5 Reasons Why You Should Sleep Naked

So its time for bed and you go for your sleeping attire that you love to sleep in. Nothing wrong with that right? Well, today I am going to give you a few reasons why you might want to abandon your sleeping attire for good and consider another option...your birthday suit....more
Interesting reasons. But seriously what if there is an earthquake? :Dmore

10 Signs of Laziness in Married Life

Sometimes we don't even see it. Sometimes we don't even realize it. But, laziness in marriage is way more complex than just keeping the house clean. It's about giving the best efforts possible to you and your marriage. But, sometimes recognizing when laziness has crept in is not as easy as it would seem. This is especially true when you and your spouse have acclimated yourselves to a steady daily routine. Several years into my marriage my husband and I fell into a routine that was perfect for our work schedules, our children and family....more

Why Do Coffee Klatsches and Married Couples Clash?

It’s not always for coffee though that’s what we seem to call it: a coffee date. Sometimes we meet for lunch, occasionally for group exercise, rarely for happy hour, but always with the intention of catching up, venting and renewing our friendship. But what’s interesting to me, is that these coffee friends of mine, some of whom don’t even drink coffee, rarely cross over into my couple’s life. It’s like there are daytime friends and nighttime friends and sometimes, like in a Venn Diagram, the two converge, but often they don’t and I’m left to wonder why....more

Stealing Love

It’s an age old question and issue that has circulated relationships as long as it has been in inception. Can someone honestly steal another’s significant other? Is it literally plausible to abduct, plunder or strip someone from their existing relationship with their beloved? After all, the very definition of stealing is “to take (the property of another or others) without permission or right, especially secretly or by force” (dictionary.com). However, a person in love cannot be so willfully taken....more

6 Daily Choices That Will Improve Your Relationship

Whatever self-care looks like for you, prioritize it without apology. Your relationship will reap the benefits.Over the course of a long-term relationship, you will need to make many Big Choices as a couple. Serious, life-altering decisions such as, “Should we move across the country so I can take that job?” and “Should we get married?” and “Are we ready to have kids?” and “How should we tackle this unexpected financial crisis?”...more

5 Tips for an Earth-Shattering Orgasm You HAVEN'T Already Tried

My mother used to say, “In a world that is largely focused on male pleasure — the female orgasm is an act of revolution.”Her words have even more resonance in today’s on-demand culture where porn (largely produced, directed, and watched by men) is sometimes the only sex education young men get....more

A Toast Before We Go Into Battle: True Love . . . In Whatever Shape Or Form It May Come. May We All In Our Dotage Be Proud To Sa

It's Christmas Eve....more
First of all... 17 pounds???  I gain that much over Christmas.  :p And, sweet blog.  Not ...more

Oh, We're Going To Talk About Me Again, Are We? Goody.

Golden years: noun, plural; the years of retirement, normally after age 65. ...more
"always shake a Martini to a waltz step" ... might be the best advice ever.  :)more

20 Stay-At-Home Date Night Ideas

Back when hubby and I were dating, long before kids, date nights were a regular thing.  Whether it was the movies, bowling or playing pool, we always went out....more

Keeping It Sexy: 9 Date Night Tips For New Parents

The days with baby are long; early-morning wake up calls from the nursery followed by a full day of bottles, burps, diaper changes, playtime, unsuccessful naps, mess cleaning, appointments, classes and a mountain of other chores that we like to call the ‘baby admin.’...more
I am definitely guilty of trying to figure out what to do- i find myself jamming my day with a ...more