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Sex Tips! Getting Your Thanks On!

2009-11-24T13:08:56-06:00

While the traditions of Thanksgiving now center on eating a big dinner and making turkey pictures out of hand prints, this holiday was once actually all about sharing skills and giving thanks for the good things. Obviously they were talking about sex. Okay, fine, it was all about the harvest, but really, I like to think it was all about hot puritan sex. Show me your ankles, you dirty thing. So in the spirit of the stuffing and gravy, here are a few tips to make some bedroom tradition of your own!

- Show Thanks. Let your partner know exactly how much you enjoy the way they nibbled on your labia or kiss behind your ears. Get out of that taking-for-granted rut and bring a sense of genuine thanks to your sexy time. Don’t want to just come out and say thank you? Gush your gratitude during dirty talk and moan out the many things you love, all the while, licking down their body…

- Get Stuffed! As we all know, Thanksgiving is about stuffing yourself with food, stuffing all your family time into one night, and of course, eating stuffing. The thing about stuffing is that everyone has a different recipe, everyone likes a different kind and everyone thinks the kind they like is the best. Sometimes when people try a new kind of stuffing, they love it, and other times, it just reminds them of how much they truly love their own pick. That said, in the spirit of the season, try a couple new things and see if they stick, or if you’d rather, just toss em’ out with the bag of giblets. Either way, you’ve explored the options.

Check out the rest on HotMoviesForHer.com!

Happy Thanksgiving!

xoxo

J.D. Bauchery

HotMoviesForHer Welcomes Oprah Viewers!

2009-11-18T14:28:59-06:00

This just in – Oprah loves porn! Why else would she spend an entire hour-long show dedicated to porn and erotica for women? Well, I guess it could be the statistic that 1 in 3 porn consumers are women, and that 70% of those women watch it in secret, so maybe Oprah just wanted to put the spotlight on something taboo, but relevant to so many women. I guess it could have been ratings – I mean, what gets bigger rating than talking about sex? Nah, I still think it’s because Oprah loves porn.*

And because Oprah loves porn (it may even be one of her favorite things!) and talked about all the hot lady movies there are out there, we thought maybe we’d have some newbies coming to the site today.

So, welcome Oprah viewers! Congratulations on your decision to see what kind of sexy stuff is out here in the internet adult world! You’ve come to the right place if you are looking for a comfortable, classy site that was make just for you.

We are not just a lady-friendly site, we are an adult site specifically created for women! And even better, we are totally women-run! That’s right, those pictures you see to the right are really us! Well, the Porn Librarian isn’t actually a pile of books, but since she usually has her face buried in one, we figured that would be more representative of her. Anyway, I digress. Welcome to HotMoviesForHer!

In celebration of you, we thought it would be fun to spotlight some of the great porn that Oprah mentioned, as well as some of our favorites… kind of like a HotMoviesForHer Porn Club! We also want to make sure that you know that we aren’t here to tell you what kind of movies you should like. Women all like different things and their porn preferences run from the tamest erotica to the hardest of hardcore. And who are we to say otherwise? So, these picks are just some suggestions to get you rolling, but be sure to explore the whole site and find the flicks that truly get your motor running!

The Masseuse (2004): This Jenna Jameson movie was plugged on Oprah’s show as one of hottest erotic journeys around. Filmed with her then husband, Justin Sterling, The Masseuse is full of real passion and chemistry. A totally sensual experience.

Check out the rest of the list and all the other great movies we have at HotmoviesForHer.com!

xoxo
-J.D. Bauchery and the ladies of HM4Her

PS. Feel free to email me (jd@hotmoviesforher.com) if you have any questions or would like a few recommendations!

*NOTE: We have no idea if Oprah loves porn. I mean, who doesn’t, but this is not a fact, just an opinion that we hold. So don’t get mad Oprah’s people…

HotMoviesForHer: 20 Questions with Cyd

2009-11-12T10:40:59-06:00

The first time I saw Cyd in Roulette, I was smitten. Within days, he started popping up every where I looked – at the crash pad, on the cover of the first issue of Original Plumbing and in the promo images I downloaded for Courtney Trouble’s Speakeasy. I decided I had to know more, so I sent him an email and discovered that there’s a lot more to my latest crush than his boi-ish good looks!

Now that you’re done drooling over those smokin’ hot images, check out what Cyd has to say about working in adult, trans identity and super powers!

1. How (and when) did you get started in the industry?
I did my first shoot for suicide girls at 18, which ended up kind of being a bummer and turned me off the porn route for a while. By 2004 I was ripe for the picking again. This woman in Sydney, Australia asked me to do a photo shoot for her queer erotica website Shot With Desire, but there was a miscommunication where I thought she wanted me to do open leg pussy shots for a truck stop porn mag. I had all this angsty deliberation about my staunch feminist morals at the time and finally decided that I was up for it and only then did I find out she just wanted to do some cute pinup shoot when I’d been ready to don a bleach blond wig and stick a beer bottle up my orifices. I did a shoot for her, reading a crimethinc book, in my punk patched clothes and chelsea haircut but I decided after that to embark on a life of as much vulgarity and sexual explicitness as possible.

Check out the rest of the interview on HotMoviesForHer!

xoxo
-J.D. Bauchery

Link Love from HotMoviesForHer.com

2009-10-07T14:13:03-05:00

Happy Humpday! Welcome back to the midweek stretch. It’s crazy windy today and getting increasingly colder out. I guess that’s what happens when it becomes October all of a sudden. Nothin’ like a little Link Lovin’ to warm your heart right up! Thank goodness it’s Humpday.

Let’s get to it!

- The guy in that picture above looks familiar, right? That’s because it’s Eric… from The Little Mermaid. Really

. Along with Aladdin, David (from Lelo & Stitch), Gaston, Peter Pan and more – all in little more than their birthday suits. Stuff like this makes me love the internet. (via The Frisky)

- Did early humans start walking upright to get laid? Seems like it could be so. (via Em and Lo)

- Pornaments – naughty Christmas tree ornaments. Yes, I’m a Jew… and yes, I want to go to there.

Head to HotMoviesForHer.com for more Link Love!

xoxo
-J.D. Bauchery
www.hotmoviesforher.com

20 Questions With Courtney Trouble

2009-09-30T10:08:17-05:00

Here comes Trouble… with a digital video camera in tow. Courtney Trouble that is, queer porn director and star extraordinaire. The San Francisco-based Trouble has been making a name for herself since 2002, with the creation of her baby NoFauxxx.com (now the oldest running queer porn site on the web) and in more recent years as she has taken the reins on a bunch of avant-garde feminist porno flicks.

When she’s not accepting awards and accolades (including SF Guardian’s 2009 Best of the Bay Queer Porn and a Feminist Porn Award for “Most Deliciously Diverse Cast”), Trouble is behind the camera, giving direction to some of the hottest stars to grace the porno screen, including Jiz Lee, Syd Blakovich and April Flores, to name a few. Her first movie, Roulette, has just hit HotMovies4Her and we couldn’t be more excited to celebrate this fabulously fierce femme queer pornographer and the super hot fruits of her labor.

1. How (and when) did you get started in the industry?
I’m not exactly sure when my involvement with making feminist, queer imagery became an involvement in the adult industry, because at first it was an art project focusing on expressing “real” desires to equalize my experiences as a full-time fantasy-based (aka not-real) phone sex operator. I can’t pinpoint a decisive moment when I realized that No Fauxxx was a breathing entity in the porn industry. Except maybe right now, with my first film being released world-wide on a mainstream (and yet, extremely sex-positive!) level.

2. If you weren’t in the adult industry, what would you be doing?
I was 18 when I started doing phone sex, working from home. I taught myself web design and digital photo editing and printing in my down time during my 4-5 years. I went to school for photography, I actually have two degrees. I think if I weren’t lucky enough to be surviving (meagerly) off my art, I would still be doing something with photography or web design more commercially.

Check out the rest of our interview with Courtney Trouble on HotMoviesForHer.com

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xoxo
-J.D. Bauchery
www.hotmoviesforher.com

HotMoviesForHer.com Link Love

2009-09-09T13:03:55-05:00

(Photo via The Frisky)

Happy Humpday! Welcome back to the midweek stretch. Today is 09/09/09, which, coupled with the shortened week, means that today is an extra special Humpday. Humpday Extraordinaire! Let’s celebrate this super exciting day the best way we know how, with a little Link Lovin’! We’ve traveled to the end of the Internet per usual to bring you the best of the best of what’s out there. Enjoy!

- These days, safe sex ads are getting more and more brazen in their attempts to ditch the sugar-coating and get their point across. The Frisky rounded up the 12 craziest ones - including two that feature Hitler… which is enough to put the breaks on feeling sexy at all. Seriously, who wants to think about Hitler before they get busy. I guess the ad works.

- The last sex toy I ever want anywhere near my ladybits.

- Jiz Lee and April Flores, with Belladonna filming - does it get any hotter? I think not.

Check out HotMoviesForHer.com for more Link Lovin'!!

xoxo
-J.D. Bauchery

HotMoviesForHer.com's Top Five Tuesday - Win 1000 FREE Porn Minutes!

2009-08-25T11:21:27-05:00

One year ago, on a warm Tuesday afternoon in August, I sat down at my desk here at the HM4Her headquarters to find something blog-worthy to post. After scouring the Internet for what seemed like 100 years, I came up with nothing. Instead of shrugging and moving on to another project, I said NO, screw that, I’m gonna take this time to let the world know what J.D. Bauchery is thinkin’ - what I like. So I looked at all my favorite movies on the site (well, maybe not all my favies, we do have over 100,000) and chose my top porn scenes. Five scenes, to be exact. And with that post, an alliteration was born!

That’s right, this week we are celebrating the anniversary of Top Five Tuesday! From our favorite Sasha Grey flicks and greatest female directors to the rauchiest bizzaro porns and hottest male masturbation movies - we really try to cover it all. This time it’s your turn.

In the great tradition of one good turn deserving another, HotMoviesForHer.com is giving out 1000 FREE PORN MINUTES! We want to know your Top Five choices of any movie on the site. Horror porns, anal action, lesbians licking lots of lady bits - you name it!

To find out more about this awesome contest, check out our post on HotMoviesForHer.com!

xoxo
-J.D. Bauchery

www.hotmoviesforher.com

Happy Birthday Betty Dodson!

2009-08-24T15:54:36-05:00

Our favorite self-lovin’ guru Betty Dodson turns 80 years old today! We just wanted to give a shout out to the fabulous Ms. Dodson and send the hottest HotMoviesForHer birthday wishes we can!

Head over to HotMoviesForHer to read the rest of this post!

xoxo
-J.D. Bauchery

www.hotmoviesforher.com

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20 Questions With Erotic Filmmaker Candida Royalle, Part. 1

2009-08-10T12:40:56-05:00

Written by: J.D. Bauchery
(photo credit: Arthur Cohen)

Long before there was a marketplace of women making dirty movies for women, there was Candida Royalle. Just about 25 years ago, Royalle moved from in front of the camera to behind the lens and began creating porn she was interested in watching with her studio, Femme Productions. Considered a rock star by lady porn lovers (including us HM4Her gals), Candida was one of the first to start releasing movies made from a woman’s voice and created with women viewers in mind. Without her vision and perseverance, ‘for women, by women’ porn might never have taken off like it has, and we might not even exist. So thanks, Candida!

Along with being the queen of women’s porn, Royalle wears quite a number of different tiaras, including being the first erotic filmmaker to have been invited to become a member of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT), as well as a celebrated sex toy designer with her Natural Contours line of discreet, high-style toys.

And because Candida was a pioneer of the field and fought on the forefront of female porn, the woman has a lot of wonderful memories and stories! So to let us take a glimpse of the past and experience all Candida has to say, we’ve broken her interview into four parts, complete with some of her personal pictures from other the years!

Look for the four parts of Candida’s interview, posting on Monday’s!

Head over to HotMoviesForHer.com for the first part of this awesome interview!

xoxo
-J.D. Bauchery
www.hotmoviesforher.com

HotMoviesForHer Wants You To Ask Nina!

2009-07-22T16:01:51-05:00

Ever wonder what goes on at a porn shoot? Coming up this Friday, July 24th, our big brother HotMovies.com is going behind the scenes for the making of Screw My Wife Please! #68 from Wildlife Productions.

What’s even better is it’s your chance to interact with HotMoviesForHer.com’s obsession, Nina Hartley!

Users wishing to chat will need Yahoo! Messenger to communicate with Hartley directly. Once they have it, they can add SMWLive as a buddy to talk to the starlet. Some customers may prefer to email her at smwlive@yahoo.com instead of chatting.

Here’s a list of questions I have planned so far:

1. Why are you so awesome?
2. How do you manage to get hotter with every passing year?
3. Do you have a best friend?

It’s going to be so rad and I totally have a follow up question planned if she answers “No” to question number 3.

Head to HotMoviesForHer to check out the full press release so you can get all of the awesome details.

Link Love

2009-07-08T12:36:31-05:00

Happy Humpday! Welcome back to the mid-week stretch! Sure last week was a short one, but can you believe it’s already Wednesday again? But being Humpday, we are back with all the sexy news fit to print! So let’s get to it!

- We Have Bananas has been seeing dicks everywhere! In landscaping, meat, coffee - you name it! Kinda creepy and kinda cool, but what I want to know is what about all the vag? Give me something a little risquer than Georgia O’keeffe. (via The Frisky)

- You’ve had the best porn star name picked out ever since you mixed your first pet with the street you grew up on (mine is Spike Moredon - how cool is that!?!). Now’s your chance to finally use it! Fleshbot wants us to help name porn’s Next It Girl

. Annnnnd there is a fabulous prize for the winner as well! Get thinkin’!

Head over to Hotmoviesforher.com for more Link Love!

xoxo
-J.D. Bauchery

Porn for “Women of a Certain Age”

2009-06-30T15:55:08-05:00

For the last few years, I’ve been seeing these “Porn For Women” books floating around. Instead of dirty pictures, the books are full of men doing housework, taking care of babies and being really interested in what women have to say. The latest of this series is Porn For Women Of A Certain Age, a collection of pictures and phrases specifically for the more mature gals. While “Just how long do you plan on defying the laws of gravity?” and “I just don’t get this whole trophy wife thing” are pretty hot to hear… when it comes to porn, I think it should involve sex - or at least nudity.

Lucky for those “women of a certain age,” we have a bunch of movies that are perfect for spicing up your sex life and getting you hot and bothered at any age (well, at least over 18)! The awesome folks over at the Sinclair Institute offer up a ton of great instructional flicks, including these two series that feature super hot sex with performers that are a little older than your usual adult stars. That’s right, REAL porn for women of any age! Complete with sex and nudity!

Head over to HotMoviesForHer.com for these great Sinclair Institute selections!

xoxo
-J.D. Bauchery

www.hotmoviesforher.com

Office Work - A Sex Toy Giveaway From HotMoviesForHer.com

2009-06-29T12:55:21-05:00

Nothing sucks more than going to work during the summer. We’re trained our whole lives to be lazy once the weather turns, but then you finish school and you’re stuck inside while the best days of the year waste away. It’s total crap.

Of course, there are a few things one can do to make the work day fly by. One option would be working. I always have more than I can possibly do and time flies by… A second suggestion would be to sneak off to a dark corner and get XXX with a friend or yourself. I mean, if Dwight Schrute can get off at work, anyone can!

In an effort to get you through the day, we’ve teamed up with EdenFantasy.com for a new fun new contest. I’m sure you’re wondering what’s up for grabs, so I won’t delay any further.

We’re giving away Lelo’s Mia to one lucky reader. The Mia is a discreet vibe that could easily pass as a tube of lipstick in the bottom of your bag. This travel sized toy is rechargeable, multi-speed and phthalate-free. If you’re a tech junkie you’re going to love it, because unlike most rechargeable vibes, there’s no cord and charger to keep track of - this baby charges through a computer USB port. How rad is that?

Now for the important stuff - the rules. For those of you who are really craving this toy, you can earn up to three raffle tickets for our random drawing.

1. Comment on the original HotMoviesForHer.com post. You can tell us your favorite office fantasy, a true life tale of desktop debauchery or let us know how you think the Mia could help you through your day.

2. Retweet the following message:
RT @HotMovies4Her is giving away a Mia thanks to @EdenFantasys check it out http://tinyurl.com/lwt8o4

3. Follow @HotMovies4Her and @EdenFantasys on Twitter and send hm4her a dm letting me know!

The winner will be determined by a random drawing next Monday, July 6th at noon. You must be 18 and a resident of the continental U.S. or Canada to win. Sorry, but rules are rules.

p.s. The ladies of HotMoviesForHer.com are in no way responsible for the consequences of your office trysts. Thankfully, we’re not responsible for much.

Again, DON'T comment here to enter, comment at HotMoviesForHer.com!

xoxo
HotMoviesforher.com

Top Five Tuesday - Ripped From The Headlines!

2009-06-23T15:39:11-05:00

While I wouldn’t say that all porn is true to life (it’s all about the fanasties), there are some dirty flicks that grab their ideas right from what’s happening in the world. In “Law & Order” speak, their topics are ’ripped from the headlines’ (a phrase which I love). Sure they usually don’t have anything to do with the event or trend, but more often than not, the pornographer does a phenomenal job of marketing the shit out of what the movie is based on and definitely more often than not, I am too curious not to watch. Here’s a list of my favorite current event/trend/headline based fuck flicks. Enjoy!

For the Top Five Ripped From The Headline Porns, head over to HotMoviesForHer.com!

xoxo
-J.D. Bauchery

www.hotmoviesforher.com

The Philadelphia Trans Health Conference and a Look at Trans Porn!

2009-06-16T11:33:03-05:00

Last Friday I spent the day hanging out at the 8th Annual Philadelphia Trans-Health Conference and got my learn on about all the new medical and health info going on in the transgender community. This conference is near and dear to my heart and I’ve been either attending or volunteering for a bunch of years. This year I was lucky enough to not only go to learn, but to also preach the porno gospel and hand out free 30-minute cards for HotMoviesForHer.com.

While I was super excited to pass out our cards and turn people on to great porno, I wasn’t quite sure how it would go over. I mean, we are HotMoviesForHer.com, so what about all the people I wanted to talk to that don’t identify as her? I certainly didn’t want to make anyone uncomfortable. And the fact is that we have some of the most awesome female-to-male trans porn that’s on the market and more hot queer porn than you can shake a stick at!

Well, turns out I just need to quiet my buzzing Virgo brain more often, because no one gives a crap about a name when you are giving them access to free hot porn. We could be called BirdSharkFishButt.com and folks would still come a-running at the mere mention of hot queer humping. That said, everyone that I spoke with was super excited about HotMoviesForHer and what we have to offer. Maybe it’s because I’m such an awesome salesgal or maybe porn just sells itself (more likely), but I was out of cards by the time I left for the evening. And had the promise of a few emails on their way asking me for movie suggestions.

I also spent the day going to a bunch of different workshops on all sorts of topics, including Queering Genderqueer (looking at the gender spectrum in a way that includes every identity and presentation of gender/androdgyny out there), creating positive and educational media images for the trans community, working with trans youth, and an awesome kinky sex and trans bodies presentation, which was super informative and definitely HOTTT!

At the end of the kink workshop they asked for annoucements and stuff like that, so of course I got up and let everyone know that I have a bunch of free porn minutes and to come see me. Like I said above, I got to talk to a bunch of rad people about queer porn and the kinds of hot hot movies we have to offer. That said, I wanted to make sure that all our readers/viewers know about all the amazing queer and trans porn

we have on HotMoviesForHer.com!

Read the reast of this post on HotMoviesForHer.com to learn all about our awesome queer and trans porn!

xoxo
-J.D. Bauchery