When Is It Too Late To Plan My Future?

Maybe the sun is shining, but you're still not content. You realize that successful people are all at better places of  work making better money and will get a better paycheck than you this week. Your friends are either working high profile jobs, dating rich men, married or finding their life purpose in raising their beautiful 2.5 children....more

4 Ways To Handle Your Emotions

“It's just hormonal, you need to stop being so dramatic”,As a teenager I begged God to let each time I heard this come from my mothers mouth, be the last time.Me: “Mom! I don't have any friends” Mom: “It's the hormones, you'll feel better next week” Me: “Mom! I don't like my life! I think I need to go to counseling!” Mom: “It's that time of the month honey, stop being so dramatic”...more

What I learned with NaBloPoMo 2014

I took part in NaBloPoMoBlahBlahBlah 2014 because I've been neglecting GingerSass for GayBrideGuide and I felt like my older blog-child was feeling the wrath of my accidental favoritism.Actually, it totally was.This past month, I learned that my sassy followers have actually missed my sass, and that they Google the weirdest shit....more

Take Your Turkey and Stuff It: Four Thanksgiving Foods That Should Be Banned

Here we find ourselves once again at the season of Thanksgiving. This week, we’ll travel to be with friends and family, count our blessings, watch football, and possibly most importantly, sit down at a table and eat a truly ungodly amount of food.Let’s talk about that food for a sec. Kaythanx.I’m risking being called out as the worst American since Benedict Arnold for the declaration I’m about to make, but blog traffic is always down around the holidays, so what they hay: I effing hate Thanksgiving food....more

people have more of an issue with victims of racism using the word racist to describe a person than racism itself

So recently I was speaking to  a girl in my year and the name of another girl in my year came up. As the discussion progressed to the subject of race I thought it necessary to point out that I felt the girl whose name came up was a racist and in response 3 different people turned around and told me how racist was such a strong word and how i shouldn't throw it around like that. As if I committed an offense by expressing my opinion. It's unbelievable to me that not one person asked me what she had said or done to make me have such a strong opinion of her....more

Nov 21 - Soundtrack of My Life

Since I missed yesterday, I decided to answer both prompts today.  The Daily Post is asking: If your life were a movie, what would its soundtrack be like? What songs, instrumental pieces, and other sound effects would be featured on the official soundtrack album?...more

Dream Analysis For Beginners And Lunatics

I have ridiculous dreams.They’re vivid and memorable, but mostly insane. For as long as I can remember, I’ve had a very active dream life, recalling details with spectacular clarity....more

Why It's So Hard for People to Accept Your Transformation?

People feel entitled  to know you. It's an ego trip.People's ego even emerges in how they relate to you. They want to feel in control of your persona and be able to feel like they " know" you, so if you do veer from some new way of being,  they get to throw in the old you in your face to appease there own ego. Ooh, " I knew you haven't changed", I know you still want to do that." They can't let it go....more