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I get an email time stamped at 1:27am this morning (Monday, yay, first day of the work week!) saying that no, he is going to pick up DD1 today (legally not his day), and what’s up with an ultimatum about getting a response from him by Saturday at noon? Context: Today is a holiday for DD2 but not for DD1. When a holiday is attached to a week end, the parent who has the week end, has the holiday. He had this past week end....more
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This will be the first week the boys spend with my estranged husband. We have a custody agreement finished. The financials and such will happen in March.
He gets them Fall break.
For a week.
Now, some might say "Holy CRAP! You are FREEEEEE!" And, I am.
No, I don't worry about them being with him. They will be fine. They just won't be with me.
Won't. Be. With. Me.
Over the last few days I’ve been struggling with making decisions, with being confident in what to choose, how to act. What to ignore, what to address. I’ve been down and out, feeling like I should give up already. Although I’m not even sure what giving up means. I’m so tired of fighting. I’m so tired of the vigilance. ...more
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