Peter Pan: My First Lesbian Role Model

NBC is devoting its primetime block this Thursday night to a live production of Peter Pan. I'm excited — Peter Pan was my first lesbian role model....more

After 11 Years, My Partner Still Has My Number

This month Laura (aka Ledcat) and I celebrate 11 years of togetherness. Like many LGBTQ couples who (until recently) had no access to marriage, we've used our first date as our anniversary. Thanks to smart planning on my part, we moved in together almost two years to the day later. This minimizes anniversary dilemmas....more
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My Blog, My Partner and Me: Together Eight Years and Counting

Sunday December 29 marks the eighth anniversary of Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents. Over those 8  years, I’ve personally written between 2500 and 3000 blog posts – exact count is hard to determine due to some behind the scenes software “stuff” I can’t explain well....more

Shakespeare On Multiple Wives: The Merry Wives Of Windsor

Sage Sweetwater erotic voice artist on Sound Cloud in Hollywood film promotion. Content Marketing intellectual properties in prep for cutting a CD. Poetry that sells!

#NaBloPoMo Day 7: Who Are We When We Are Ten? (trigger warning)

“Who are we when we’re ten that we need to be more or less of?” ~ ReemTen was a pivotal year for me. Ten was the year I learned what a “dyke” was and how I should hide the fact that I was one....more
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Why I listen to Raffi

I see my daughter's blonde pigtails and falling-out-of-the-barrettes hair being blown around by the wind from her rolled-down backseat window....more

Be Part: Blogging for LGBT Families Day Is June 3

It’s almost June, and I’m excited. For the eighth year in a row, I will be hosting Blogging for LGBT Families Day, a time for bloggers of all sexual orientations and gender identities to post in support of LGBT families....more

Confessions of a lesbian corporate wife

I am a corporate wife because I will go where we go. I will move our family to where the work takes us. I will care for our children and support my spouse because it is her career that is supporting our family. ...more

Marriage with an Asterisk

My spouse Helen and I are celebrating our 20th anniversary this week. Coincidentally, the U.S. Supreme Court will be hearing two cases on marriage equality at the same time. I’m hoping our happy anniversary vibes will sway them....more

10 Things TO Say to Lesbian Moms

It may not quite be an Internet meme, but several writers in the past month have offered their thoughts on what not to say to lesbian moms. Judy Gold at HuffPo gives a personal story about "The Question You Should Never Ask a Lesbian Mom"; Jeanne Sager at The Stir lists "5 Things Never to Say to Lesbian Moms"; Te-Erika Patterson at writes of "What Not to Say to LGBT Parents"; and L. A. Pintea at relates "10 Things You Shouldn't Ask a Lesbian Mom." It's enough to make people think they should never approach us. I'd like to turn things around here, and suggest several things you should say to lesbian moms....more
People get touchy over the parenting thing. I get touchy over the parenting thing. There are ...more