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    <title>4-Girl Revolution?</title>
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    <published>2008-08-26T03:30:39-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-08-26T03:30:39-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Ily</name>
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    <category term="feminism" />
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    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<h3 class="post-title entry-title">
<a href="http://theonepercentclub.blogspot.com/2008/08/sisterhood-of-traveling-pants-2.html">Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants: 2</a><br />
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<h3 class="post-title entry-title">
<a href="http://theonepercentclub.blogspot.com/2008/08/sisterhood-of-traveling-pants-2.html">Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants: 2</a><br />
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<p><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lXzzGQMqW4s/SKaG2-1055I/AAAAAAAAAJc/3dwB9BndGNM/s1600-h/stp2.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5235019896004601746" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lXzzGQMqW4s/SKaG2-1055I/AAAAAAAAAJc/3dwB9BndGNM/s320/stp2.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br />I just read <a href="http://www.chicagotribune.com/features/lifestyle/chi-sisterhood-review-0806aug06,0,2643598.story">a really interesting movie review</a>.<br />
It's for &quot;Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants: 2&quot;, a movie I recently saw<br />
that's currently in theaters. I enjoyed the first &quot;Sisterhood&quot; movie,<br />
but I didn't like the second one as much. Always one to harp on a<br />
detail, I was aggravated by the fact that the characters weren't able<br />
to voice the words &quot;condom&quot;, &quot;period&quot;, or, God-forbid, &quot;emergency<br />
contraception&quot;. It also seemed more unrealistic and choppy than the<br />
first film. But Jessica Reaves of the Chicago Tribune says:</p>
<p><span>&quot;In<br />
the current popular culture, female friendships—at any age—are<br />
generally considered secondary to life's &quot;important&quot; relationships, the<br />
romantic bonds between men and women.</span>   <span><br />
Nowhere is this depressing trend more evident than in Hollywood, where<br />
story lines putatively about women's friendships tend toward the<br />
saccharine (&quot;Mona Lisa Smile&quot;), the malicious (&quot;Mean Girls&quot;) or the<br />
boy-crazy (take your pick).</span>   <span> Which is why it's such a pleasure (and a relief) to encounter movies such as &quot; </span><a id="ENMV000137" href="http://www.chicagotribune.com/topic/entertainment/movies/the-sisterhood-of-the-traveling-pants-2-ENMV000137.topic" title="The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants 2" class="taxInlineTagLink">The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants 2</a><span>.&quot;<br />
Like the first &quot;Pants&quot; movie, it presents its heroines' relationships<br />
as complicated, challenging and particularly rewarding, and not simply<br />
as a vehicle for finding the perfect boyfriend.</span>&quot;</p>
<p>and:</p>
<p><span>&quot;Nothing<br />
about this movie feels revolutionary, but don't let its easy charm fool<br />
you. Like its predecessor, &quot;Sisterhood 2&quot; is based on two radical<br />
ideas: namely, that young women's stories are about more than the<br />
pursuit of men, and that happiness isn't something someone else gives<br />
you—it's something you have to find for yourself.</span>&quot;</p>
<p><span>I<br />
find it immensely sad that this is a &quot;radical&quot; idea. I wish I could say<br />
with certainty that it's only radical at the box office, but I'm not<br />
sure if that's the case. And how radical was it really, when 3 out of<br />
the 4 characters have life-changing experiences involving men? In<br />
Carmen [America Ferrara]'s storyline, a handsome British boy appears<br />
out of the wings of a theater and inspires her to achieve her true<br />
potential. As usual, women are steadfast companions, but men are<br />
catalysts for change. And that's an old chestnut. Can't we please be<br />
radical once we've started being radical?</span></p>
<p>I remember quoting <a href="http://jezebel.com/">another blog</a> in my post on <a href="http://theonepercentclub.blogspot.com/2008/05/harold-kumar-boston-marriage-for-guys.html">buddy movies</a>.<br />
The author said that we should go see &quot;Baby Mama&quot;, even if we think<br />
we'll hate the movie, because we need to show Hollywood that<br />
female-fronted films can make money. </p>But I'm conflicted about<br />
the idea of sacrificing $10.50 for a movie I may not enjoy, or telling<br />
others to do so. I want to see more movies like &quot;Sisterhood&quot;, but if a<br />
movie doesn't &quot;feel revolutionary&quot;, is anyone (besides chronic<br />
overthinkers) going to get that it is?
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