The Grinches I work for.

All I want for Christmas is my job!! I almost got fired over the holidays! Five days before Christmas this frequent customer to the restaurant I work for asked me for all the names...more

Murder and Forgiveness

For now we see in a mirror...more
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A Tribute to Jack (losing a pet)

Today is November 30th.  It is the end of NaBloPoMo.This means that when I wake up tomorrow morning, I will not have to think “I need to think about something to write about.”  It’s the end of the month....more

And so it begins...

The holiday season.Many of you have been looking forward to the holidays.  Thoughts of turkeys roasting, pies baking, shopping madness, and time spent with family and friends have you filled with nostalgic happiness.I normally am a big fan of the holidays.  But I've been dreading this particular holiday season for quite some time now.  And now here it is upon us and I'm not sure how I feel....more

Thanking God for Death

Welp, it’s that time of year. Thanksgiving. Believe it or not, there are people who actually focus on what they’re thankful for, more than what’s on the menu  As I’ve grown older, and experienced the good, bad, and ugly of life, I have learned, and I’m STILL learning how to be thankful for EVERYTHING. Even death....more

Too Big For a Blog

This is the first blog post that I ever completely deleted.I started out wanting to write about my last day in Korea. 660 words in, and I couldn’t tease out anything good. I talked about everything but Korea. The Simpsons, Aziz Ansari, memories, and pregnancy days. I think Kanye West even worked in a mention in those 660 words. But they were sprawling and unwieldy. My mind was caving in on itself. I kept telling myself to get on with it. What’s the point? Get to it!, I told myself.There was an elephant in the room....more

Helping Others Through Grief

 Father’s Day is such a difficult time for me…even still.My Dad died July 20th 2003 and sometimes, it’s still so very painful.  Even though we had 5 months to prepare for his death and we knew he was/is much better off, being without him was far more painful than anything I had ever experienced....more

My Heart Is Breaking...Why Do So Many Men Choose Suicide?

I have just come home from a funeral. It was for a friend, he was only fifty years old. He committed suicide. He left behind a son in his early twenties, a brother, cousins, nephews and a chapel filled to capacity of friends. He was a musician and had a musical career that spanned over three decades. He was such a fun, talented, kind and lovable guy but he left this world not thinking that way about himself. He didn't ask for help or talk to anyone about the demons he was fighting. For whatever reason, he thought we would all be better off with out him. ...more

The Lifespan of Grief

I don't know if raw grief has an endpoint. But surely there must come a time when you can think of a loved one without a lump in your throat? ...more
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Body Wisdom

Today's writing prompt is:  "Something my body (or someone else's) has taught me."  Dena Hobbs, yoga instructor and author of "Lighten the Darkness:  An Advent Journey Through Hope" thought this one up and I'm glad she did!...more