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  <updated>2008-06-25T00:06:52-05:00</updated>
  <entry>
    <title>Twilight Unfinished</title>
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    <published>2008-12-03T21:05:08-06:00</published>
    <updated>2008-12-03T21:05:08-06:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Graceful Parenting</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Mommy &amp; Family" />
    <category term="Bella" />
    <category term="Edward" />
    <category term="Stephanie Meyer" />
    <category term="Twilight" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Blue Eyes and I have been teasing Noel lately, &quot;Stop with all that reading! Will you please go watch some TV?&quot; She is fascinated by the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twilight_(novel)">Twilight</a> series by <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stephanie_Meyer">Stephanie Meyer</a>, she has read all four books, each several times and she can pick up any of the books, find a favorite part and get lost for hours.</p>
<p>I decided to read Twilight over the holiday and it all started as good, clean fun, but I left it unfinished, because it made me feel creepy, in a way that didn't have much to do with vampires...</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Blue Eyes and I have been teasing Noel lately, &quot;Stop with all that reading! Will you please go watch some TV?&quot; She is fascinated by the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twilight_(novel)">Twilight</a> series by <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stephanie_Meyer">Stephanie Meyer</a>, she has read all four books, each several times and she can pick up any of the books, find a favorite part and get lost for hours.</p>
<p>I decided to read Twilight over the holiday and it all started as good, clean fun, but I left it unfinished, because it made me feel creepy, in a way that didn't have much to do with vampires...</p>
<p>Read more at <a href="http://www.gracefulparenting.net/2008/12/03/twilight-unfinished/" target="_blank">Graceful Parenting</a>.</p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Baby Learning: Interesting Like Men&#039;s Outdoor Footwear</title>
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    <published>2008-10-12T20:39:46-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-10-12T20:39:46-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Graceful Parenting</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Mommy &amp; Family" />
    <category term="baby learning" />
    <category term="brillbaby" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I've shared with ya'll all of the money (you know, like the Free Box of Huggies Coupon) and fame (my Wall Street Journal interview that didn't get published) that blogging brings. But I haven't mentioned the many job opportunities. I was on Craig's list the other day (trying to sell Neil Diamond tickets in San Antonio, anyone want to see Neil Diamond in San Antonio?) and saw lots of actual paying jobs for bloggers. Amazing! I could be rich! There was generally some obscure topic associated with a company selling something, like men's outdoor footwear. I met all of the job qualifications for this one, except for the last line - Must have genuine interest in men's outdoor footwear. Hmmmmm, wellllll.....</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I've shared with ya'll all of the money (you know, like the Free Box of Huggies Coupon) and fame (my Wall Street Journal interview that didn't get published) that blogging brings. But I haven't mentioned the many job opportunities. I was on Craig's list the other day (trying to sell Neil Diamond tickets in San Antonio, anyone want to see Neil Diamond in San Antonio?) and saw lots of actual paying jobs for bloggers. Amazing! I could be rich! There was generally some obscure topic associated with a company selling something, like men's outdoor footwear. I met all of the job qualifications for this one, except for the last line - Must have genuine interest in men's outdoor footwear. Hmmmmm, wellllll.....</p>
<p></p>
<p>But then I got an email in my inbox looking for bloggers about babies. That sounds like a better match, but it's about Baby Learning and the funny thing is, I'm just about equally interested in Baby Learning and men's outdoor footwear...</p>
<p>Read more at <a href="http://www.gracefulparenting.net/2008/10/11/baby-learning-as-interesting-as-mens-outdoor-footwear/" target="_blank">GracefulParenting.net</a>. </p>
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  <entry>
    <title>The Global Pool of Money: Why Ira Glass is Sexy</title>
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    <id>http://www.blogher.com/global-pool-money-why-ira-glass-sexy</id>
    <published>2008-10-08T21:15:16-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-10-08T21:15:16-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Graceful Parenting</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Entertainment &amp; Culture" />
    <category term="Media &amp; Journalism" />
    <category term="Mommy &amp; Family" />
    <category term="financial crisis" />
    <category term="global pool of money" />
    <category term="ira glass" />
    <category term="mortgage" />
    <category term="sexy" />
    <category term="sub-prime" />
    <category term="Pop Culture" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>If you told me a few years ago that I would LOVE , LOVE, LOVE a one-hour long documentary radio show about banking, I would have said NO, NO WAY. There is NO WAY that I would listen to and enjoy and then spread the word about a one-hour long documentary radio show about banking...</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>If you told me a few years ago that I would LOVE , LOVE, LOVE a one-hour long documentary radio show about banking, I would have said NO, NO WAY. There is NO WAY that I would listen to and enjoy and then spread the word about a one-hour long documentary radio show about banking...</p>
<p></p>
<p>But let me tell you, that was before <a href="http://www.thisamericanlife.org/">This American Life</a> hosted by <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ira_Glass">Ira Glass</a> and his show about the financial crisis called <a href="http://www.thislife.org/Radio_Episode.aspx?episode=355">The Global Pool of Money</a>. It fascinates me because he skips right past the knee-jerk conservative or liberal response, you know...</p>
<p>It's the fault of the evil, deceitful lenders preying on the innocent home buyers!</p>
<p>or</p>
<p>It's the fault of the irresponsible poor who got into houses they knew they couldn't afford!</p>
<p>The show says SURE, there were predatory lenders and SURE there were irresponsible home buyers, but the more interesting truth is more often somewhere in the middle.</p>
<p>The show talks with people who worked at each step in the process. It breaks down a series of events that seem logical, each on their own, but when you pull back and look at the big picture and how crazy it all got, you feel, with wonder and amazement, the uniqueness of the human condition which never stops being able to surprise itself.</p>
<p>That is why Ira Glass is sexy. Because he can see the world that way, with wonder and amazement and surprise. Well, that, and he is tall and handsome and funny, which I also find sexy. Check him out...</p>
<p>      <a href="http://picasaweb.google.com/lh/photo/r0nualDv6WG7heoLdIdLRA"><img src="http://lh4.ggpht.com/carolramsey/SOrPVTTw6qI/AAAAAAAAAXM/fUbWK1S608E/s144/566px-Ira_Glass_CMU_2006.jpg" alt="" /></a></p>
<p><em>Photo courtesy of Tom Murphy VII.</em><em><br /></em>I even love the glasses. VERY sexy.<br />
Check out the show if you have some time. You can stream it for free or download it for 95 cents. Not bad for the world's sexiest one-hour long documentary radio show about banking.</p>
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  <entry>
    <title>My Biggest Blog Secret Ever is Yours for $10</title>
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    <published>2008-09-21T21:08:10-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-09-21T21:08:10-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Graceful Parenting</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Health &amp; Wellness" />
    <category term="Mommy &amp; Family" />
    <category term="diabetes" />
    <category term="JDRF" />
    <category term="Walk for a Cure" />
    <category term="BlogHers Act" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I'm not a tell-all blogger, I don't share the deepest, most personal struggles in my marriage or the most embarrassing thing my 11-year-old did at school or how my relatives make me crazy. My in-person relationships are more important than my blog and I've got to save something for my tell-all book, right? But this all changes today. I'm willing to give up my Biggest Blog Secret Ever to you for just $10.</p>
<p>DON'T READ THE REST OF THIS POST IF YOU DON'T HAVE $10 TO GIVE ME.</p>
<p>If you are ready, only if you are fully committed, here it is...</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I'm not a tell-all blogger, I don't share the deepest, most personal struggles in my marriage or the most embarrassing thing my 11-year-old did at school or how my relatives make me crazy. My in-person relationships are more important than my blog and I've got to save something for my tell-all book, right? But this all changes today. I'm willing to give up my Biggest Blog Secret Ever to you for just $10.</p>
<p>DON'T READ THE REST OF THIS POST IF YOU DON'T HAVE $10 TO GIVE ME.</p>
<p>If you are ready, only if you are fully committed, here it is...</p>
<p>My eleven-year-old, Noel, is a type 1 diabetic. This is my Biggest Blog Secret Ever because until now, Noel asked that I not write about this on my blog. For today only, she made an exception. So here is my one-time, limited-edition post about Noel and her diabetes.</p>
<p>I remember being in the hospital when she was first diagnosed, three years ago. Blue Eyes and I were pretty sure the diagnosis was a mistake and we found creative explanations for her extremely high blood sugar like the fact that she drank some fruit juice the night before. Later that day, the doctor was more direct with us, she said Noel was a type 1, insulin-dependent diabetic. Noel would need to prick her finger and take shots many times a day for the rest of her life. The nurse said it was time for her first shot now and this is what I thought...</p>
<p>YOU HAVE GOT TO BE F#$%#$%$ING KIDDING ME, YOU CAN'T DO THAT TO A KID, KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF HER!!!!!!!</p>
<p>I nearly jumped across the hospital room and pulled the shot out of her hand.</p>
<p>But I didn't.</p>
<p>Noel took the shot calmly and bravely.</p>
<p>I was terrified.</p>
<p>On the last day in the hospital, the Children's Hospital sponsored an event for the patients in the lobby. University of Texas football players would be there to talk with the kids and volunteers would hand out teddy bears. We had planned on going, but then it was time for Noel to have her flu shot, which is required for diabetics, since getting the flu makes the blood sugar harder to manage. While Noel had managed the insulin shots so well for three days now, she was having a fit about the flu shot. She was crying, the parents were upset, the whole scene was a mess. At one point I figured that having three parents in the room (Blue Eyes, me and Noel's Mom - I'm Noel's Step-Mom) was probably not helping, so I went to the lobby to see if I could get a teddy bear for Noel.</p>
<p>When I got there, it was humbling. I saw so many kids who were really, really sick. Kids in wheel chairs. A little kid laying down in a red wagon, leaning against pillows, not able to sit up. IVs, bald heads, pale faces.</p>
<p>Noel was diabetic.</p>
<p>Noel could run, dance, sing and play.</p>
<p>Noel was coming home with us that day. I had a lot to be thankful for.</p>
<p>I explained to one of the volunteers that my daughter wasn't able to come down and I asked if I could I take a bear up to her. The volunteers were concerned. They assumed that my daughter was very sick, too sick to be moved or leave her room. They were SOOOOOO understanding and SOOOOOO helpful. They said that they were going to visit the sickest kids in their rooms and if I let my daughter's nurse know, then she would be on the list and one of the football players would bring her a bear a little later.</p>
<p>I tried to explain that no, my daughter was not on the list, she isn't that sick, she is just mad about the flu shot, that's all, but I hadn't gotten all of that out when Noel comes running around the corner, the healthiest looking kid you have ever seen in a children's hospital and I got the funniest looks from the volunteers. Was it a miracle cure or was I a freak of a Mom? They never knew for sure.</p>
<p>My biggest story about Noel's diabetes is how proud I am of her. She learned about the disease and she knows how to manage her insulin and food. She is responsible with the choices she makes and the extra things she needs to remember.</p>
<p>She doesn't feel sorry for herself.</p>
<p>She doesn't let it dominate her life.</p>
<p>I am amazed by her every day and I'm so very, very proud.</p>
<p>Which brings me to the conclusion, which is, you owe me $10. Noel, family and friends are walking in the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation (JDRF) Walk for a Cure in a few weeks and we are raising money for our team. This is why Noel gave me the one day exception, because maybe it could help us raise more money.</p>
<p>Here is the link to the JDRF site which handles the money. I would appreciate a donation SOOOOOOOO very much.</p>
<p><a href="http://walk.jdrf.org/walker.cfm?id=87100784">http://walk.jdrf.org/walker.cfm?id=87100784</a></p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Sarah Palin and Attachment Parenting - Red and Blue Make Purple</title>
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    <id>http://www.blogher.com/sarah-palin-and-attachment-parenting-red-and-blue-make-purple</id>
    <published>2008-09-08T23:30:39-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-09-08T23:30:39-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Graceful Parenting</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Media &amp; Journalism" />
    <category term="Mommy &amp; Family" />
    <category term="News &amp; Politics" />
    <category term="attachment parenting" />
    <category term="Dr. Sears" />
    <category term="Martha Sears" />
    <category term="red and blue states" />
    <category term="Sarah Palin" />
    <category term="Gender" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Sarah Palin fascinates me. A conservative woman and an ambitious, working Mom. It doesn't fit into the every day definitions of how we divide the red and the blue and I love reading about how people react to her. It got me to thinking, I wonder what the Attachment Parenting folks think?</p>
<p>I've said already in this <a href="http://www.gracefulparenting.net/2007/12/02/book-review-the-baby-book/">post</a>, that if I met Dr. Sears, the father of Attachment Parenting, I would punch him...</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Sarah Palin fascinates me. A conservative woman and an ambitious, working Mom. It doesn't fit into the every day definitions of how we divide the red and the blue and I love reading about how people react to her. It got me to thinking, I wonder what the Attachment Parenting folks think?</p>
<p>I've said already in this <a href="http://www.gracefulparenting.net/2007/12/02/book-review-the-baby-book/">post</a>, that if I met Dr. Sears, the father of Attachment Parenting, I would punch him...</p>
<p></p>
<p>I believe his basic premise, that Moms need to breast feed, co-sleep and wear their babies in order to develop a healthy attachment to their baby is just plain crap. I spent a lot of time, beginning with Dr. Sears' own web site, looking for the research that supports this and it doesn't exist. There is research like this - Co-sleeping parents have more parenting interactions with their baby during the night. Oh, my, did a researcher really spend money to figure that out? And that is SOOOOOOOOOO far from proving that overnight parenting interactions make any difference in the healthy attachment between Mom and baby.</p>
<p>Why punch him? Because he says...</p>
<p>Read more at <a href="http://www.gracefulparenting.net/2008/09/08/sarah-palin-and-attachment-parenting-red-and-blue-make-purple/" target="_blank">Graceful Parenting</a>, including why it is better for red and blue to make purple.</p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Almost Famous - My Wall Street Journal Interview</title>
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    <published>2008-09-05T17:56:11-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-09-05T17:56:11-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Graceful Parenting</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Media &amp; Journalism" />
    <category term="Mommy &amp; Family" />
    <category term="Religion &amp; Spirituality" />
    <category term="News &amp; Politics" />
    <category term="blogging" />
    <category term="Britt Daniel" />
    <category term="church shopping" />
    <category term="Donahue" />
    <category term="oprah" />
    <category term="Sarah Palin" />
    <category term="Wall Street Journal" />
    <category term="Writing" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I just almost wet my pants the other day. I got this email...</p>
<blockquote><p>My name is A. Alter, and I’m a reporter at the Wall Street Journal. I’m working on an article about church shopping and came across a blog post that you wrote about your church shopping experience. I was wondering if you would be interested in being interviewed for the piece. I’ve interviewed pastors and theologians but am hoping to include a churchgoer’s perspective on the process of finding a home church.</p>
</blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Please let me know if you’re available for an interview, and if so, when and how I should contact you.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>Well, this must be a scam of some kind....</p>
<p></p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I just almost wet my pants the other day. I got this email...</p>
<blockquote><p>My name is A. Alter, and I’m a reporter at the Wall Street Journal. I’m working on an article about church shopping and came across a blog post that you wrote about your church shopping experience. I was wondering if you would be interested in being interviewed for the piece. I’ve interviewed pastors and theologians but am hoping to include a churchgoer’s perspective on the process of finding a home church.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Please let me know if you’re available for an interview, and if so, when and how I should contact you.</p></blockquote>
<p>Well, this must be a scam of some kind....</p>
<p> I look for references to financial transactions that must occur before the interview can take place. I look for links to click on so I can see lots of ads or download a virus. I look for signs of a mass mailing, but it seems to be addressed to only my email, using my name.</p>
<p>So, I check the return email address, still suspicious of the source. It is <a href="mailto:xxxxx@wsj.com">xxxxx@wsj.com</a>. I find the Wall Street Journal On-line, at <a href="http://online.wsj.com" title="http://online.wsj.com">http://online.wsj.com</a>. </p>
<p>That is the part where I almost wet my pants. </p>
<p>Please read more at <a href="http://www.gracefulparenting.net/2008/09/05/almost-famous-my-wall-street-journal-interview/" target="_blank">Graceful Parenting</a>. </p>
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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Sarah Palin is My New Blossom (sort of)</title>
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    <id>http://www.blogher.com/sarah-palin-my-new-blossom-sort</id>
    <published>2008-09-04T11:03:11-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-09-04T11:03:11-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Graceful Parenting</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Media &amp; Journalism" />
    <category term="Mommy &amp; Family" />
    <category term="News &amp; Politics" />
    <category term="Barack Obama" />
    <category term="Blossom" />
    <category term="CONVENTIONS" />
    <category term="jerome corsi" />
    <category term="John McCain" />
    <category term="John McCain" />
    <category term="Obama Nation" />
    <category term="Republican convention" />
    <category term="REPUBLICANS" />
    <category term="Sarah Palin" />
    <category term="women&#039;s issues" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>My first thought when I heard Sarah Palin had a four-month-old baby was &quot;OH MY GOD! IS SHE CRAZY?!?!!!&quot; which may not be very modern thinking. But my own experience right now working and having one small child and one bigger one is that it is FREAKING HARD and if a national crisis came up at the same time Baby Girl was throwing up, I would take care of my baby and that might be a problem for national security...</p>
<p></p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>My first thought when I heard Sarah Palin had a four-month-old baby was &quot;OH MY GOD! IS SHE CRAZY?!?!!!&quot; which may not be very modern thinking. But my own experience right now working and having one small child and one bigger one is that it is FREAKING HARD and if a national crisis came up at the same time Baby Girl was throwing up, I would take care of my baby and that might be a problem for national security...</p>
<p>But I rethink my first thought and compare Ms. Palin to Blossom, the early 90's TV show. Read more at <a href="http://www.gracefulparenting.net/2008/09/04/sarah-palin-is-my-new-blossom-sort-of/" target="_blank">Graceful Parenting</a>. </p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Something Is Up With Baby Girl - Any Ideas?</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogher.com/something-baby-girl-any-ideas" />
    <id>http://www.blogher.com/something-baby-girl-any-ideas</id>
    <published>2008-09-01T17:12:04-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-09-01T17:12:04-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Graceful Parenting</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Mommy &amp; Family" />
    <category term="baby" />
    <category term="fussy" />
    <category term="parenting" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>If I didn't know my baby and the blue of her eyes and every freckle on her arms and legs, I would say that maybe this baby in my house isn't my baby. Maybe Blue Eyes was with her at the grocery store and when he wasn't looking, Baby Girl switched places with another baby in a nearby cart, just for fun, to see what would happen, because the baby in our house is so different from the baby we know.</p>
<p></p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>If I didn't know my baby and the blue of her eyes and every freckle on her arms and legs, I would say that maybe this baby in my house isn't my baby. Maybe Blue Eyes was with her at the grocery store and when he wasn't looking, Baby Girl switched places with another baby in a nearby cart, just for fun, to see what would happen, because the baby in our house is so different from the baby we know.</p>
<p>Read more at <a href="http://www.gracefulparenting.net/2008/09/01/something-is-up-with-baby-girl/" target="_blank">Graceful Parenting</a>. </p>
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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Mother Teresa - A Long Time Drug User?</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogher.com/mother-teresa-long-time-drug-user" />
    <id>http://www.blogher.com/mother-teresa-long-time-drug-user</id>
    <published>2008-08-17T14:07:39-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-08-17T19:51:10-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Graceful Parenting</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Entertainment &amp; Culture" />
    <category term="Media &amp; Journalism" />
    <category term="Mommy &amp; Family" />
    <category term="Non-profits" />
    <category term="Religion &amp; Spirituality" />
    <category term="News &amp; Politics" />
    <category term="Barack Obama" />
    <category term="Barack Obama" />
    <category term="corsi" />
    <category term="John McCain" />
    <category term="John McCain" />
    <category term="Obama Nation" />
    <category term="smear campaign" />
    <category term="Unfit for Command" />
    <category term="Unfit for Publication" />
    <category term="VOTING" />
    <category term="voting" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>My sister called me the other day and told me about a new book she read, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obama_Nation">Obama Nation</a> by <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jerome_Corsi">Jerome R. Corsi</a>. She said it is well researched with lots of footnotes and it filled in a lot of the blanks for her, it confirmed doubts she had about Barack Obama. She knew I was a Barack Obama supporter and she wanted to know what I thought.</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>My sister called me the other day and told me about a new book she read, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obama_Nation">Obama Nation</a> by <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jerome_Corsi">Jerome R. Corsi</a>. She said it is well researched with lots of footnotes and it filled in a lot of the blanks for her, it confirmed doubts she had about Barack Obama. She knew I was a Barack Obama supporter and she wanted to know what I thought.</p>
<p>I love my sister for asking me this way. She genuinely wanted to know my opinion and was willing to listen instead of just telling me I'm an idiot, which is how political debate goes with the pundits and on blogs these days. I looked into it and my sister and I emailed about it back and forth. I told my sister I think this book is a classic smear campaign book. I pointed out a few smear campaign tactics used by Corsi...</p>
<p>1. Claim to be an objective investigative journalist at the same time you say there is a specific political purpose for the book, like keeping Barack Obama from becoming president.</p>
<p>2. Use footnotes and references to add credibility and objectivity, even if you are referencing sources that aren't objective like right-wing blogs and interviews with a selected sub-set of the people involved.</p>
<p>3. Start with the truth, a fragment of something that happened that can be verified, then add your own interpretations, like Barack Obama attending a public Muslim school in Indonesia as a boy means he is a closet Muslim now.</p>
<p>3. Present suggestive questions. These are easy because you don't have to prove anything, since you are only asking a question, like &quot;Did Barack Obama do drugs in the Senate?&quot;</p>
<p>This kind of list got me to thinking that using these tactics, no one is safe. You could make a pretty good case that I am a a <a href="http://www.gracefulparenting.net/2008/08/03/meet-my-evil-twin/">schizophrenic</a>, a <a href="http://www.gracefulparenting.net/2008/07/27/considering-taking-on-a-sister-wife/">wanna-be-polygomist</a>, a <a href="http://www.gracefulparenting.net/2008/07/23/who-knew-melon-tasted-so-good/">bad parent</a> and a <a href="http://www.gracefulparenting.net/2007/09/21/losing-grace/">baby-killer</a> from reading my blog posts alone. So, what would it look like if Corsi took his tactics and applied them to someone we think is untouchable? What if he wrote about Mother Teresa? I think it would look something like this...</p>
<p>Let me begin by saying that I am an objective investigative journalist who is presenting the facts, with many references and footnotes, which is proof in itself of this story’s deep and lasting truth(1). I don’t need to defend each individual claim, because I am merely stating the facts as suggestions and possibilities for the American people to make up their own mind. Yes, I have said that the purpose of this book is to keep Mother Teresa from ever gaining Sainthood, a calamity of monstrous proportions that would destroy America, but let me reassure the reader that this in no way affected my objective investigative journalism.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Let’s begin with Mother Teresa’s supposed Christianity. Mother Teresa expert and extensive researcher Tayna Rice, author of &quot;The Life and Times of Mother Teresa&quot;, writes that as a sister, Sister Teresa requested secularization not once, but twice, first from Mother General of Lorento in Dublin (2) and a second time from Rome (3). Why would a woman who claims to be Christian ask in formal documents to religious leaders to become secularized, when secular means to be a person with no religious or spiritual basis (4)? She could claim to be Christian (5), which would help with her own personal agenda of helping the poor (6), but this claim can hardly be trusted.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">A second key component of Mother Teresa’s own personal agenda is her liberal and radical activism focused on perusing awards for herself as evidenced by her Bharat Ratna (India's highest civilian honor) in 1980, (7), her Nobel Peace Prize in 1979 (8) and her Beautification by Pope John Paul II in 2007(9)(10). She continually fought for redistribution of wealth, taking money from people who had earned it to give to people who didn’t work or even get out of bed on a regular basis (11). This type of “community organizing” is a direct affront to capitalism and a serious threat to democracy.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">In addition to her lack of faith and her relentless pursuit of her own agenda, Mother Teresa can’t be trusted. What is most interesting in the books about Mother Teresa is what has been left out. For example, she never stated whether or not she did drugs, either as a young girl, as a nun or even as a leader of the Missionaries of Charity. I have interviewed many people in the Serbian town where Mother Teresa grew up and they all remembered her specifically even after so much time has passed and they remember her as a young girl who could have done drugs(11)(12)(13)(14)(15). If she omitted information such as this, what else was she willing to omit? What other details about her childhood, adolescence or young adult life did she keep secret? If she was willing to hide her drug use, she was willing to hide anything.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">These are my objective findings of many days of research unbiased by my strong opinion that if Mother Teresa should never gain Sainthood, America would be in great danger. Now America can decide what they believe.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">1 Mother Teresa: The Real Story, By Joseph Corsi, 2008</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">2 The Life and Times of Mother Teresa, by Tayna Rice, 1998, page 17</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">3 The Life and Times of Mother Teresa, by Tayna Rice, 1998, page 17</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">4 Mac's Desktop Dictionary, 2008</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">5 Mac's Desktop Dictionary, 2008</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">6 The Life and Times of Mother Teresa, by Tayna Rice, 1998, page 45</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">7 Wikipedia, &quot;Mother Teresa,&quot; 2008, paragraph 2</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">8 The Life and Times of Mother Teresa, by Tayna Rice, 1998, page 45</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">9 Associate Press, &quot;Full house for Mother Teresa ceremony,&quot; October 14, 2003</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">10 &quot;Blessed Mother Teresa,&quot; Encyclopædia Britannica, 2007</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">11 Interview, Boris Kumanudi, 2008</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">12 Interview, Dushan Kumanudi, 2008</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">14 Interview, Mira Kumanudi, 2008</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">13 Interview, Niko Kumanudi, 2008</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">15 Interview, Tomka Kumanudi, 2008</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">My sister and I had some good discussions and after a while, she agreed that Corsi wasn't objective. She is going to focus on voting records and use that to guide her decision.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I hope, hope, hope for our country that our decisions are based on the candidate's voting records and the policies they have presented and what they say themselves and the values they stand for. I hope that liberals and conservatives alike stand up to cheap and dirty smear campaigns as say</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&quot;No, not in our country, This is America. We have honor and integrity and this is NOT a valid part of our election year decision making process.&quot;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">For everyone who votes for McCain or Obama, I hope we can at least agree on that.</p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Considering Taking on a Sister Wife</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogher.com/considering-taking-sister-wife" />
    <id>http://www.blogher.com/considering-taking-sister-wife</id>
    <published>2008-07-27T20:05:15-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-07-27T20:05:15-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Graceful Parenting</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Mommy &amp; Family" />
    <category term="day care" />
    <category term="polygomy" />
    <category term="working mom" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I must say until now I have never considered polygamy seriously. Mostly, I have been offended and disturbed and I have imagined making trips in the middle of the night through secured compounds to rescue young girls who I would let live with me until they could live on their own as free and independent women. But now, after living through the drama of finding the right day care, I might change my mind.</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I must say until now I have never considered polygamy seriously. Mostly, I have been offended and disturbed and I have imagined making trips in the middle of the night through secured compounds to rescue young girls who I would let live with me until they could live on their own as free and independent women. But now, after living through the drama of finding the right day care, I might change my mind.</p>
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<p>Because, if I had sister wives, one of us could stay home with our kids. I would know her and trust her. And we would share the same values and parenting styles. And the care would be given in our own loving home. This arrangement doesn't seem like such a bad idea after all.</p>
<p>Please read more at <a href="http://www.gracefulparenting.net/2008/07/27/considering-taking-on-a-sister-wife/" target="_blank">Graceful Parenting</a>. </p>
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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>I Already Know How to Farm Better</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogher.com/i-already-know-how-farm-better" />
    <id>http://www.blogher.com/i-already-know-how-farm-better</id>
    <published>2008-07-26T17:54:10-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-07-26T17:54:10-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Graceful Parenting</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Blogging &amp; Social Media" />
    <category term="Media &amp; Journalism" />
    <category term="Mommy &amp; Family" />
    <category term="blogging" />
    <category term="BlogHer 08" />
    <category term="BlogHer Conference 2008" />
    <category term="mommy blogging" />
    <category term="Writing" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>One of my favorite sermons was by <a href="http://www.marilynsewell.com/">Marilyn Sewell</a> of the <a href="http://www.firstunitarianportland.org/">First Unitarian Universalist Church in Portland, Oregon</a>. She told the story of a farming convention coming to small town. Someone with the convention was calling farmers to convince them to attend. He was explaining to one farmer the topics that would be covered how he could increase his yield and make more money. Then he asked the farmer, &quot;Don't you want to know how to farm better?&quot; And the farmer said &quot;I already know how to farm better. I just choose not to.&quot; This is the sermon that has helped me most when blogging... </p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>One of my favorite sermons was by <a href="http://www.marilynsewell.com/">Marilyn Sewell</a> of the <a href="http://www.firstunitarianportland.org/">First Unitarian Universalist Church in Portland, Oregon</a>. She told the story of a farming convention coming to small town. Someone with the convention was calling farmers to convince them to attend. He was explaining to one farmer the topics that would be covered how he could increase his yield and make more money. Then he asked the farmer, &quot;Don't you want to know how to farm better?&quot; And the farmer said &quot;I already know how to farm better. I just choose not to.&quot; This is the sermon that has helped me most when blogging... </p>
<p>Ms. Sewell said this is what makes us human beings so interesting. We know we need to eat less to loose weight. We know we need to spend less and save for expensive items. We know not to date the guys our Moms warned us about. But in day-to-day living none of these decisions is isolated, it's part of a bigger experience and finding a path through it all isn't as simple as knowing the list of things you are supposed to do.</p>
<p>I was supposed to go to BlogHer 08, but I already know how to blog better. I know I need to come up with more of a direction and a purpose in my posts, giving readers more of a reason to come back or subscribe. I know I need to write more often and comment more on other blogs. I know I need to do social networking and have more than one blog crush (<a href="http://queenofspainblog.com/">Queen of Spain</a> will always be my first). I know I need to add giveaways or contests on a weekly basis and maybe add a podcast.</p>
<p>But I choose not to. Because I want to take Baby Girl to Amy's Ice Creams on a hot afternoon and watch her pure joy as she nearly stands up in the stroller, getting her face as close to the ice cream as possible, squealing with delight. I want to email with Noel who is away at camp and learn what life is like in the second-to-oldest cabin. I want to talk with my husband about the latest Stephen Colbert Report and imagine our next house. I want to keep my day job so we can pay for the next house. I want to spend time with family who is in town and plan a topic for my church class tomorrow. And sometimes I just want to sit on the couch and watch a little TV.</p>
<p>I should name my blog &quot;It is what it is.&quot; It isn't fancy. It is just what I'm thinking and what moves me and what I hope is sometimes interesting.  </p>
<p>I want to write a book in 5-10 years about a personal experience. I don't know which experience yet. Maybe it has already happened, maybe it will happen tomorrow. But until I know more about it, I want to practice writing about my personal experiences and that is why I blog. It's a little step. It will lead to more little steps. Maybe over time it will be more fancy.</p>
<p>For now it is a small part of a bigger path that has so many parts. So I don't feel like I need to do all the things that bloggers do. Does anyone else feel this way? That there is a pressure to play the game to be a big blog, but that isn't what is right for you?</p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Helen&#039;s Secret</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogher.com/helens-secret" />
    <id>http://www.blogher.com/helens-secret</id>
    <published>2008-07-17T21:22:48-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-07-17T21:22:48-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Graceful Parenting</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Mommy &amp; Family" />
    <category term="adult protective services" />
    <category term="caught smoking" />
    <category term="elderly" />
    <category term="neighbor" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I'm waiting a long time outside Helen's front door. Helen is my very elderly neighbor who loves to see Baby Girl. I never like to wait a long time at the door when visiting a very elderly neighbor.</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I'm waiting a long time outside Helen's front door. Helen is my very elderly neighbor who loves to see Baby Girl. I never like to wait a long time at the door when visiting a very elderly neighbor.</p>
<p>Finally she comes. Maybe she was on the phone or in the bathroom. She opens the door and I walk inside. Something is burning, no, something just stinks, no, that is cigarette smoke. Helen wasn't on the phone or in the bathroom, dear sweet Helen was secretly smoking a cigarette.</p>
<p>Her daughter-in-law thought the hidden cigarette packs belonged to the son, but the granddaughter knew better. They were Helen's. She would never admit it, but when no one is there, she lights up.</p>
<p>After our visit yesterday, I realized I hadn't given an update on Helen in a while, so here is what happened after I called Adult Protective Services about my very elderly neighbor.</p>
<p>Please read more at <a href="http://www.gracefulparenting.net/2008/07/17/helens-secret/" target="_blank">Graceful Parenting</a>. </p>
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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>The Woman with Great Hair From Another Planet</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogher.com/woman-great-hair-another-planet" />
    <id>http://www.blogher.com/woman-great-hair-another-planet</id>
    <published>2008-07-10T20:20:50-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-07-10T20:20:50-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Graceful Parenting</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Mommy &amp; Family" />
    <category term="beauty" />
    <category term="mom" />
    <category term="parenting" />
    <category term="working mom" />
    <category term="Fashion" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Blue Eyes and I are having a rough week, with a lot to do for the kids and our jobs needing our time and little left for ourselves. When I'm running on empty like that, I turn to TV sometimes, which helps a lot with not having enough time i know, but anyway, I'm watching some old Family Ties rerun and a commercial comes on with a woman with really BEAUTIFUL hair. Just amazing, sexy, full of body, super shiny hair. After hearing her talk, I look at her kind of sideways and decide we must be from different planets...</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Blue Eyes and I are having a rough week, with a lot to do for the kids and our jobs needing our time and little left for ourselves. When I'm running on empty like that, I turn to TV sometimes, which helps a lot with not having enough time i know, but anyway, I'm watching some old Family Ties rerun and a commercial comes on with a woman with really BEAUTIFUL hair. Just amazing, sexy, full of body, super shiny hair. After hearing her talk, I look at her kind of sideways and decide we must be from different planets...</p>
<p>Read more at <a href="http://www.gracefulparenting.net/2008/07/10/the-woman-with-great-hair-from-another-planet/" target="_blank">Graceful Parenting</a>. </p>
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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Mom, the Super Hero</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogher.com/mom-super-hero" />
    <id>http://www.blogher.com/mom-super-hero</id>
    <published>2008-06-29T09:44:53-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-06-29T09:44:53-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Graceful Parenting</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Mommy &amp; Family" />
    <category term="breast feeding" />
    <category term="mom" />
    <category term="NICU" />
    <category term="parenting" />
    <category term="pumping" />
    <category term="super hero" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I'm pretty sure Moms are Super Heros and Marvel comics will discover this soon and make a series of summer blockbuster movies along with action figures and McDonald's Happy Meal deals. I was thinking of this today, because I heard one of my favorite Super Mom stories ever...</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I'm pretty sure Moms are Super Heros and Marvel comics will discover this soon and make a series of summer blockbuster movies along with action figures and McDonald's Happy Meal deals. I was thinking of this today, because I heard one of my favorite Super Mom stories ever...</p>
<p>Can you imagine if you saw a woman who was breast pumping both breasts while wearing one of those hands-free-breast-pumping-bras - as she drove down the freeway?</p>
<p>Oh, my, you might be thinking. We have taken multi-tasking way too far.</p>
<p>Read more at <a href="http://www.gracefulparenting.net/2008/06/29/mom-the-super-hero/" target="_blank">Graceful Parenting</a>. </p>
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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Passion Sucks</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogher.com/passion-sucks" />
    <id>http://www.blogher.com/passion-sucks</id>
    <published>2008-06-25T00:00:23-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-06-25T00:06:52-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Graceful Parenting</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Health &amp; Wellness" />
    <category term="Infertility" />
    <category term="Mommy &amp; Family" />
    <category term="Religion &amp; Spirituality" />
    <category term="Sex &amp; Relationships" />
    <category term="AMA" />
    <category term="Fertility" />
    <category term="graceful parenting" />
    <category term="home birth" />
    <category term="mom" />
    <category term="parenting" />
    <category term="passion" />
    <category term="Gender" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I am really getting sick and tired of passion. It takes a lot of energy. It is draining. It gets my insides in a wad and sometimes it feels a lot like anger, even though I like to call it passion. I'm thinking this because I was in the airport heading back from Colorado and I was so uptight I could hardly talk to my family. I was like a walking time bomb. I'm surprised I made it through security. And what profound and meaningful event stirred up my passion like this? </p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I am really getting sick and tired of passion. It takes a lot of energy. It is draining. It gets my insides in a wad and sometimes it feels a lot like anger, even though I like to call it passion. I'm thinking this because I was in the airport heading back from Colorado and I was so uptight I could hardly talk to my family. I was like a walking time bomb. I'm surprised I made it through security. And what profound and meaningful event stirred up my passion like this? </p>
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<p>Oh, you know, reading <a href="/">BlogHer</a> blogs....</p>
<p>I would love if you would read more at <a href="http://www.gracefulparenting.net/2008/06/24/passion-sucks/" target="_blank">Graceful Parenting</a>. </p>
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