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Dear Dr. Romance: I Still Miss Him Terribly

Dear Dr. Romance:...more

Attitude of gratitude: Thankful for my husband

I never liked the idea of a having a list of the things I wanted in a guy. It seemed limiting and impossible that anyone would meet all of those wants. ...more

5 Reasons Why I Don't Have It All Together

Sometimes on the outside, it may seem that I have it all together. I share quotes and tips and advice that may lead you to believe that I've got it all figured out....more
Tammy - thank goodness we found you!  This post is awesome!  We can relate.  It is almost as if ...more

Few things women should know about men

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if you have any  comments,suggestions or critisism im open ears  i will appreciate and value any ...more

Picture This

It has been a busy week and weekend. Memories flood me. In addition to writing, I have been culling old photos for blog posts. My writing is churning up feelings and memoriers, some good, some bittersweet. But, really, it’s all good, and it’s exhilarating.  ...more

Now That Marriage is a Choice

Home from our honeymoon, I’m back in my car office, wondering what I might write or which scribbled-down words I might tweak. This is my pre-writing hour, this time while my kid is in yoga class stretching her limits … I find … Those words I wrote about marriage in Asheville … ...more

Confessing it.

Well this is my first post confessing that I am officially a newly divorcee. It is kind of hard to say out loud, but it does help me to finally accept it. I created this blog to help me cope with my divorce and to annotate the journey of being a single mommy trying to find love....more
Wishing you all the best.  I separated in 2009 from my ex-husband, the man with whom I had my ...more

Self hate isn't romantic

A month or two ago, I heard the song, “Tangled Up in You” by Staind, and immediately fell in love with it. I thought about posting it on my hubby’s Facebook wall for our 25th anniversary, so I went looking for an official video. Apparently there isn’t one, but I found this lyric video -After watching it, I knew I couldn’t use it as a celebration of our love. One line, nine words long, ruined it for me.“You’re the only thing that I like about me.”...more

Lessons From My Two Imperfect Weddings

This week I celebrated my wedding anniversary. My 'other' wedding anniversary for the year, is what I call it. You see, I married the same person twice; one was a civil ceremony, while the other, a church (Catholic) ceremony.And neither one was perfect....more