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Missing Intimate Ingredient

Most of the self-help/personal growth advice I receive from well-meaning friends is along the lines of “Believe in yourself and stop apologizing for who you are.” My therapist assures me that much of the confusion in my head will clear when I learn to tune out all the criticism, unsolicited advice and judgments of others. The consensus is: trust my intuition because only I know what's best for me.Until we start talking about love and partnership, that is....more

Is My Husband's Snoring Going To Kill Our Marriage?

Caryn/The Mid Life GuruWill Snoring Kill My Marriage?At first it was a just a little annoying. But after months and months of this business,  my husband’s nightly snore fest is really taking a toll—and not just with getting a good night’s sleep....more

A Financial Intimacy Valentine

Ladies, this love letter is for your husband who may not read Blogher columns.Print it out and let him read it.Hi guys,Here’s an idea for Valentine’s Day that you husbands may not have considered. Unlike many of the gifts you’ve been conditioned to equate with love, this gift won’t cost you any money . In fact, you will reap rewards far beyond your expectations. You might even wind up spending the day in bed - together. The gift? It's called financial intimacy....more

What do Men Need More Than Sex (For Bonding)

In the dance of the male-female relationship, men need something more than sex in order to open up their hearts. Men need to be admired and respected for who they are by a woman who will be kind to them. From the time of their boyhood, men live in a world where they hear, “No, don’t do that.”Don’t run in here.Don’t touch that.Don’t cry.Stop teasing your sister.In adulthood it becomes:...more


March 25, Lk. 1:26-38,  Ida B. Wells, "Intimacy" Annunciation of the Lord...more

Who Cares about Valentine's Day?

Who cares about Valentine’s Day? Women. Who feels pressure about Valentine’s Day? Men. ...more

A Truly Intimate Valentine

Calling all husbands and wives! Here’s an idea for Valentine’s Day that you may not have considered. However, this gift won't add to your credit card debt or deplete your checking account. And you'll feel so cherished when you give it to each other, you might wind up spending the day in bed - together.Unlike flowers, jewelry, sexy lingerie, chocolates or other goodies we've been told equate with love, this gift won’t cost you any money . And the reward?A whole new level of intimacy in your marriage, far beyond your wildest expectations....more

The Do's and Don'ts of Kissing Techniques

Kissing is one of the greatest builders of intimacy in a relationship. Your lover's lips simply brushing across yours can send all your senses into overdrive. Kissing, by far, is one of my favorite things, when it’s done correctly. I've been on the receiving end of some pretty lame make out sessions. So how do you ensure your kissing techniques are always a turn on and never a turn off?  Read More......more

Is Interracial sex STILL a Taboo??

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