Dear Diary: Yes!  I am still pissed off!!!  How long does it take to get over this???  I am hoping that perhaps once the divorce is final and I can get some closure, I will be able to process all the emotions that are whirling around in my mind and heart.

  Dear Diary: I am one pissed off white chick!  I am sick of men and their games!  Why oh why can't there be even one decent male in the world? Ok, I am sure there are a few - but they are probably all taken by women who don't appreciate what they have. Why am I pissed off?  Let me tell you...

I recently posted a list of ten things I will not accept in a relationship.  I have received a lot of great feedback from that post... all of which I appreciate. While making that first list, I also made many other lists of tens.  Here is the next installment.  I hope you enjoy it!   Ten Things I Must Have In A Relationship 1. Love

In contemplating my life at the ripe old age of forty-five, and while going through a divorce, I came up with a list of ten things I will not accept in a relationship. These ten things apply to every single relationship I have, from work to family to friends and especially to men. 1. I will not be controlled or manipulated.