Pressures about money can put a damper on your love life. The men in our lives often burrow into a hole when the economy is in trouble and it can be lonely in there. Your own worries about money aren’t exactly the best aphrodisiac around either.

The Answer May Surprise You. The disappointment I hear in the voices of the women who are lonely and looking for romance in their lives is haunting. “Why do I keep attracting the jerks and losers?” “All of the men in my age group are married or satisfied with being single.” “What if I never meet the love of my life?”

As the meeting went on...past the scheduled ending time, I felt my stomach clutch into a knot. Knowing my man was waiting for me and yet wanting to stay until the end of the meeting, I found myself feeling tense and uncomfortable. I knew he would be upset and I find myself bending over backwards to keep that from happening. I felt pressure in my throat. Wait a minute here. Haven't I felt like this before? Only a thousand times. Wait another minute, how old am I? Thirteen?

Good. At least you are calling a spade a spade. If you are a personal life coach and you want more clients, are prepared for more clients and feel you are ready for more clients then where are they? Ladies and gentlemen, I have a feeling no one has clued you in to the free advertising that is available to you right now, in this minute. This is true especially if you are a writer.

Every now and then, life throws a curve ball with devastating impact. There isn’t one of us who will escape. That is the path of life. In the midst of a deeply challenging event, it is hard to know what side is up. There is no spare energy for anything beyond stark survival.