />
    <category term="Fashion" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I bought a new pair of dress shoes recently -- pink patent peep toe pumps (that is so much fun to say). They're adorable and they fit really well, but I'm not really a heels girl, and I hate being uncomfortable. Or maybe I'm not a heels girl <i>because</i> I hate being uncomfortable. Either way, I did not want those shoes to rub or pinch or do anything except be super cute. </p>
<p>And that's where the Band-Aid Friction Block Stick comes in. </p>
    ]]></summary>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I bought a new pair of dress shoes recently -- pink patent peep toe pumps (that is so much fun to say). They're adorable and they fit really well, but I'm not really a heels girl, and I hate being uncomfortable. Or maybe I'm not a heels girl <i>because</i> I hate being uncomfortable. Either way, I did not want those shoes to rub or pinch or do anything except be super cute. </p>
<p>And that's where the Band-Aid Friction Block Stick comes in. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.drugstore.com/qxp163404_333181_sespider/band_aid/active_friction_block_stick.htm" target="_blank" title="Drugstore.com"><img src="http://i199.photobucket.com/albums/aa195/FridayPlaydate/300-2.jpg" alt="Band-Aid Friction Block" align="left" height="300" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="300" /></a>Friction Block is a waxy stick, made up of hydrogenated vegetable oil and cetyl alcohol; you rub it over any parts of your feet where your shoes might also rub, and voila! no friction, and no blisters or sore spots. It is lightweight and has a pleasant, neutral scent; it also has no color, and doesn't stain or mark your shoes or feet.</p>
<p>I've used the Friction Block Stick pretty regularly over the past couple of weeks with the new peep toe pumps, my current walking shoes, and a pair of ballet flats that always rubbed in one particular spot on my heel. I'm really impressed; in every case, it left my feet feeling pampered and protected, and warded off hot spots and blisters, despite a long day of walking and standing.</p>
<p>Friction Block comes in a neat little stick, small enough to toss in your purse or suitcase. It's the perfect addition to a bridesmaids' basket, if you're gathering things for your attendants (aspirin, tissues, wee little lint roller, etc). It's also a nice addition to a guest room, for folks who come to visit and plan to sightsee. And of course, it's the perfect companion to those new shoes you are dying to wear, say, in Chicago in July. Just for example.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.drugstore.com/qxp163404_333181_sespider/band_aid/active_friction_block_stick.htm" target="_blank" title="Band Aid Friction Block">Friction Block is available at drugstores for about $7.50</a>. Johnson and Johnson very kindly sent me a sample; my feet say thank you. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.makeupandbeautyblog.com/product-reviews/band-aid-friction-block-stick-makes-flip-flops-more-comfortable/" target="_blank" title="Makeup and Beauty Blog">Karen at the Makeup and Beauty Blog</a> is using her Band-Aid Friction Stick to make her flip flops more comfortable. <a href="http://blog.timesunion.com/kristi/10663/prevent-blisters-with-band-aid-friction-block-stick/" target="_blank" title="On the Edge">Kristi Gustafsen at On the Edge</a> is also a fan.  But <a href="http://www.thebudgetfashionista.com/archive/band-aid-friction-block-product-review/" target="_blank" title="The Budget Fashionista">Angela at The Budget Fashionista</a> is not a fan: &quot;For upwards of $7, it just didn’t do the trick well enough or long enough to bother.&quot; </p>
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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Organize Your Shoes</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogher.com/organize-your-shoes" />
    <id>http://www.blogher.com/organize-your-shoes</id>
    <published>2009-05-28T09:16:53-05:00</published>
    <updated>2009-06-02T09:30:09-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Susan Wagner</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Home &amp; Garden" />
    <category term="Organize Your Life" />
    <category term="Fashion" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>My favorite thing about summer is not having to wear shoes, ever -- I go barefoot as often as I can, and when I am compelled to put something on my feet, I opt for sandals or flip flops. Because as much as I love a pair of pretty shoes, I love my bare feet more. </p>
    ]]></summary>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>My favorite thing about summer is not having to wear shoes, ever -- I go barefoot as often as I can, and when I am compelled to put something on my feet, I opt for sandals or flip flops. Because as much as I love a pair of pretty shoes, I love my bare feet more. </p>
<p>Summer is a great time to take stock of your shoes and get organized. As with any closet purge, start by going through your entire shoe wardrobe, every single pair. Look for wear and tear and then deal with what ails your shoes. A cobbler can replace worn soles and heels; a coat of shoe polish can do wonders for scuffs and scratches. Any shoes that are damaged beyond repair -- stained or splitting or just smooshed with wear -- should be tossed; shoes that are in good condition but just aren't working for you right now can be donated.</p>
<p>Now you need a way to organize what's left. I want to suggest two things: clear plastic storage boxes, and a shoe rack. The clear boxes are for shoes you will not be wearing every day (or even every week). Those loafers that you only bust out in the winter, for example, can go in a box; so can the silk slingbacks that you wear to every wedding all summer long. Boxes keep your shoes from getting dusty; they also prevent them from getting crushed in the bottom of your closet. Stack the boxes in the top of your closet, where you can see and easily access them, but out of the way of your everyday dressing routine.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.containerstore.com/browse/Product.jhtml?CATID=154&amp;PRODID=10024249" target="_blank" title="The Container Store"><img src="http://i199.photobucket.com/albums/aa195/FridayPlaydate/DropFrontShoeBoxes_x.jpg" alt="The Container Store" align="left" height="320" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="320" /></a>I am completely in love with these drop-front shoe boxes from The Container Store -- I have the ones that have a lid on the top, and while they work fine, they're kind of a pain to get out. But these are fabulous! I might have to order a few ... <a href="http://www.containerstore.com/browse/Product.jhtml?CATID=154&amp;PRODID=10024249" target="_blank" title="The Container Store">Women's drop-front shoe boxes, $6.99 each at The Container Store.</a></p>
<p>For shoes you're going to wear right now, think about a shoe rack or shelving unit. I keep the shoes I'm currently wearing on the shelves in my closet -- I can see them and get to them easily when I'm planning an outfit (or running out the door, which is the more likely scenario). If you're pressed for closet space, think about an over-the-door rack, or one that sits on the floor under your clothes. A rack or shelf creates a dedicated space for your shoes, and will compel you to actually PUT THEM AWAY, rather than just kicking them off and leaving them around. Or at least that's the theory. (Ask my husband how often I leave my shoes under the ottoman in our living room. Go ahead, ask him! It's horrifying.) </p>
<p><img src="http://i199.photobucket.com/albums/aa195/FridayPlaydate/CedarBootShapers_xl.jpg" alt="The Container Store" align="right" height="320" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="320" />Once you've got your shoes up off the floor, get your boots ready to store. It's worth investing in boot shapers; they'll keep the shaft from collapsing on itself and getting all scrunched up. The Container Store has simple <a href="http://www.containerstore.com/browse/Product.jhtml?CATID=156&amp;PRODID=59773" target="_blank" title="The Container Store">plastic boot shapers</a> for $9.00 a pair; they're spring loaded and come with a hook for hanging your boots. They also have some super fabulous <a href="http://www.containerstore.com/browse/Product.jhtml?CATID=156&amp;PRODID=10020411" target="_blank" title="The Container Store">cedar boot shapers</a>, which would be perfect for any closet. They're a little more pricey, at $59.00 a pair, but they're beautiful, and if you're boots have any sort of <i>eau de pied</i> thing going on, the cedar is a nice option. And if you're planning to store your boots in the closet with your winter clothes, the cedar will help ward off moths. </p>
<p>Not interested in shelling out for boot shapers? You can roll up a magazine or catalog an stick it in your boot for the same effect. You're welcome. </p>
<p>Shop it to Me <a href="http://blog.shopittome.com/2009/05/21/the-classic-debate-%E2%80%93-are-flip-flops-okay-for-the-office/" target="_blank" title="Shop it to Me">reopens the flip flops at work debate</a>. I say no, but not everyone agrees. </p>
<p>Now that you've cleaned out your closet, <a href="http://www.thefashionablehousewife.com/05/2009/new-shoe-store-shoebliss-opens-with-huge-sale/" target="_blank" title="The Fashionable Housewife">The Fashionable Housewife has a deal on shoes for you</a>! </p>
<p>Abby Park at The Organizing Life has a whole category titled &quot;<a href="http://www.organizing-life.com/category/organizing-project/" target="_blank" title="Organizing Life">Organizing Project</a>.&quot; I was mesmerized by these posts -- and inspired to start getting my act together. I think I'll start by putting away all the shoes piled under the ottoman! </p>
<p><i>Susan Wagner writes about style at <a href="http://www.workitmom.com/bloggers/workingcloset/" title="The Working Closet" target="_blank">The Working Closet</a> and about chic suburban living at <a href="http://fridayplaydate.com/" title="Friday Playdate" target="_blank">Friday Playdate</a>. She dreams of a day when her kids will keep their closets clean, without her help. </i></p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Control Summer Shine With Blotting Papers, Not Powder</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogher.com/control-summer-shine-blotting-papers-not-powder" />
    <id>http://www.blogher.com/control-summer-shine-blotting-papers-not-powder</id>
    <published>2009-05-26T11:10:55-05:00</published>
    <updated>2009-06-05T15:30:16-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Susan Wagner</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Skin" />
    <category term="Summer skincare" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I have oily skin; it's both a blessing and a curse. I have very few wrinkles, which are apparently a side effect of the oiliness, but I'm also constantly shiny, especially in humid weather. I've tried all sorts of things to control the oil, but nothing worked, and most of my strategies made my skin worse. Oil absorbing primers blocked my pores, powder caked and flaked, and astringents made my skin <i>more</i> oily. What's a girl to do? </p>
<p>Well, stop trying so hard, apparently. And get some blotting paper.</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I have oily skin; it's both a blessing and a curse. I have very few wrinkles, which are apparently a side effect of the oiliness, but I'm also constantly shiny, especially in humid weather. I've tried all sorts of things to control the oil, but nothing worked, and most of my strategies made my skin worse. Oil absorbing primers blocked my pores, powder caked and flaked, and astringents made my skin <i>more</i> oily. What's a girl to do? </p>
<p>Well, stop trying so hard, apparently. And get some blotting paper.</p>
<p>The less I do to my skin, the less oily it is; overcleansing can actually make skin produce more oil, believe it or not (I did not, for many years). If you have oily skin, wash twice a day with a gentle cleanser (I like <a href="http://www.neutrogena.com/econsumer/ntg/productdetail.browse?segment=women&amp;catId=1&amp;subCatId=3&amp;productId=30&amp;target=/products/face/fresh-foaming-cleanser.jsp" target="_blank" title="Neutrogena Fresh Foaming Cleanser">Neutrogena's Fresh Foaming Cleanser</a>; it gets rid of the makeup and grime and oil but doesn't dry my skin) and moisturize only where you need it. I use a very lightweight sunscreen all over my face every day in lieu of moisturizer, but I use a formula that is made for oily skin (<a href="http://www.neutrogena.com/econsumer/ntg/productdetail.browse?segment=women&amp;catId=3&amp;subCatId=9&amp;productId=329&amp;target=/products/sun/ultra-sheer-dry-touch-sunblock-spf-55-&amp;-70.jsp" target="_blank" title="Neutrogena Ultra Sheer Dry Touch Sunblock">Neutrogena's Ultra Sheer Dry Touch Sunblock</a>). </p>
<p>During the day, though, I still get shiny, especially when it's humid (and where I live, it is <i>always</i> humid). I carry blotting papers with me everywhere -- I have them in my purse and in my car and in my makeup bag -- and I use them liberally, whenever I need them. Blotting papers, if you don't know, are like sturdy pieces of tissue paper; they're specially designed to soak up oil, without disturbing your makeup. They'll leave your face looking matte and clean, without adding powder or lotion or anything you don't want on your skin.</p>
<p>My favorites for the longest time were the Sonia Kashuk blotting papers that Target carried; they were about the size of an index card, which was perfect for my forehead (short bangs + oily T zone = shiny forehead). But they seem to have vanished, which makes me incredibly sad. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.drugstore.com/qxp68807_333181_sespider/clean_and_clear/oil_absorbing_sheets.htm" target="_blank" title="Clean and Clear Oil Absorbing Sheets"><img src="http://i199.photobucket.com/albums/aa195/FridayPlaydate/200-3.jpg" alt="Clean and Clear Oil Absorbing Sheets" align="left" height="200" width="200" /></a>I've also used <a href="http://www.drugstore.com/qxp68807_333181_sespider/clean_and_clear/oil_absorbing_sheets.htm" target="_blank" title="Clean and Clear Oil Absorbing sheets">Clean and Clear's Oil Absorbing Sheets</a> (about $5.00 for 50 sheets). They're smaller than the Sonia Kashuk brand, but they're super portable and they work really well. </p>
<p> How do you use a blotting paper? Simple: pull one out of the little packet -- the Clean and Clear package has a small sticky spot that actually pulls out one sheet at a time for you -- and press it on the shiny parts of your face; repeat until the paper comes away clean (but toss it when it gets all oily because <i>eew gross</i>). I typically use four or five blotting papers when I'm de-shineing myself, but I have <i>very</i> oily skin, and I'm a perfectionist. </p>
<p>A blotting paper will get ALL the oil on your skin, unlike, say, a tissue, which will only get some of the oil, and which may leave other additives (lotion, for example) behind to irritate your skin. And blotting papers won't smudge your makeup, which is nice, although keep in mind that if you have oily skin, your foundation will wear off faster during the day, particularly if you're blotting.</p>
<p>If you like, you can blot and then powder your nose or T zone; the powder won't cake as much, since your skin will be nearly oil-free. I typically skip the powder and just blot; I prefer clean skin to powdered skin, personally.</p>
<p>Need more skin care tips? <a href="http://www.makeupandbeautyblog.com/skin-care/21-more-skin-care-tips/" target="_blank" title="Makeup and Beauty blog">Karen at the Makeup and Beauty Blog</a>, has compiled a list of 21 tips. Thanks, Karen! </p>
<p><a href="http://www.ourbestbites.com/2009/05/spa-in-kitchen-facials.html" target="_blank" title="Our Best Bites">Sara at Our Best Bites</a> has tips and trick for turning your kitchen into a spa. Since I'm not cooking, I think I'll try these options! </p>
<p>Finally, you all should bookmark <a href="http://www.faboverforty.com/" target="_blank" title="Fabulous Over Forty">Fabulous Over Forty</a>, especially if, like me, you wind up feeling like most of the beauty blogs out there are targeted at girls half your age.  </p>
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  <entry>
    <title>A Sunscreen How-To</title>
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    <id>http://www.blogher.com/sunscreen-how</id>
    <published>2009-05-20T12:25:57-05:00</published>
    <updated>2009-06-05T15:30:41-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Susan Wagner</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Skin" />
    <category term="Summer skincare" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>This weekend marks the official start of summer, or at least the official start of pool season. While I cannot tell you how to get your thighs in shape between now and then, I <i>can</i> tell you how to make sure you've got your sunscreen on properly. Because I'm willing to jiggle at the pool, but I am not willing to burn.</p>
<p>Ready? Here's everything you need to know about sunscreen.</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>This weekend marks the official start of summer, or at least the official start of pool season. While I cannot tell you how to get your thighs in shape between now and then, I <i>can</i> tell you how to make sure you've got your sunscreen on properly. Because I'm willing to jiggle at the pool, but I am not willing to burn.</p>
<p>Ready? Here's everything you need to know about sunscreen.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.coppertone.com/coppertone/index.jsp" target="_blank" title="Coppertone"><img src="http://i199.photobucket.com/albums/aa195/FridayPlaydate/large_coppertone.jpg" alt="Coppertone" height="290" width="453" /></a> </p>
<p><b>I'm seeing sunscreens with higher and higher SPFs, like 95 and 100. I've always used an SPF 30 -- do I need to upgrade?</b></p>
<p>No you don't, says a <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/05/14/fashion/14SKIN.html?_r=1&amp;ref=fashion" target="_blank" title="New York Times">recent article in the New York Times</a>. </p>
<blockquote><p>No SPF, not even 100+, offers 100 percent protection. What’s more, both UVA and UVB radiation can lead to skin cancer, which is why dermatologists now advise using sunscreens with an SPF of at least 15 and UVA-fighting ingredients like an  avobenzone that doesn’t degrade in light or Mexoryl SX.</p>
<p>The difference in UVB protection between an SPF 100 and SPF 50 is marginal. Far from offering double the blockage, SPF 100 blocks 99 percent of UVB rays, while SPF 50 blocks 98 percent. (SPF 30, that old-timer, holds its own, deflecting 96.7 percent). </p>
</blockquote>
<p>So a sunscreen with an SPF of 50 -- or even 30 -- works just as well as the more expensive SPF 100.</p>
<p><b>When I pulled out my beach bag, I found a full bottle of sunscreen from last summer's vacation. Is it still good?</b></p>
<p>Maybe, but don't take any chances -- experts recommend <a href="http://www.ohsu.edu/dermatology/patients/sunscreen.php?SUN=3" target="_blank" title="OHSU Department of Dermatology">replacing sunscreens yearly</a>, which means that the bottle you bought last summer should go in the trash, or be used as moisturizer. It's not the one you want to be slathering on before you head for the pool. </p>
<p><b>When you say &quot;slather,&quot; what precisely does that mean?</b></p>
<p>An average size adult needs one ounce of sunscreen to cover her entire body -- that's about a shot glass full. Seriously. And you need to reapply sunscreen every two hours, if you are not sweating or swimming; if you're in the water, you need to <a href="http://www.ohsu.edu/dermatology/patients/sunscreen.php?SUN=3" target="_blank" title="OHSU Department of Dermatology">reapply more frequently</a>. &quot;Water-resistant sunscreens lose their SPF after 40 minutes in water; waterproof sunscreens after 90 minutes.&quot; </p>
<p><i>That's</i> what I mean by <i>slathering</i>.</p>
<p>Keep in mind, too, that for maximum protection you need to apply your sunscreen at least 20 minutes before you go out in the sun -- so putting sunscreen on after you're all settled in your lounge chair at the pool is too late. Do it before you leave home. Also remember that your swimsuit -- or t-shirt or dress -- does not offer complete sun protection (unless you're wearing a fancy SPF fabric suit or shirt). Put sunscreen on EVERYWHERE (seriously) before you suit up. </p>
<p>And while you're slathering, don't forget about the tops of your ears and your neck and the part in your hair. Pick up a lip balm with some SPF, too. </p>
<p><b>What about those sunscreen sprays? They're so convenient, but do they work? </b></p>
<p>I am a huge fan of the spray on sunscreen, both for my kids and for myself (I use it on the very middle of my back, where I can't reach to get the lotion on). Recently, though, I've been reading that dermatologists recommend starting with a layer of lotion (that shot glass full) and using a spray for repplication. So again, slather up before you leave the house -- yourself and the kids -- and then spray everyone down at 45 minute intervals throughout the day.</p>
<p><b>I'm reading that sunscreens block Vitamin D absorption -- should I be worried about that?</b></p>
<p>No, and you definitely should absolutely not skip the sunscreen in order to get some Vitamin D. If you're wearing sunscreen daily on your face (which I wholeheartedly recommend) then you are getting enough incidental exposure during your normal day to boost your Vitamin D intake. But for a day when you know you will be out in the sun for a long time, especially around water, please lotion up. The damage that even a mild sunburn does to your skin is not balanced out, in any way, by the Vitamin D you will get from being sunscreen free.</p>
<p><b>Eh, I never burn. I don't really need sunscreen.</b></p>
<p>Au contraire! Our friends at FitSugar remind us that <a href="http://www.fitsugar.com/3097814" target="_blank" title="Fit Sugar">even if you're not turning red and peeling, you are damaging your skin by going out without some sort of protection</a>. Skin cancer is a terrible look, no matter how tan you are.</p>
<p><b>Okay I get it -- sunscreen saves lives. But I'm still not crazy about covering myself -- or my kids -- in chemicals.</b></p>
<p>Point taken. Fortunately, <a href="http://feelgoodstyle.com/2009/05/19/vive-sana-sunscreen-live-healthy-in-the-sun/" target="_blank" title="Feelgood Style">Feelgood Style has the solution</a>:  </p>
<blockquote><p><a href="http://www.vivesana.com/" target="_blank">Vive Sana</a> sunscreens offer natural, organic safe protection in the sun- no phthalates, no parabens, no BPA, no nanotechnology, no synthetics just natural sunscreen created for healthy protection from the sun. </p>
</blockquote>
<p>The bottom line is this: If you're going to be out in the sun this summer, be careful about your skin. For those long days at the pool or park or beach, cover up adequately and reapply frequently. </p>
<p>Here's to a sunburn free summer!</p>
<p><i>Susan Wagner writes about style at <a href="http://www.workitmom.com/bloggers/workingcloset/" title="The Working Closet" target="_blank">The Working Closet</a> and about chic suburban living at <a href="http://fridayplaydate.com/" title="Friday Playdate" target="_blank">Friday Playdate</a>. She's a big fan of Neutrogena and Aveno sunscreens for herself, and Coppertone for the kids.</i></p>
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  <entry>
    <title>How to Talk to Your Dermatologist: FAQs</title>
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    <id>http://www.blogher.com/how-talk-your-dermatologist-faqs</id>
    <published>2009-05-18T11:25:01-05:00</published>
    <updated>2009-05-18T14:11:45-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Susan Wagner</name>
    </author>
    <category term="BeautyHacks" />
    <category term="Skin" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I love my dermatologist. My husband tells people that I have a crush on him, which is partly true; he's young and cute and really nice, but that's not what I love about him. I love that he has made my skin look better than it ever has in my entire life. </p>
<p>I am not kidding. </p>
<p>Every time I declare my love for Dr. Skin (not his real name) I get emails, typically asking the same questions. So here's my How to Talk to the Dermatologist FAQ. You're welcome.</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I love my dermatologist. My husband tells people that I have a crush on him, which is partly true; he's young and cute and really nice, but that's not what I love about him. I love that he has made my skin look better than it ever has in my entire life. </p>
<p>I am not kidding. </p>
<p>Every time I declare my love for Dr. Skin (not his real name) I get emails, typically asking the same questions. So here's my How to Talk to the Dermatologist FAQ. You're welcome. </p>
<p><i>I'm not to sure what I should ask or show.  Could you tell me what things I should point out?  </i></p>
<p>There are really two reasons to see a dermatologist: one is because you're unhappy with the way your skin looks, and the other is because you are concerned that something is just not right. If you're there because you are seeing something that concerns you -- a mole with uneven edges, or a scaly patch of skin that just won't heal -- then clearly you're going to show that to the doctor. But what if you're not there because you think you have skin cancer? What if you want to see the doctor because you're tired of breaking out or you want to know what to do about these wrinkles? </p>
<p>When I made my initial appointment with the doctor, the receptionist asked why I wanted to come in, and I told her: I had acne and wrinkles, and nothing I was using for either seemed to be making any difference. And yes, it felt shallow to say &quot;I hate breaking out, and I don't want to look old,&quot; but it's important to be honest. Unless you tell the doctor what you want help with, there's no way she can help you.</p>
<p>Keep in mind, though, that a dermatologist is a <i>skin doctor</i> -- she's there to help you care for your skin. Wrinkles and acne are her bread and butter, and while you may be embarrassed by that pimple on your cheek, she's not. She just wants to help you get rid of it.</p>
<p>When you go for the appointment, skip foundation and tinted moisturizer and anything else you have been using to cover up the problem. The doctor needs to be able to see your skin as-is, in order to assess what's going on and treat it appropriately. If you layer on the concealer, it's hard for the doctor to really judge what the issue is. </p>
<p>Be clear, up front, about what you're willing to do, particularly if you're seeing the doctor about wrinkles. Do not let yourself be pressured into doing something you don't want to do. The dermatologist I see does everything from skin cancer screenings to Botox injections. I wasn't interested in anything injectable, even though that was an option in this practice, and I said so.  I have some deep frown lines on my forehead (eh, who doesn't, right?) that a topical treatment will not completely eradicate; my dermatologist never once suggested anything more dramatic than a Retin A gel, although he was careful to point out that I could not expect that treatment to completely erase those lines. I really appreciated that he was listening to me, and wasn't pushing a treatment that I didn't want.</p>
<p><i>Did you go in just for your face ... or did you also have some body treatments done?  I hate the way my skin looks on my legs so I wanted to see if they could recommend something for that.<br />
</i></p>
<p>Most recently, I've gone in just for my face, but I've seen dermatologists over the years for various parts of my body. I've had moles removed from my arms and legs, for example. My husband goes yearly for a full body screening. If you have questions about any part of your skin, feel free to ask. </p>
<p>If you already have some idea of what kind of treatment you are looking for, do some research before you choose a doctor. I am not advocating storming in to the dermatologists office and demanding that he do a certain procedure or prescribe a specific drug; he's the doctor, not you. But if you know that whatever it is you want treated is more cosmetic than medical, you might want to look for a practice that includes a strong aesthetic or cosmetic component. The doctor I see does both the medically necessary treatments, like removing odd looking moles, and the entirely cosmetic procedures, like Botox. Large hospitals will often have restrictions on cosmetic procedures, so it is worth checking into what a doctor offers before you go in for an appointment. </p>
<p><i>What kind of regular skin care routine do you follow now?  I feel pretty strict with mine, but I am starting to think that I have something totally wrong.</i></p>
<p>My skin care routine is one that the dermatologist recommended, as are most of the products I use. I wash my face twice a day with <a href="http://www.neutrogena.com/econsumer/ntg/productdetail.browse?segment=women&amp;catId=1&amp;subCatId=3&amp;productId=30&amp;target=/products/face/fresh-foaming-cleanser.jsp" title="Neutrogena Fresh Foaming Cleanser">Neutrogena's Fresh Foaming Cleanser</a>; my skin is oily in the T zone and normal across my cheeks, so this is the perfect cleanser. I use a topical antibiotic, Clindamycin, to control my acne, and a Retin A gel, Differin, for my wrinkles. I apply the Clindamycin in the morning, under my sunscreen (<a href="http://www.neutrogena.com/econsumer/ntg/productdetail.browse?segment=women&amp;catId=3&amp;subCatId=9&amp;productId=329&amp;target=/products/sun/ultra-sheer-dry-touch-sunblock-spf-55-&amp;-70.jsp" target="_blank" title="Neutrogena Ultra Sheer Dry Touch Sunblock">Neutrogena's Ultra Sheer Dry Touch Sunblock</a> in an SPF 75); I use the Differin at night, but only about three times a week, and only on the areas where I'm seeing wrinkles (next to my eyes, on my forehead, and over my upper lip). I use <a href="http://www.terralina.com/facial-moisturizer-small.php" target="_blank" title="Terralina">Terralina Facial Moisturizer </a>on my cheeks at night, and <a href="http://www.clinique.com/templates/products/spp/index.tmpl?ngextredir=1&amp;CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY4899&amp;PRODUCT_ID=PROD503" target="_blank" title="Clinique All About Eyes">Clinique's All About Eyes</a> morning and evening. Everything I use on my face has to be noncomedogenic, including my concealer and foundation.
</p><p><i>This is kind of a new territory for me and I want to make sure that I go in for the right things and not look completely stupid. Basically I don't want to leave thinking that I wasted my money on nothing.</i></p>
<p>The strategy for feeling like you're getting the most out of your visit with the dermatologist is this: Make a list of concerns, and then take that list with you into the appointment. Ask questions about anything that concerns you -- treatments, products, strategies. If you like, you can take your current skin care products in with you, or at least a list of them. If you're asking for help with acne, the doctor will most likely tell you to stick with noncomedogenic products, though, regardless of brand. </p>
<p>After your appointment, follow the doctor's instructions to the T. If she says to only use something every other day, do that; don't try to rush the process by using more of a product, or using it more frequently. Keep in mind that it can take six to twelve weeks to see any improvement, and that your skin may look worse before it looks better. But if you stick with the routine, you should see results. Just be patient.  </p>
<p><b>Have you been to the dermatologist? Do you have any tips? Or do you still have questions about how to approach the skin doctor? </b></p>
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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Self Tanner Tips and Tricks</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogher.com/self-tanner-tips-and-tricks" />
    <id>http://www.blogher.com/self-tanner-tips-and-tricks</id>
    <published>2009-05-18T01:09:15-05:00</published>
    <updated>2009-06-30T20:46:45-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Susan Wagner</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Skin" />
    <category term="Summer skincare" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Summer is officially just days away, which means that it's time to dig out your swimsuit and stock up on sunscreen. Your goal for this summer should be to stay sunburn free -- and also <i>suntan</i> free, because sun exposure is sun exposure, and tanning damages your skin just like burning does. So slather on the SPF 50 and save your skin.</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Summer is officially just days away, which means that it's time to dig out your swimsuit and stock up on sunscreen. Your goal for this summer should be to stay sunburn free -- and also <i>suntan</i> free, because sun exposure is sun exposure, and tanning damages your skin just like burning does. So slather on the SPF 50 and save your skin. </p>
<p>Not a fan of the healthy pale look? Opt for a self-tanner to fake the bake. <a href="http://www.splendicity.com/articles/get-a-tan-the-safe-way/" target="_blank" title="Splendicity">Star Stevenson at Spendicity</a> has these tips for getting the perfect faux tan: </p>
<blockquote><p>1. Gently exfoliate your skin. You want a smooth surface for the<br />
tanning agent to adhere to so the application isn’t streaky or patchy.<br />
2. Moisturize your skin before applying self tanner. It will allow for a smoother application.<br />
3. Set aside half an hour or more to apply the self tanner and allow it to dry. Don’t rush the application process otherwise you’ll get streaks and might miss some spots.<br />
4. Tie your hair  up or use a shower cap so it doesn’t stick to your skin.<br />
5. Apply self-tanner lightly on areas where your skin is thickest (knees, elbows, knuckles, ankles).<br />
6. Wash your hands immediately after application or save yourself the trouble and wear gloves.</p>
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<p>The glove suggestion is brilliant! Thanks, Star!</p>
<p>What's the best self tanner? Well, it would be one that didn't have that distinctive self-tanner smell, right? <a href="http://beautyiseasy.com/2009/05/07/best-smelling-self-tanner-hands-down-rodial-brazilian-tan-light/" target="_blank" title="BeautyDiva">BeautyDiva at Beauty is Easy has a suggestion</a>:  </p>
<blockquote><p>Most companies have figured out how to make self-tanners streak free and give a natural looking color. But so far, the only company I’ve seen that has gotten rid of the stinky smell is <a href="http://www.rodial.co.uk/product/suncare/brazilian-tan-LIGHT/213" target="_blank" title="Rodial">Rodial</a>. Some companies have reduced it and others have covered it up with even stinkier perfumes, but this product really does smell good. </p>
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<p>I use a Neutrogena self-tanner, which really does have that self-tanner odor, although it's lighter than other tanning lotions I have tried; I put it on at night and sleep in a pair of ancient yoga pants. Then I can lather up in the morning and wash away the smell. But I would really love the alternative of a self-tanner that maybe smelled good. Or at least didn't smell like self-tanner. </p>
<p>What if you don't want to tan all over, and just want a little color on your face? Grab a bronzer! <a href="http://www.newbeauty.com/dailybeauty/entry.aspx?ID=1896" target="_blank" title="Daily Beauty">Marci Robin Zitner at Daily Beauty</a> loves the Physician's Formula Mineral Wear Bronze Brightener, calling it the best bronzer for fair skin:</p>
<blockquote><p>As soon as I laid eyes on it, I could see this speckled, pressed formula is clearly different from other bronzers. And it turns out, once applied, that the not-too-deep amalgam of glow-growing colors never looks heavy or highly contrasting. My skin simply looks healthier, brighter and warmer.</p>
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<p>And -- my favorite part -- it's available in your local drugstore for about $14.00.</p>
<p><b>What's your secret to faking a summer glow? Or have you just decided to be pale this year? </b></p>
<p><i>Susan Wagner writes about style at <a href="http://www.workitmom.com/bloggers/workingcloset/" title="The Working Closet" target="_blank">The Working Closet</a> and about chic suburban living at <a href="http://fridayplaydate.com/" title="Friday Playdate" target="_blank">Friday Playdate</a>.  </i></p>
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