Stories of Sexual Violence.

I am a survivor of sexual violence.I’ve never stated it publicly, but I’ve hinted about it hereand there. I’m tired of hinting....more

Love Dare, Day 23: Love Always Protects!

It's Friday!! Woo~Hoo! It's also February 1st, which begins the busiest month for the Boyer family We have 2 birthdays, Valentine's Day, 12 basketball games & now both my girls have made it to districts in a free throw shooting competition....more

Love and Loss: Can Marriage Survive the Death of a Child?

This post has taken me a while to finish and here’s why; I have several friends who have lost children to cancer in the last month. One child was the same age as my youngest and that friend and I have been pregnant together for all our kids. That one hit home, still makes it hard to breathe and I wake up every day praying for her and her sweet family. I know Christ is with that family, offering them comfort, His Holy Spirit and lots of extra love during this trying time....more
Wow, what a beautiful post. As someone who has not only lost a child but lost my only child, you ...more

Do This for Better Sex Tonight!

Amazing discovery that I re-made recently. My husband and I have a code. If I say, “What’s your favorite color tonight?” He knows I am asking him what lingerie he wants to see. Of course, I can pick my own, but it’s a fun way for me to get him involved in some mental foreplay....more

Intimacy during Illness

I have a cold. Another one. When it comes to health, this year has been less than stellar. Mono, bronchitis, colds and flus have been constant companions. I am hoping 2013 is my lucky year because 2012 has certainly wreaked havoc on my system. However, I have learned that illness can increase my connection to my husband. In fact, it’s made our bond very tender…and here are three things that have made us closer....more

Three Easy Ways to Steam Up Your Sex Life (In the Shower)

Shower sex. Love it or hate it, it's one of the most common locations for intercourse. Before I tried these three things, shower sex was downright boring. Now, it's one of my faves. Take a look and try one this weekend. You'll be glad you did....more

Getting Along With Each Other

In 1998, Richard and I had a marvelous opportunity to sail around the world as the ballroom dance teachers on a cruise ship. Many of the places we saw then, such as Oman, Jordan, Turkey, Morocco, Indonesia and Israel are in turmoil now, and not as safe for tourists.  Last year, when Palestinian soldiers took refuge in the Church of the Nativity at Bethlehem and were under siege, I marveled that I had stood where they were, and I could picture the place as the news reports came in....more

Being Intimate is a Good Thing (snippet)

I published this post on my Blogger profile. I am only posting a snippet here. Head on over to my Blog and check it out ...more

Friends with Benefits

If you’re thinking about having sex with a friend, be very careful, because it is not easy to preserve a friendship once you have sex. We think we can control our feelings, but it's not so simple.  If one of you becomes romantically attached as a result of the sex, the friendship will probably not survive.If you've done it before, and you know you can keep your feelings in check, you might be successful, but what about your friend?...more

Do You Use the Toilet in Front of Your Spouse?

Does using the toilet in front of your spouse suggest intimacy or is it completely unnecessary? SimplyJune weighs in. Her position: "What on earth is so important that you can not wait a few minutes? What life crisis made talking through the bathroom door unacceptable? What topic is so serious, you don't mind hearing random sound effects? It's just so wrong!" What do you think? ...more
tengleman You never should have done it front of anyone in the first place, poor judgment and ...more