Consenting to Sexual Activity is Now the Law in California

In a groundbreaking legislative move, California governor Jerry Brown signed into law a bill that affirms the necessity of consent when it comes to engaging in sexual activity. According to this new bill, signed on September 28, 2014, any college that receives state funding will have to abide by this new standard for consent-- a verbal yes or non-verbal gesture of consent must be given before sexual activity ensues....more
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"I Don't Believe 'Mr. Wrong' Exists": Why Every Relationship Counts

At some point in your life your mom, older sister, grandma, auntie, or random relative will tell you, “You have to date Mr. Wrong to find Mr. Right” or some variation of the same phrase (e.g. “You have to kiss a frog before your find Prince Charming"). While this is 100% accurate, I think this statement has somewhat diluted young women and, in some sense, has set us up for major disappointment when it comes to relationships....more
Yes! I'm in the middle of writing a book about this!! SO glad to read this. I may end up ...more

My Housekeeper Thinks I'm Bringing Sexy Back: A Mortifying, Not-Quite-Kinky Tale

Our housekeeper, Sabrina, has been with my family for almost four years. The day she came into my life, it changed for the better....more
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Realization

I have been with my guy for just about 10 years. In the beginning things were great, sex was great. We would do it multi times per day, hell every chance we got. But we took a break, ok we broke up, for almost 2 years. He dated someone else, and I lived the single life during our time apart. When we got back together, things were different with him. He no longer could get me off, sex became a chore with him. It was no longer pleasurable unless I did what I needed then let him take over doing what he needed. I have tried speaking with him numerous times about it....more

My Husband Only Wants Sex Once a Week and I Want More

Reader I Want More writes,...more

Fun facts about ovaries

We’ve heard about ovaries, but since they’re tucked away inside, they’re not something we spend much time thinking about. So let’s get introduced!...more

Monster's Ball - The SSL Review

I watched Monster's Ball in the theater when it first came out in 2001....more

Consenting to Sexual Activity is Now the Law in California

In a groundbreaking legislative move, California governor Jerry Brown signed into law a bill that affirms the necessity of consent when it comes to engaging in sexual activity. According to this new bill, signed on September 28, 2014, any college that receives state funding will have to abide by this new standard for consent-- a verbal yes or non-verbal gesture of consent must be given before sexual activity ensues....more
Is the law in new zealand. My partner successfully gained a conviction of rape for an older ...more

Banish Menopausal Pain - Bringing Back the Joy of Sex

"Not tonight dear. I have a painful vagina." Say what? If you're making excuses to avoid sexual intimacy with your partner due to vaginal pain, you owe it to yourself (and your partner) to treat it....more

"I Don't Believe 'Mr. Wrong' Exists": Why Every Relationship Counts

At some point in your life your mom, older sister, grandma, auntie, or random relative will tell you, “You have to date Mr. Wrong to find Mr. Right” or some variation of the same phrase (e.g. “You have to kiss a frog before your find Prince Charming"). While this is 100% accurate, I think this statement has somewhat diluted young women and, in some sense, has set us up for major disappointment when it comes to relationships....more
Yes! I'm in the middle of writing a book about this!! SO glad to read this. I may end up ...more

My Housekeeper Thinks I'm Bringing Sexy Back: A Mortifying, Not-Quite-Kinky Tale

Our housekeeper, Sabrina, has been with my family for almost four years. The day she came into my life, it changed for the better....more
Southernbellecharm Thank you for reading ;-)more

Want to Kick Your Kegels Into High Gear? The "Juve" May Be the Answer

By now, I hope that you know where your vagina is and how it works, or at least its most basic functions. I also hope that you have heard of the exercises that you can do to strengthen the powerful effect your vagina has on the world-- Kegels....more
I'd definitely be interested! I've looking into ways to strengthen your pelvic floor.more

Up in Smoke -The SSL Review

So, just since I watched Felix the Cat, Netflix suggested I watch Up in Smoke, and I thought why not? I'd never seen it. Cheech and Chong. It's a classic, right? It was kinda funny. It would probably be a lot funnier if it was 35 years ago, ya know? Things lose their bite with age and imitation....more