4 Blogs to Help You Find the Perfect Wedding Gift

I haven't been to a wedding in over five years. This year? I've been invited to FOUR! I can only attend two because of my schedule, but I want to at least try to send a gift to the couples whose ceremonies I will miss.It's easy for me to write a ...more

Cooking Dinner Was Not In My Marriage Vows

My husband and I have been together 20 years now (married 19 years this summer). The other night I asked him how he knew I loved him. A simple question, right?His reply: “I know you love me because you make supper every night for our family, ...more

National Orgasm Day: Come One, Come All!

It's time to celebrate!!July 31 is National Orgasm Day!!Maybe.For several years now, there has been a bit of mostly online-based lore about celebrating orgasms on July 31. There was a website about it at some point, I'm sure, and we know that is all ...more

Remarrying and Blending Families After Divorce

The early days of the "blended family" projectSunday morning Benjamin came padding into my room -- make that "our" room -- around 7. "Mom," he said. "I was looking out my window and I saw a ... wait, what are those birds that are all red?"My brain ...more

Can You Afford to Be a Bridesmaid?

I guess I'm at that age; I am not married or even engaged to be married. Despite this, weddings have seemed to take over my world during the past year.  Two of my best friends are getting married and I am in their weddings within two ...more

4 Blogs to Help You Find the Perfect Wedding Gift

I haven't been to a wedding in over five years. This year? I've been invited to FOUR! I can only attend two because of my schedule, but I want to at least try to send a gift to the couples whose ceremonies I will miss.It's easy for me to write a check; I know that's what I wanted when I got married. When a couple has lived together and/or has amassed full homes-worth of items, it seems like money is the best gift to help them get started with their new life as a united, legal entity....more

Cooking Dinner Was Not In My Marriage Vows

My husband and I have been together 20 years now (married 19 years this summer). The other night I asked him how he knew I loved him. A simple question, right?His reply: “I know you love me because you make supper every night for our family, even though you hate it.”WORD....more
I dont hate cooking, I just cant come up with different ideas. we both work. and if he cant tell ...more

National Orgasm Day: Come One, Come All!

It's time to celebrate!!July 31 is National Orgasm Day!!Maybe.For several years now, there has been a bit of mostly online-based lore about celebrating orgasms on July 31. There was a website about it at some point, I'm sure, and we know that is all it takes these days to make a holiday real, right? The success of "Steak And Blowjob Day" is credited to the perpetuation of lore via online memes and yes, an official website. Let's just roll with it. ...more
Damn. I missed it. That figures.more

In the Name of Greatness

They say that in order to love another you must love yourself first.But do you ever find it difficult to love yourself?...more

Can You Be BFFs with the Opposite Sex?

As the guy on the TV screen wrestled with his uncooperative bowtie, he looked in the mirror toward the barrier a few feet behind him, where his best friend was busy putting on her dress....more

Yo, Dude...I’m Not Dutch.

I had a weird experience times two guys just recently and I feel like I wanna share it with y’all because that’s how I roll. #obvs Now, you know I’m over 50 years old so not only does that mean I’m right next to almost fucking ancient but it also signifies that I come from a more traditional dating era. For example, just using that word is very Jane Austen of me though let’s face it, I’m actually Bridget Jones all the fucking way. ...more

TOP 5 DESTINATION WEDDING SPOTS FOR THE BAREFOOT BRIDE

Destination weddings are definitely the new way to get hitched! There are so many pluses to a destination wedding like having your ceremony in a beautiful location, they cost less than a traditional wedding, and you can kick off the honeymoon after the reception!...more

Little Red-Haired Girl: A Story of Infidelity and Hoarding

Countless books have been written about it.  Radio talk show hosts shame us about it every day.  Life coaches challenge us to implement it.  "Let the man chase you!”  They say....more

Affection for Hire

 They say that it is not bad out there.  We do not want to admit we are lonely, but come on; you know we are if there is a market for cuddling.  People need touch.  There is nothing like a good hug.  There are different types of hugs:  the church lady hug, I-just-met-you-hug, team hug, oooh-baby hug, post-coital hug, and A-frame-no-chests-touching hug.  My personal least favorite is the baby burp hug.  If that is all you have to offer, you can just keep that. ...more

4 Blogs to Help You Find the Perfect Wedding Gift

I haven't been to a wedding in over five years. This year? I've been invited to FOUR! I can only attend two because of my schedule, but I want to at least try to send a gift to the couples whose ceremonies I will miss.It's easy for me to write a check; I know that's what I wanted when I got married. When a couple has lived together and/or has amassed full homes-worth of items, it seems like money is the best gift to help them get started with their new life as a united, legal entity....more

How to cope up with boredom after marriage

I am a typical Indian middle classed women who did my studies in United states ..I had lots of independence ,friends ,roommates,fun,joy during my stay in united states..I thought I can go ack to India once my loans are cleared but I got married to my neighbour who resides in United states ..Like every other girl I had dreams about my wedding ..I did spend all three years of spending on my marraige ...My husbands family didnt spend a penny on our wedding and said that its the girl family who will bear the wedding expenses ..I am okay with that because I thought I give a damn to money as long...more

Do You Understand Emotional Intelligence?

Ever since Daniel Goleman wrote Emotional Intelligence, we have heard that phrase a lot, but perhaps you never heard it explained. Emotional intelligence is a valuable skill, because it means you know how to work with all kinds of people, understand them and get along with them....more