5 Reasons You Might Be Single

TataIf you are happily single then this post might not be for you. But if you aspire to be in a serious relationship or even married these are 5 things you may want to consider. Now please understand this is in no way a comprehensive list but this is something to help you jump start a positive dating lifestyle....more
dkweiss  how annoying is that. Bringing up the past is sucks lolmore

How to Reassure Your Partner That They’re Hot When They Hate Their Body

Frequently, I get messages from people — usually cis men who are dating cis women, but not always — asking me what the hell they’re supposed to do when their partner talks negatively about their own body.“She’s unhappily gained weight since we’ve been together, and I know saying ‘I still think you’re beautiful’ confirms the idea that fat is bad,” they say.“My boyfriend is shy about not being bigger muscularly, but how can I reassure him that that’s exactly my type without confirming his insecurities?” they say....more
I love this, especially number 5. I'm also in recovery for an eating disorder and that has made ...more


Recently there has been more whine than wine at book club. The topic? How much of a burden my friends find their husband's sex drives. It's not that I don't understand. I have felt the urge to feign sleep when he slips into bed 15 minutes after me. I have shrunk away from his hugs wondering if he is angling for more. I've realized though that I simply can't let myself do that.If I want a friend, chef, sherpa, and cheerleader (which obviously I do) I need to put in between 2 and 20 minutes a day to build our intimacy....more
Love, love, LOVE this post. Everything you said has so much truth to it and my drive has been ...more

The new "Female Viagra Wonder Drug" is not

Have you heard? A new drug is set to hit pharmacies in mid-October, called flibanserin, marketed as Addyi, and meant to treat “female sexual dysfunction.” Reports erroneously compare the drug to Viagra. Viagra increases blood flow to the penis and helps about 100% of the men who use it. Addyi works more like an anti-depressant, when it works at all.  ...more

How Low Testosterone Affects a Woman's Sex Drive

Low sexual desire, difficulty becoming aroused and lubricating during sex, and increasing difficulty in reaching orgasm are all common complaints of women in mid-life, and all are signs of low testosterone in women. Many people don’t realize that women’s bodies need the “male” hormone testosterone (T) in their system for optimal sexual function, just as do men. But recent studies have provided insight into how testosterone supplementation can be a safe therapy to improve sexual desire, arousal and pleasure for women....more
Join a roller derby league. You will gain all the testosterone you ever need and more! ;)more

Once A Cheater? 5 Types Of Cheaters Revealed

We’ve all heard the saying, once a cheater, always a cheater… but is there truth in this rather cliché allegation?  Or are we condemning innocent men worldwide, who may have screwed up once or twice, to be bound in that big box of infidelity?  Obviously all men aren’t the same… or are they? ...more
I absolutely loved this post! U honestly hit the nail on the head. Great read \U0001f44dmore

I Found My G-Spot And It Wasn't All That 

Life's too short to be sad over G-spots. ...more

If He Doesn’t Respect Women, He Doesn’t Respect You

Have you ever been with a man and noticed the way he speaks about other women? Have you ever paid attention to the tone of his voice, the language he chooses, and the words used to describe other women? In relationships, we often focus on how our mates feel about us, how they treat us and how they make us feel. It is natural to want to be respected and held in high regard, but what happens when you notice that your significant other shows a lack of reverence for other women?...more
dkweiss Mold you? please provide details of this molding. Are you mistaking respecting others as ...more

How To Survive The Ashley Madison Hack, From Someone Who's Been There

I'll be honest, when the first reports that the group that hacked Ashley Madison did, in fact, release the user data, I was downright giddy. Having watched my own marriage fall victim to the site and it's purpose (though, honestly, it would have fallen sooner or later as obviously things were not as fixed as I believed and no website or lack thereof was going to replace the work needed from both parties) I felt slightly vindicated all these years later. ...more
"so many women's hearts and lives were being shattered to bits, the rugs pulled out from under ...more

Anal Sex Article Hub

 Butts. No matter who you are or what you’re into, everybody’s got one. Yet, many questions remain: Is anal play as sexy in real life as it is in adult films? Are special PrEP-erations needed? What are the risks involved and what can you do to stay safer? And, which condoms, sex toys and lubricants are most suited for this penetrating act?...more