Boxer Day or Boxing Day?

This holiday season, there is a battle raging on the internet, and it has nothing to do with Julian Assange against all the governments on earth.  Instead, it's a dog fight with so many pawns & paws, you don't know quite on whom to put your money....more

Mama's alright, Daddy's alright, they just seem a little weird

Today's Reverb10 prompt is "Everything's OK" -December 24 Prompt – Everything’s OK What was the best moment that could serve as proof that everything is going to be alright? And how will you incorporate that discovery into the year ahead?Family blog and all, but if your family is reading over your shoulder and involved in certain myths of the season, you might choose to read this later. Just sayin'....more

Dear Santa: A Parent's Un-wish List

Dear Santa, Some time in the next few days, you will receive a letter detailing an extensive list of wishes from my children. Before acting on it in any manner, please carefully consider my preemptive list of un-wishes. ...more

My son received the game Battleship for Christmas. I've already lost count of how many of those ...more

My Rights as a Mom

Rights are found everywhere; human rights, civil rights, animal rights, child rights, patient rights, criminal rights... but what about Mommy Rights? I actually googled 'Mom rights' before starting this article (see, I do research for my blog), and the only thing that really came up were rights that single moms had. There are 'parental rights' out there, but they are more for making sure the kids are taken care of and what happens if they aren't....more

Think About What You Say

 After two intense weeks of tantrums, screaming, flopping, crying and whining, my kids have finally had a language breakthrough.  For the past four days or so, they have not only been pointing at objects and telling me what they are, but they have been connecting abstract ideas together, using adjectives and nouns to specify their meaning, and using verbs and nouns to create basic sentences and to tell me what they are doing.They've got the command down pat."Look, mama.""Dance with me, mama.""Wait for me.""Help mama clean up."It's ha...more

I expect how you say it will be the next big linguistic breakthrough for them!

Amazing how we ...more

A Little Privacy Please

No one told me that having a child means that you forego every ounce of your dignity from day one of finding that you've a peanut growing in your belly.  ...more

Elf on A Shelf run Amuck

Last year, we  I decided that I wanted to start the whole Elf on the Shelf tradition with my girls.Of course, once I saw what the Elf on the Shelf actually looked like, there was no way I...more

The Fake Career Woman

A beautiful blogger and great friend of mine wrote a post today about being a fake stay at home mom (during break as a teacher.)  She got a lot of well-deserved hits, and I laughed at myself, saying, "I'm going to post where you post, claiming that SAHM is a career."But, then, I thought, what the heck, self?  SAHM is a career.She writes: As a teacher "for several weeks out of the year, you can pretend like you don't have a job and stay home with your kids."Now, anyone...more

Grandparents, and Holiday Madness

It is very hard to resist buying everything you see for your baby's first holiday! Once your little bundle turns 5 and your house is bursting with legos or doll clothes, and never played with toys, you no longer have that urge to 'pick up just one more thing' - that's what Grandparents are for. Those very same Grandparents are probably the ones who continued the toy gluttony that got you into this mess, literally! Raising the Grandparents takes the same skill set as raising your munchkin - patience and consistency. ...more

Give a little bit...

My family asked me what I wanted for Christmas this year. Hmmm, hmmmm, hmmmmmmm!! I have not a clue. There is certainly nothing I “need” this year. A new winter coat might be nice since my current vintage coat needs a few new buttons, but honestly I think that’s exactly what makes it cool. I could always use a new sweater, piece of costume jewelry or book. But I tend to get stuck on the “need” part of the holidays....more