Why Was I in Such a Hurry?

How many of you, upon graduating high school, expected to graduate college at 22, immediately marry your boyfriend of 2+ years, and have your first of 2-3 kids before you turned 24?*Raises hand*Life sure doesn’t turn out how you expect it to, does it? I did not graduate college. I didn’t get married until I was 26, and he wasn’t my high school sweetheart and we didn’t meet in college. I’m 27 now, and there are still no children to speak of....more

5 Ways to Have a Healthy Sex Life After Kids!

Lets talk about sex.Regaining and maintaining your sex life after having kids can be trying at times, but is extremely important for you and your partner. We, as humans, require intimacy on so many levels, and physical intimacy is right there at the top. I know, after the hectic days we face as modern women, its very easy to let sex fall to the wayside. BUT I am happy to offer you 5 surefire ways to find the spark and reclaim your carnal right.Before we talk about how, lets discuss why....more
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Dealing With Different Sex Drives: I want it, He/She doesn’t—NOW what?

Millions of couples suffer from what we reproductive scientists call sexual discrepancy. It can manifest in different levels of need or desire for sexual activity between two partners, and in different levels of sexual satisfaction for the two parties (within the sex they do have)....more


Are you really , really beautiful??  Do you have sexy pouts and long beautiful blonde hair , do you have those perfect pearly whites  giving out a perfect smile ??  You've got all this ?? Wow , then you are a stunner ....more

Should You Try To Change Your Man?

Statistically speaking, the odds of you finding someone who is exactly what you are looking for is non existant.Trying to change someone's personality is a difficult endeavor because, in essence, you're asking them to go against who they are. So before you start, the most important question you have to ask yourself, is: why am I trying to change them? Are you doing it for their own good, or for yours? Do you have a personal stake in this and, if so, what is it?...more

Sex Drive: The Bell Curve of Human Sexual Desire

Humans by their very DNA and biology are sexual, but as with everything in life, there is a bell-curve range to their compatibility of sexual desire.Our sexual drive is individually unique based on the amount of sex steroids our body makes (e.g. levels of estrogen and testosterone). We can imagine a benefit for human communities to have a mix of people with high and low sex steroids, and therefore high and low levels of sexual desire....more

A Survival Guide for the Unemployed Spouse

Whether you relocated for love, got laid off, or got a pink slip, this article is just for you. At one point in my life, I was one of 9.8 million people who were unemployed and married. I took the risk of giving up my career, comfortable living, and steady paycheck for love and marriage....more
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The Day I Found Out About My Husband's Affair

My body was violently out of control.  My mind was tumbling from the shock.  Holding the seven pages of our most recent phone bill confirmed my worst fear.You need to get control of yourself, Charity....more

Surviving Residency: 10 Things I Learned while My Husband was a Surgery Resident

It’s July…Happy New Year!I know, most people celebrate New Years in January, but for some of us, July 1st is the start of the “new year.”...more

3 Things My Husband has Taught Me about Love

I am a teacher; therefore, I am a lifelong learner. In order to be a great coach and speaker, I have to be continuously learning and challenging myself so that I can serve my clients at my highest level. I just finished one book and I am in the middle of 3 other books. I just completed 3 online training programs, am in the process of one certification and am starting another training course this week. ...more