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Sex Seminar: Top Ten Tips From CoCo LaCreme

While most bachelorette parties are typically of the drunken ‘what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas’ variety, mine had to be slightly on the tamer side of things, seeing as I was 6 months pregnant at the time (along with two of my bestie attendees).  So what does a pack of half-sober gals do to turn up and get down (aside from eating), you ask?  Well, one of my bridesmaids had the genius idea to plan a workshop with a sex-per...more


If we want more intimate relationships with others, lets begin by breaking down the barriers with the tools of apology and forgiveness.Inspiritual: A space for spiritual evolution and transformation...more

Money Talks: How Being Silent About Finances Can Hurt Intimacy

Is discussing money a hot button subject at your house?Is your husband involved in business deals you don't understand?Even worse, does he withhold financial information when you ask for it?One of the women I interviewed for my book said, "He wants to have sex every night and I can't know what our net worth is? And I'm supposed to pretend it doesn't matter?"...more

3 Reasons to Not "Give Your Husband More Sex"

I saw a graphic on Pinterest recently titled "8 Reasons to Give Your Husband More Sex.” In it, the author discussed the ways that sex benefits women, including improved health, reduced stress, and a stronger marriage, and made the case that regular sex in marriage is good for wives.  I don't disagree with that.  As a matter of fact, I strongly agree with it.  Despite that, the graphic really bothered me.  And it still bothers me whenever I think about it....more
MelanieMorris That's exactly the way it should be!more

The Power of Silk Stockings: 7 Tips for a Better Sex Life

There's something about putting on a simple piece of something silky that makes me feel sexy and does powerful things to my guy. B loves the silky feeling of stockings, thigh -highs to be exact, and I love the way it makes me feel to have him trail his fingers up and down my legs while I'm wearing them. It's these intimate moments and small touches that make for our healthy and voracious sex life. Lately, it seems that there are a lot of articles and pins popping up around the web about intimacy missing from relationships....more
I agree. It's too easy for us as women to get trapped in the what am I supposed to feel like, ...more


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Missing Intimate Ingredient

Most of the self-help/personal growth advice I receive from well-meaning friends is along the lines of “Believe in yourself and stop apologizing for who you are.” My therapist assures me that much of the confusion in my head will clear when I learn to tune out all the criticism, unsolicited advice and judgments of others. The consensus is: trust my intuition because only I know what's best for me.Until we start talking about love and partnership, that is....more

Is My Husband's Snoring Going To Kill Our Marriage?

Caryn/The Mid Life GuruWill Snoring Kill My Marriage?At first it was a just a little annoying. But after months and months of this business,  my husband’s nightly snore fest is really taking a toll—and not just with getting a good night’s sleep....more

A Financial Intimacy Valentine

Ladies, this love letter is for your husband who may not read Blogher columns.Print it out and let him read it.Hi guys,Here’s an idea for Valentine’s Day that you husbands may not have considered. Unlike many of the gifts you’ve been conditioned to equate with love, this gift won’t cost you any money . In fact, you will reap rewards far beyond your expectations. You might even wind up spending the day in bed - together. The gift? It's called financial intimacy....more