The Real Reason Why You Always Struggle With Dating and Love

Like any other areas of life, in order to solve your love life problem, you need to understand the causes. While it could be that there are fundamental aspects that you should improve as an individual, most of the time the issue lies at your mindset and approach to dating. This is especially applicable to cases where people are completely desirable on paper yet find themselves again and again struggling with dating, leading to frustration and self-doubt.Here’s the answers to all the why’s: You don’t know what you want ...more

When You're The Person Who Never Quite Knows How To Let Go

He always has that smitten look on his face whenever he’s photographed with her, that one girl he calls ex-girlfriend. With me, it was more of a socially friendly smile even though we were dating at the time. He dated me and claimed he liked me, but he was never in love with me like I hoped he would eventually be. It was my choice and I got what I asked for. I had him, his time, his body. I became the girl who was in love with a guy who didn’t see me the same way, the girl who was too smart to lie to herself but did it anyway, and the girl who never quite knows how to let go....more

I Took Date Night Out of the Budget and Almost Ruined My Marriage

“Are we growing apart?”  ...more
budgetbrainiac Date night might be expensive but it is far less than the cost of therapy or a ...more

5 Signs You're Dating A Loser

5 signs you’re dating a loserThe side effects of dating a loser can be detrimental to your mental health you WILL experience frustration, stress, anxiety and in the worse cases you can actually become a loser yourself! Here are the warning signs that you could be dating a loser.  ...more

Scammers are Ruining Over-50 Online Dating!

I’ve been doing online dating for about 15 years — and met two men online that I had long, happy relationships with....more
Sadly, there have always been dishonest people who prey on sincere women and men who are looking ...more

The 12 Guys You Meet Online

 You know your romantic life is doomed when you download Coffee Meets Bagel and the app refuses to open! “Maybe it’s a sign,” I thought. I mean, not even 3 hours earlier I told a friend, “Ew no,” when she suggested I go back to online dating to “meet new guys.” ...more

On The Rebound

Alternate Title: Your Friend Is An Asshole Who Has a Hidden Agenda Based on Their Own Fear.Alternate Title: I'm Tired of Writing Blog Posts About People Who Are Bad Friends...more

5 Things Stopping You From Getting Married

Sometimes Love is just unnecessarily weird.It seems as if when we’re in desperate search of it we can’t find it and when we’ve finally learned to live without it, love knocks on our door unannounced, heart-in-hand with a box of chocolates like it never left. If you’ve ever truly loved then you know just how amazing it feels and to want that feeling forever is completely understandable. If you’ve been dating FOR-EV-ER and you’ve wondered why you’re not married here are five important things to consider:1.You’re dating the wrong person....more

That Moment I Listed My Never-Worn Wedding Gown on eBay

One day in 2009, Halloween to be exact, my mom and I went shopping at the mall and began looking for wedding dresses. Let me set the scene: my ex-boyfriend and I had been together over one year and he wanted to move in together. I did not. I have written about him before. He's the douchebag that I lived with, who broke up with me over text message. Yup, that happened. Anyway, we moved in together after all and things were going well, and when he told me he wanted to marry me, I said sure.The conversation pretty much went like this:...more
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5 Signs That You'll Never be HIs Girlfriend...

5 Signs That You'll Never Be His Girlfriend... ...more