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The Bloggess and Her Christmas Miracle

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This post originally appeared on The Bloggess.

Christmas Miracle

The past few days have been a whirlwind, and I’m exhausted and have given myself hives so please forgive the typos.

A few days ago I put up a post offering $30 gift cards to the first twenty people who didn’t know how they were going to give their kids Christmas gifts this year. They went frighteningly quickly. When I got to the twentieth person, I saw that there were still a few more people who needed help, and my heart sunk. Then a few comments in, one person said, “I’ll take care of the 21st person.” Then another person offered a card for the 22nd. Then another. Then it avalanched.

In the past few days, that post has gotten over 500 comments and so many heart-breaking requests from people who need a small hand-up to buy food for Christmas dinner or from people who are planning on telling their children that there is no Santa because otherwise they wouldn’t understand why he didn’t come.

It’s hard not to read the comments and not ache a little because so many of us have either been there or see how easy it would be to be in their position one day. But here’s the amazing thing ... every time someone would leave a comment asking for help, someone else would leave a comment asking to help. And that’s why as of Friday morning, every single person who asked for help here is matched up with at least one person who will be sending them a gift card. In fact, so many people offered to help that we were able to give out multiple gift cards to people who had a greater need. And when things seemed dicey and I was about to call for an end to comments, a wonderful man emailed me and told me that he’s so enjoyed the community on this blog that he wanted to donate $1,000, no questions asked. So, ten people who were really struggling woke up this morning to $100 in their PayPal accounts.

Another reader offered $250 to a family in desperate need. A doll-clothes store owner sent sent seven beautiful Madame Alexander/American Girl dolls to wait under the tree for seven little girls who truly needed a single happy surprise in their lives right now.

People getting the gift cards are vowing to pay the gift forward next year. Emails are flooding in from people in shock, in tears and so grateful. And the funny thing is that half of those crying, grateful people are the ones who are donating. They’re so happy to have finally felt something warm and true that they’re feeling a Christmas spirit for the first time since they were children.

I know exactly what they mean.

Thank you. Thank you for donating and thank you for sharing your story. Thank you for asking for help so that others can feel like miracle workers. Thank you for kind words and thoughts and for being you. Thank you.

I’m going out of town for the weekend to pick up my mom and bring her here for Christmas, but if you’ve asked for help and haven’t received it by Monday then just leave me a comment next week and I’ll see if I can find another donor to help you. And if you still want to help, leave a comment, too. There are still people trickling in and we may need some angels to swoop in on Monday in case any of the matches flake out.

PS. I just want to point out that my traffic the last two days has been exactly the same as usual. What that means to me is that the people donating and the people receiving are all part of the usual community of people who regularly read and comment at The Bloggess. That. Is. Amazing. And I’m so proud to be part of this community. You guys are the best minions ever.

UPDATE: So many people have gone on their own blogs to offer up their own gift cards to people in need, and it’s amazing. Thank

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grannysu 5 pts

for how incredible this. How good to know that there are people doing such things. You have brightened Christmas for many, including those of us just now reading this. Blessings on you and all the generous people who gave.

Granny Sue Stories from the Mountains and Beyond www.grannysu.blogspot.com ( http://www.grannysu.blogspot.com ) susannaholstein@yahoo.com

NotJustAnotherJennifer 5 pts

...to have found the blogosphere. I've read The Blogess off and on, but after this all took off, I became a follower so I could see how big it got. So. Amazing! I wish I had been in on the start. Totally reminds us that the spirit of Christmas truly is alive. Thank you, Jenny.

Jennifer Barr is a wife and working mom of two beautiful girls, 3 going on 13 and 1 year, which means she's sleep deprived but constantly kept on her toes! Most of those experiences are chronicled on her blog, http://midwestmomments.blogspot.com.

catdelouise 5 pts

I was going to ask my readers for help for this woman. My husband and I are both sick and have not worked, both in the disability process.

This year we swallowed our pride and became an Adopt a Family, perhaps that is something you can check out next year if there is one around your area. We are also on WIC and Food Stamps.

2011 looks to be the Year of the Bankruptcy for us:-(

Have you been to the message boards of http://www.butyoudontlooksick.com ? No money there but plenty of support for chronically ill moms.

Hoping 2011 is a better year for you and can find work and better health.

Much love and prayers,

Emily

Calliope 5 pts

As someone that was able to live because of the supreme generosity of an internet person (now good friend)I can not express how life changing this kind of movement this is. I was someone that needed help- and SO many people helped me. And now that my life is starting to turn back around I live it knowing that a huge part of what I must do is always help others in need. It is a chain reaction.
Hearing that SO many people were helped and so many people were driven to help is the most beautiful thing EVER. Thank you for being the stage.

Calliope blogs about Alzheimer's, Infertility, and Single Motherhood at http://creatingmotherhood.com

morgan_jody 5 pts

I totally understand where you are coming from...I am disabled as well and unlike you, I am unable to help other families due to my financial and living situation.

Kudos to you for your help towards this woman!

morgan_jody 5 pts

Being a single mom who hasn't worked since May of 2008 I can totally feel the pain of those families in need and I am so grateful that so many of those families have been taken care of in so many generous and wonderful ways.

I haven't provided a Christmas to my daughter since 2008, our savings went pretty quickly and now we are living in a small room at a friends house living on $350 a month, food stamps and Medicaid.

I am desperate for a job since I have a neurological condition that will last forever and I will continue to need treatment monthly going forward to treat the disorder and Medicaid has stopped covering the medication and it eats up over half of the money that I get each month. Cross your fingers that my appeal goes through and I will be able to get it covered by Medicaid again real soon.

My daughter is 12 and in 6th grade and she still believes in Santa. I wasn't feeling well and a friend took her to see Santa and apparently all she wants is her mom to be able to drive again and go to her school parties and events. That broke my heart. I wish I could do more for her, I really do.

I love to take pictures, so I have been putting every, and I mean every picture we have taken over the years into a photo album...I am up to 600 I think and graciously the friend I live with has been letting me borrow money to pay for the pictures in return for some free babysitting.

Some people look at my facebook page or my blog and say things look great for you. Sure they do, I don't like to complain and I am grateful for the assistance that some friends and family have offered us over the last two and a half years and for those that have assisted in helping me take care of my daughter when I couldn't. Because of them she has been able to enjoy her birthday and all kinds of other things.

I didn't want to ask for help this year, I just feel horrible doing it, and I kept praying for a miracle to happen...here we are a couple of days before Christmas and I read your email and it just gave me hope that my miracle will happen...I just need to be patient and wait.

I sit here tonight with my daughter and we are watching A Christmas Carol and I know that I need to cherish these moments because our children grow up so fast!

Thank you for listening...I appreciate all the work you do for those in need! The world needs more people like you!

Truthful Mommy 5 pts

Jenny,
YOu are so my SHero! OUt of one good deed, your generosity and trying to pay it forward you have started a movement of goodness adn giving!Merry Christmas to you indeed!
Debi

The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new. ~Rajneesh

LiveLaughLoveCj 5 pts

I BELIEVE in the inherent good nature of people.. I do.. but even sometimes I wonder...

I do not wonder right now, at this moment. Blessings, Joy, Peace and Love wished for all this holiday season.

~Wheresoever you go, go with all your heart~

LiveLaughLoveCj

catdelouise 5 pts

I am a disabled mom and my blog focuses mainly on the challenges we face, including financial. I just had a reader tell me that she could not afford ANY presents for her autistic son this year.

I am begging her to let me help her in a similar manner as you did. Hopefully if she allows me to, I will get in touch with you, Bloggess.

Someone always has it worse than us.

mammablestx6 5 pts

Sitting at the kitchen table reading this and in tears. So many days it's easy to find the coldness and harshness of the world. We had a rough couple of years, have had health issues no one would wish on anyone, but we have a warm house and food in our stomachs. Our children are healthy and happy...all 6 of them. The wonderful bloggers that host giveaways and reviews for sponsors is how we are able to give a few gifts to our younger kids and especially two grandchildren who have very little. I am most gracious to bloggers like you and all the people who stepped up to help. I saw this post way after this all happened, but it has instilled a renewed sense of wonder trust in the world...people do really have warm and giving hearts. Thank God.

Catootes 5 pts

I truly believe, despite my cynical demeanor, that people are inherently kind and giving.
What happened here reinforced belief and reminded me that doing something good for others is, in itself, a gift.

Let's all keep on giving.

Deb Rox 5 pts

Like a political coup or something as grand and massive and gorgeous as this. Talk about joyful and triumphant! Ovations, Jenny, ovations!

BlondieChicago 5 pts

I'm proud to know you. This is truly inspiring!

Authentic Life 5 pts

Thanks for sharing that story Bloggess.
Makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

KT

Grace@Haven 5 pts

Thank you for sharing your story, and for serving others. That is truly the spirit of Christmas. :)

Lavender Luz 6 pts

This is a mix of paying it forward and that old shampoo commercial. You tell 10,000 friends, and they tell 10,000 friends, and so on and so on...

Brilliant, Jenny.

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