My Relationship With Buying Things And How It Makes Me Happy… But Actually Lonely

         “Save Money. Live Better” (Walmart) “Open Happiness” (Coca Cola) “The Happiest Place on Earth” (DisneyLand)         As a fish swims in water, we in the western cultures of the United States and Canada swim in water made up of advertising.         In light of Black Friday passing and the Christmas countdown on full swing, buying gifts for friends and loved ones is at the forefront of our minds....more

Can Your Partner Have Friends of the Opposite Sex?

In recent interview for Stella Magazine, recording artist Mary J. Blige said: “All females for me, all guys for him. There’s none of that, ‘Oh, that’s my female friend. Oh, that’s my guy friend.’ No. Not in a marriage, I’ve never seen that work.”...more
Eh. I do understand the no new friend rule. Ultimately though, when having these convos, it has ...more

Sex and a Woman. Every woman should read (explicit)

Sex. Mmmmm. For every woman, sex is an amazing thing. Most men have no idea how the woman's mind works, and just how often we think about sex. We can be so perverted at times (dont deny that when you see something in the shape of a penis, you laugh.) and often, we tend to be the horniest creatures on earth. Once a woman's sex button has been pushed, there is no time limit to how long it will stay on. So, since sex is such an incredible thing, that everyone should enjoy lets talk about sex....more
Toys are great fun and are the best aids to help you find what works best for you. Your partner ...more

Lunette & The Red Pump Project — A Holiday Hookup for Good!

When Team Lunette attended BlogHer 14, we realized that we had found the literal mother ship for relationship building and strategic partnerships. ...more

Low in the valley, High on the mountain

Relationships are a funny thing. One minute we find ourselves on the top of the mountain, the next moment we are low in the valley, and then once again, back on top. For some reason, relationships can swing our mood in the most dramatic way. Who knows why, and that doesn't necessarily mean that it is unhealthy, it just means that love, is a very powerful and influential thing....more

Survey Results: What led you to orgasm with a partner

What led our community to orgasm with a partner?Last week’s survey had some interesting findings. Let’s look at what the men and women of our community shared!WomenStarting with the gals, we had over 200 women complete the survey.What led women in our community to orgasm with a partner?...more

Why You May Be Having More Orgasms Soon

A recent study found that 91% of men & 64% of women orgasmed during their most recent sexual encounter. Find out how who we are impacts our chances of an orgasm!What most frequently leads you to orgasm during sex with a partner? Take my poll at the end -- Just 2 questions!...more
What led men in our survey to orgasm with a partner? For straight men:1% did not have an orgasm ...more

What It’s Really Like Dating People in Top Careers

Doctors, lawyers and engineers get all the attention on many dating sites. However, the reality of dating people in these kinds of top tier careers can be very different than what you expect. While it’s natural to seek out a love interest that has a similar education level as you (or maybe even the same field), that shouldn’t be a deal breaker. The heart wants what it wants, and sometimes the heart doesn’t actually want the common characteristics that go along with a surgeon....more

How Can I Get Better at Fostering My Best Relationships?

On Saturday, I was reading blog posts from #NaBloPoMo and ran across a post from my friend Brandie over at Journey Of A Thousand Stitches. She was speaking about the walls that some of us build when it comes to friendships. ...more
Muwah. Your laugh is fine. I tend to snort or make a really screechy "HAR!" at the beginning. It ...more

The 50 First Dates Challenge

I love a good romantic movie. The kind that leaves you a sappy, soppy, mascara-streaked, hiccuping mess of emotions. The top movie that always leaves me crying - always - is 50 First Dates. And I'm pretty sure it's screwed up my vision of romance forever....more