It gets really tiring to assist with the role of breadwinner AND have all the duties of a stay at home mom as well.  I don't know how many reading this work full time 9-5 jobs, or even part time jobs, but I'm sure you can relate.  My husband gets off at 3:00 everyday, sometimes earlier.  But when I come home at 5 or 5:30, the dishes from breakfast are still in the sink, the bed is unmade and none of the housework has been touched.  And what are his first words to me?  "what's for dinner?."  And you know, the older I get, I find this less and less tolerable.  Anybody else fe