50 Shades of Safety: A How To

So you watched 50 Shades of Grey and now you're curious? You've read my blog and you're curious? Or you really just have been curious from the beginning and you were too afraid to ask? That's okay. It happens. A lot of people are too afraid to admit their curiousity and are willing to jump in without realizing there is a right way and a wrong way....more

Kink Safely With RACK

RACK, or risk-aware consensual kink, is a system of steps which were collectively created by the kink community so everyone involved can more safely explore and experiment with fetishism, dark erotic fantasies or BDSM acts outside of whatever may be considered their normal routine....more

50 Shades of TMI?

 Propaganda for 50 Shades of Grey is everywhere. Not only are snippets flashing across the flat screens in our private living rooms, they're popping up on covers of magazines at the doctors office, and on the radio as we drive our kids to school....more

The Heart & Soul of Dominance and Submission: An Insider's Perspective

I accidentally crossed paths with my first Dominant online when I was going through a divorce seven years ago. My first thought was to run away fast: He must be some whip-toting freak with a dungeon in his basement. Fast-forward to today and I have three Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationships behind me (though I've had vanilla relationships, too), and I can honestly say that each relationship built on the former and has taught me profound things about my body, myself, and even life....more
Thanks ladies.  I really felt the need to speak to the depths of D/s -- it's about so much more ...more

My Sexless Marriage Was a Hot Topic on Huffington Post

I had no idea my sexless marriage would be such a hot topic nor did I realize I would be crucified for it. In 2011, I published a personal article on my little blog titled "Sexual Neglect." The reason I wrote it was not to call out my ex but to bring to light a topic that rarely gets discussed. ...more
When trolls start surfacing, that means you've arrived!  ;-)  Write from the heart, write with ...more

How to Make Sex Better

You're not quite sure how — or when — it happened. You used to have so much fun in bed, but suddenly your sex life just isn't what it used to be. By 11 p.m. you're more interested in The Daily Show than in a steamy session with your guy. Even when you do work up the energy, sex feels so...predictable. The excitement, even the passion, are MIA....more

My Movie Review Of Fifty Shades Of "Good God, Is This Ever Awful"

 I pride myself on not being a literary snob....more
A friend of mine said Jamie Dornan in this was a little too similar to his character in The ...more

Why Sex In The Morning Is A Good Idea In Your Marriage

So you wake up a little early and you think about just laying there enjoying the quietness. But then you look over at your spouse lying next to you and realize that you could be doing something so much more enjoyable then staring at the ceiling. So you take ACTION! Now, if this is a good description of what's happened with your spouse, then you are already reaping some benefits that you may or may not know about. However, if this is something that you would love to explore more with your spouse, well consider the 5 reasons below why it's an excellent way to start your day....more

8 Places to Have Sex Outside of Your Bedroom

The bedroom is without a doubt a good place for some lovemaking with your spouse, but it doesn't have to be the only place. Take a look at a few places that I have listed below that not only provides you and your spouse with different scenery but also provides some great fun moments! And as always my fellow couples, Keep it hot!The New House...more
loveofromance Yay! I'm glad you liked the idea! Two of the places you listed that I really want ...more

XX Orgasms: Internal vs. External

Which is better, a clitoral orgasm or a vaginal orgasm? Or, is each source of sexual pleasure equally as good as the next one? Let’s find out! ...more