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  <updated>2008-05-26T06:38:47-05:00</updated>
  <entry>
    <title>The High School Memory Blanket</title>
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    <published>2008-07-21T23:21:40-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-07-21T23:21:40-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>candeelady</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Crafts" />
    <category term="arts and crafts" />
    <category term="blanket" />
    <category term="crafts" />
    <category term="Daughters" />
    <category term="moms" />
    <category term="sewing" />
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<p>What can you do with 25 high school T shirts that cannot be worn in college because it isn't &quot;cool&quot;?</p>
<p>25 times $15 equals $375.00 of clothing that's outdated !!!!</p>
<p>You cut out the centers, all the same size and make a blanket! </p>
<p>We worked as a team on this. About 25% of my advice was accepted and used -Pretty good for a teen and Mom project. ( 75% of what I suggested was DUMB) Of course ALL of her ideas were the best! (wink-wink)</p>
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<p>What can you do with 25 high school T shirts that cannot be worn in college because it isn't &quot;cool&quot;?</p>
<p>25 times $15 equals $375.00 of clothing that's outdated !!!!</p>
<p>You cut out the centers, all the same size and make a blanket! </p>
<p>We worked as a team on this. About 25% of my advice was accepted and used -Pretty good for a teen and Mom project. ( 75% of what I suggested was DUMB) Of course ALL of her ideas were the best! (wink-wink)</p>
<p>For more info on &quot;how to&quot;  go to <a href="http://www.gogogluegunfun.com/2008/07/mom-and-teen-going-away-to-college.html">My Blog</a></p>
<p> My Girl Carlynn</p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Pretty Sassy Straw Purse</title>
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    <published>2008-07-01T04:14:06-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-07-01T04:16:31-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>candeelady</name>
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    <category term="Crafts" />
    <category term="beach" />
    <category term="crafts" />
    <category term="design" />
    <category term="easy" />
    <category term="Fashion" />
    <category term="project" />
    <category term="purse" />
    <category term="spring" />
    <category term="style" />
    <category term="tropical" />
    <category term="tweens" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Who sayes Craft Blogs are fading away.  Mo way, mine is in full swing and I've got tons of ideas to video and show. Kids especially need summertime craft projects and this is a simple and fashionable one!  Great fun for Moms and dd's to share the creativity and then share the Purses!!</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Who sayes Craft Blogs are fading away.  Mo way, mine is in full swing and I've got tons of ideas to video and show. Kids especially need summertime craft projects and this is a simple and fashionable one!  Great fun for Moms and dd's to share the creativity and then share the Purses!!</p>
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    <title>Pretty Sassy Straw Purse</title>
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    <published>2008-06-23T02:27:23-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-06-23T03:34:32-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>candeelady</name>
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    <category term="Crafts" />
    <category term="arts and crafts" />
    <category term="create your own style" />
    <category term="creativity for kids" />
    <category term="Fashion" />
    <category term="kids" />
    <category term="Middle School Tweens" />
    <category term="purse" />
    <category term="style" />
    <category term="tweens" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Time for a new fun craft for Tweens and Moms! I picked up these very cute straw purses at the dollar store. They were lined with fabric and <span style="color: #33cc00">Only One Dollar</span> - how do they make them so cheap?</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Time for a new fun craft for Tweens and Moms! I picked up these very cute straw purses at the dollar store. They were lined with fabric and <span style="color: #33cc00">Only One Dollar</span> - how do they make them so cheap? They did have some very tacky sequin decor on them which I easily removed by snipping a few threads. I chose a<span style="color: #ffff00"> </span><span style="color: #993399">&quot;</span><span style="color: #993399">Spring&quot;</span> design and a <span style="color: #3366ff">&quot;Tropical&quot;</span> design but feel free to do your own thing as they say. Remember Tweens are crazy for choosing their own style and also LOVE crafts that are<span style="color: #ff6666"> FASHION</span> related. Teaching them to create their own style can save LOTS OF MONEY too, because a girl who can design, glue and sew loves the individuality of her wardrobe and often avoids the &quot;cookie cutter&quot; expensive fashions worn by the masses. Wander through a Michaels or A.C. Moore craft store and you can get ideas for the design style you like. Browse through the jewelry and applique isles and something will &quot;Grab Your Fancy&quot; ........................Exactly what is &quot;your fancy&quot;? (Strange cliche ) Anyway Have fun.................. AND GOGO GLUE GUN!........................<a rel="tag" href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/permalink">permalink</a></p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Dress That NAKED  Bunny---Plushie of Course!</title>
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    <published>2008-06-11T01:49:00-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-06-11T01:49:00-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>candeelady</name>
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    <category term="Crafts" />
    <category term="arts and crafts" />
    <category term="design" />
    <category term="Fashion" />
    <category term="fun craft" />
    <category term="girls" />
    <category term="Holiday Entertainment" />
    <category term="kids crafts" />
    <category term="parenting girls" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/26290611@N02/2569977090/" title="094 Fancy Bunny by candeecrafter, on Flickr"><img style="width: 277px; height: 372px" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3124/2569977090_f7aac48228.jpg" alt="094 Fancy Bunny" width="375" height="500" /></a></p>
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<p>Here is a really fun and fashiony craft for tweens (and MOMS) to make.  Take you favorite&quot;Naked&quot; plushie, take 3 measurements and with a glue gun and some trims make her FAAAAANCY!  It is so easy and girls love to design fashion.  Great party craft too!  Follow the link to my blog where I have complete video insructions Part One and Two. I demonstrate the whole simple process. </p>
<p>                           And it is S I M P L E  ,  for fun, No Sewing is required</p>
<p><a href="http://www.gogogluegunfun.com/2008/04/dress-bunny-plushie-of-course.html">GoGoGlueGunFun-Craft Blog</a></p>
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    <title>Rattle Snake Toy Craft </title>
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    <published>2008-06-07T04:41:41-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-06-23T04:07:55-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>candeelady</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Crafts" />
    <category term="art" />
    <category term="craft" />
    <category term="design" />
    <category term="kids" />
    <category term="make" />
    <category term="party" />
    <category term="tweens" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Here's my latest video and this item is fun for kids from 3 to whatever. I did a teen party once and they had a ball, although a few snakes had 3 eyes and other space alien type appendages, but clever and lots of laughs at the party!!</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.gogogluegunfun.com/2008/03/silly-rattle-snake-and-laboring-to.html#links">Rattlesnake Craft Video</a></strong></p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Here's my latest video and this item is fun for kids from 3 to whatever. I did a teen party once and they had a ball, although a few snakes had 3 eyes and other space alien type appendages, but clever and lots of laughs at the party!!</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.gogogluegunfun.com/2008/03/silly-rattle-snake-and-laboring-to.html#links">Rattlesnake Craft Video</a></strong></p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Silly Rattle Snake Toy Craft</title>
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    <published>2008-05-28T04:34:43-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-28T04:34:43-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>candeelady</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Crafts" />
    <category term="crafts" />
    <category term="DIY" />
    <category term="easy" />
    <category term="kids" />
    <category term="summertime" />
    <category term="toy" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Your kids will really get a kick, oops I mean a &quot;rattle&quot; out of this project! All you need is your glue gun to make this fun toy.  The rattler is made with beads and a plastic easter egg.  Have FUN!</p>
<p>Complete video instructions at <a href="http://www.gogogluegunfun.com/2008/03/silly-rattle-snake-and-laboring-to.html#links">GoGo Glue Gun Fun</a></p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Your kids will really get a kick, oops I mean a &quot;rattle&quot; out of this project! All you need is your glue gun to make this fun toy.  The rattler is made with beads and a plastic easter egg.  Have FUN!</p>
<p>Complete video instructions at <a href="http://www.gogogluegunfun.com/2008/03/silly-rattle-snake-and-laboring-to.html#links">GoGo Glue Gun Fun</a></p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Tame That Tween Tongue</title>
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    <published>2008-05-26T04:43:12-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-26T06:38:47-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>candeelady</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Mommy &amp; Family" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Has your fun loving adorable child turned into an unrecognizable fresh mouthed &quot;Tween&quot;? Do you wonder what went wrong? Did I make some horrible parental mistake to cause my child to morph into this alien nasty being? Her friends don’t act like this…………….or do they?</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Has your fun loving adorable child turned into an unrecognizable fresh mouthed &quot;Tween&quot;? Do you wonder what went wrong? Did I make some horrible parental mistake to cause my child to morph into this alien nasty being? Her friends don’t act like this…………….or do they?<br />Rest assured you are not alone. Most all kids change in the tween years, that's 8 to 12, and develop a testy unpredictable attitude towards you - &quot; THE PARENTAL UNIT&quot;. They begin to see the freedoms and power of adulthood and they want to grow up as fast as possible. But of course they cannot speed up time and so they are very impatient and frustrated and they speak and act out towards you. You, who makes the rules and they see as the person who won't let them have any fun.<br />Why can't I stay up all night? Why can't I go shopping every day? Why can't I watch TV all day? Why can't I walk to my friends house at night? And on and on and on…….. Of course you must say &quot;NO&quot; a lot and then the fresh and sometimes nasty tongue gets out of hand.<br /><strong>Try these tips to help curb the tween tongue.</strong><br />1. During an afternoon, when there is harmony in the household, have a &quot;sit down at the table&quot; talk with the tween and both parents. Let them know you will not tolerate rude language from them and they will be disciplined for it. Be specific about what exactly crosses the line, and what the punishment will be. You will need to allow some behaviors from them that are acceptable expressions of frustration such as eye rolling, deep sighs, refusing to look at you , etc. These behaviors are not horrible, just very annoying.<br />2. Stick to the plan and don’t argue with them. When they are rude don't get emotional. Wait awhile until the tension has subsided and then tell them they have earned a punishment of_______ (whatever you decide is appropriate). It's very important that you don't get caught up into arguing with them. Once you tell them &quot;No you are not allowed to do that because_____________&quot;, walk away from them. If they keep nagging, ignore them and get away from them. Answering them once is enough. They enjoy the arguing, believe it or not, because they feel in control of you, so simply refuse to do it..<br />3. Give your tween some additional privileges as long as she has been behaving . Allow a little later bedtime. Allow her more of her own choices in clothing and room decor. Extend curfews for special parties and activities. These little freedoms send a message - That mature behavior has it's rewards.<br />4. Assign your tween some household chores. Chores teach two things. They learn that growing up means assuming some of the work of managing a home and family. They also build self esteem because they are doing something that is important.<br />5. Together with your tween, plan and do some fun family activities. Even if they act like this is boring or they just &quot;don't want to&quot;, make them do it anyway. They may act stubborn at first but they will soon forget to be grumpy and have a good time. Let them bring a friend along if you think this will encourage participation. Your tween needs to know that you enjoy being with them, even if they act like they don’t care. Deep down inside they do care very much.<br />The tween years bring on new challenges for parents.<br />The fresh words they use can be shocking and hurtful to parents. A combination of discipline for the rude behavior and allowing some beginning adult responsibilities can curb this problem. Let the tween know the plan, stick to it, refuse to argue, allow some grown up responsibilities, and enjoy fun family time as well. Keep the parent and tween relationship both respectful and loving. The difficult teen years are next and you want to head into age 13 and beyond with a solid foundation.For more discussion of parenting tweens visit <a href="http://www.gogogluegunfun.com">My blog GoGo Glue Gun Fun-</a> Bonding Moms and Tweens to Navigate Our Crazy World</p>
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