5 Tips for an Earth-Shattering Orgasm You HAVEN'T Already Tried

My mother used to say, “In a world that is largely focused on male pleasure — the female orgasm is an act of revolution.”Her words have even more resonance in today’s on-demand culture where porn (largely produced, directed, and watched by men) is ...more

Dating God and Drinking Pretty Coffee

"I mean... God and I, we hang out all the time but we've never dated before." I uttered this comment in all seriousness but my sister-friend Yvette burst into girlish laughter, tickled by the thought of "dating God." It was an exciting but ...more

Valentine's Day and the Single Woman: Gifting Yourself and Others

Travel back with me, if you will, to the worst Valentine's Day of my life. (No, really, please, come with me. I hate to go there alone.) The first thing I saw when I walked in the door was a large print hanging over our apartment fireplace: an image ...more

It's Time to Talk to Your Kids About Sexual Health

It was a typical weekday morning in our house. I was the first one up, and my kids were moving slowly to get ready for school. I headed downstairs to make some breakfast for us. Marcia came downstairs topless and in a rush; she showed me a little red ...more

The Honeymoon Lingerie That Outlasted My Marriage

It was 2001 and I was at this high-end shopping mall in Los Angeles called The Beverly Center. On the first floor was this really snooty lingerie store, the kind of place that only hires size two models."I'm getting married and I need something ...more

5 Tips for an Earth-Shattering Orgasm You HAVEN'T Already Tried

My mother used to say, “In a world that is largely focused on male pleasure — the female orgasm is an act of revolution.”Her words have even more resonance in today’s on-demand culture where porn (largely produced, directed, and watched by men) is sometimes the only sex education young men get....more

Dating God and Drinking Pretty Coffee

"I mean... God and I, we hang out all the time but we've never dated before." I uttered this comment in all seriousness but my sister-friend Yvette burst into girlish laughter, tickled by the thought of "dating God." It was an exciting but peculiar thought. I had only twice heard the mention of dating God....more

Valentine's Day and the Single Woman: Gifting Yourself and Others

Travel back with me, if you will, to the worst Valentine's Day of my life. (No, really, please, come with me. I hate to go there alone.) The first thing I saw when I walked in the door was a large print hanging over our apartment fireplace: an image of two children dressed in Victorian grownup clothes, colorized blush on their cheeks. The little boy knelt down in front of the girl, handing her a rose. My boyfriend stood there smiling, proud of himself, waiting for my reaction to his mall-bought Mona Lisa. ...more
I just wrote a post about being single on Valentine's Day! The day you have planned sounds ...more

Single on Valentine’s Day? 10 Things You Can Do to Celebrate

1. Throw a huge singles’ party.  Spread the word and tell each of your guests to bring along a single friend of the opposite sex.  This way everyone can have fun mingling and playing mix and match.2.  Go out to dinner with one or more of your single friends, and exchange cards and small gifts with each other....more

Single on Valentine’s Day? 10 Things You Can Do to Celebrate

1. Throw a huge singles’ party.  Spread the word and tell each of your guests to bring along a single friend of the opposite sex.  This way everyone can have fun mingling and playing mix and match.2.  Go out to dinner with one or more of your single friends, and exchange cards and small gifts with each other....more

How to Have an Awesome Valentine's Day When You're Broke

   Hi Ladies, this is a post actually written by my sister but I really needed to share it for her here since we are all women and I knew you would love this! ...more

5 Tips for an Earth-Shattering Orgasm You HAVEN'T Already Tried

My mother used to say, “In a world that is largely focused on male pleasure — the female orgasm is an act of revolution.”Her words have even more resonance in today’s on-demand culture where porn (largely produced, directed, and watched by men) is sometimes the only sex education young men get....more

Dating God and Drinking Pretty Coffee

"I mean... God and I, we hang out all the time but we've never dated before." I uttered this comment in all seriousness but my sister-friend Yvette burst into girlish laughter, tickled by the thought of "dating God." It was an exciting but peculiar thought. I had only twice heard the mention of dating God....more

Smaller Penis Sex Techniques for Valentine's Day

 Just because you or your partner isn’t hung like a horse, this is no excuse to have a mundane or unsatisfactory roll in the hay on Valentine’s Day....more

I Lost My Memories

My family immigrated to America when I was almost five years old and I have few memories of my life in Kiev. I’ve recollected few stories of my childhood and those have been enough to sustain me. Big chunks of time are missing in my memories. My American husband thinks my young refugee status left me somewhat traumatized, but I disagree. He has suggested a hypnotist might be able to unlock the cache of my secret memory bank. My most vivid memories began when I met my him 11 years ago....more

Real Mom Confessions… Revealed!

Our theme on MomCave LIVE this week was real mom confessions. We asked viewers to send in their own.. and we struck mom comedy gold! Read their confessions below. And if you missed the live show, which was inspired by Bianca Jamotte’s web series, “Real Mommy Confessions”, watch it here or at the bottom of this post....more

Trust is a hard thing to do

Is it wrong of me to wish the Ex would move to Siberia?  Sigh.  Yes.  I guess it is.  Dammit. ...more

How Swinging Unleashed My Inner Sex Goddess

It all started when my husband and I discovered that we had a compatible fantasy. I admitted that I sometimes wondered what it would be like to have sex with two men at once, and he admitted that he sometimes fantasized about watching and participating while I had sex with another man.  The discovery catapulted our somewhat tame, married-for-13-years-with-several-kids, once-a-week-ish sex life into three-or-four-times-a-night, fantasy-fueled, ecstatic and adventurous lovemaking. And we started to wonder, was this a fantasy we could make reality? ...more