How do we create peace in our lives?  How do we create a peaceful world?  We don't, because it already is. 

I am a 40-something divorced woman with the libido of an 18 year old boy.  I didn’t realize that when ‘they’ said women peak in their 40’s that it would be like this.  I am insatiable these days and this has led me to question what acceptable behavior is and is not for me.  

Now I am a very positive person.  I meditate, find the silver lining in most situations, and take good care of myself.  So when I entered the 3rd floor of the family court building yesterday, it was not long before I felt assaulted by the negative energy that permeates the air.

I have had the unique experience of going on one date through an on-line service and meeting a really great guy.  We have been together for 9 months and have a great friendship and passionate relationship.  He lived in NYC and I am on Long Island.  As a single mom, I almost always went in to his apt. which was great; it was like my ‘other’ life and I loved it.

In today’s IVillage Daily Essentials, they have an article about the Pursuit of Happiness.  In a nut shell it states that men are happier as they age than women and follows with comments from various women.  Women gave a lot of different reasons why that might be so, pertaining to their married, children, job or financially situation.  B