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Can I Make Myself Feel Good about My Body?

Sodanie Chea (Flickr)

I don't feel one way all of the time. I can be feeling great about the way I look, and seeing an unflattering photo can throw me into self-doubt. I can be feeling bad about myself and someone can compliment me and brighten my outlook. What doesn't seem to work well for me is telling myself how I should feel.  Read more

Why Photoshopping Won't Go Away--No Matter What Women's Mags Say

Teen Vogue cover

[Editor's note: This week an earthshaking event happened in women’s magazines. And no, sadly, feisty teenager Julia Bluhm didn’t convince Seventeen magazine to quit using Photoshop to erase its young models’ “flaws.” Although Bluhm’s online campaign has now amassed more than 60,000 signatures.  Read more

Suing Southwest: Blogger Takes Customer of Size Policy to Court

Airline Seats

Last year, Kenlie at All the Weigh wrote about how she was humiliated by a Southwest Airlines representative regarding her weight and their customer of size policy. Allegedly she has been asked to buy two tickets sometimes, but not others, and the situation seems to be determined by a gate agents' eyeballs rather than anything concrete that Kenlie can follow. And that's precisely her gripe. So she's suing Southwest.  Read more

Vagina Lightening Cream for Lady Bits So White They Shine!

Clean and Dry ad

[Editor's Note: Summer's just around the corner! Which means it's the time of year when white women try to get tan, and brown women try to keep themselves from... getting browner. Skin lightening creams are nothing new in Asia, Africa and Latin America, but now there's a whitening product aimed where the sun don't shine. Seriously. Jen Wang of DISGRASIAN writes about how the colonial and cultural quest for fairer skin is going places it's never gone before. --Grace]  Read more

What Female Sexual Dysfunction and Vaginal Rejuvenation Have in Common

Harris Shiffman (Shutterstock)

I'm not arguing that some women don't have sexual problems that could be improved medically, but a lot of the Female Sexual Dysfunction "symptoms" are just the way women are. Yes, women can take a long time to come, yes, women can take a while to get aroused, and, yes, women get pissed at their mates which, yeah, does affect desire.  Read more >

Good Parents Aren't Scared to Put Their Kids on a Diet

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In April's issue of Vogue, Dara-Lynn Weiss shares how she put her daughter on a diet. The piece, not online but in the magazine only, has created a flurry of opinions -- in support and against -- on the concept of putting overweight kids on diets and the manner in which it is or should be done. The controversial essay even landed Weiss a book deal. Jamila at Beyond Black & White recently wrote in support of the mother's actions, claiming that good parents put their kids on diets.  Read more

Dirty Little Secrets: The Flip Side of Denying Girls Pleasure

D. Sharon Pruitt (Flickr)

Women in our culture are denied the opportunity to develop a sexual identity on their own terms. Instead girls (and many women) see their identities as tied up with how boys (or men) view them, never quite measuring up. By being taught not to be sexual, girls often have sex not because they want to do it, but in order to be accepted, seen, and, ironically, rescued from their belief that they are not good enough as they are.  Read more >

When a 16 Year Old "Gets" Anorexia

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And if you want to starve yourself down to a size two because you think that's indicative of your will power, if you think that will make you happy, then get ready learn what the girls on that pro-ana website already know: you could starve yourself to death just to prove you're not like everyone else and can control of this one thing. Except whatever control you think you have over your body, is really only control that the eating disorder has over you.  Read more >

"Real Women Have Curves" and Other Ways You're Not Helping

John Loo (Flickr)

Posting a picture of Sophia Loren or Christina Hendricks on your Facebook as if it were some sort of radical, daring alternative to opressive patriarchal beauty standards is foolish at best, and harmful at worst. Seeing these kinds of images doesn't make me feel good, it makes me feel like being a womanly, curvaceous Venus is the only alternative I have to being super-skinny. The reality is that I, like many women, am neither very skinny nor lush and voluptuous. I have fat on my thighs and small boobs. I am imperfect. Where do I fit into this dichotomy?  Read more >

Why Marilyn Monroe's Size Still Matters

Marilyn Monroe

A recent Slate article by Simon Doonan on Marilyn Monroe, "Marilyn Monroe’s Two Secrets," aroused the ire of many readers for its hidden title, "Was Marilyn Monroe Fat?" Doonan claimed to know the answer (No) because he was on hand (as an employee of Christie's auction house) to view some of her last possessions, including c  Read more >