What’s Your Pseudo Action Hero Moment?

We’re all called to action at some point, right? Whether it be assisting someone with car trouble, helping an old lady cross the street, or performing the Heimlich maneuver on a stranger (e.g. Bill Murray Groundhog’s Day style), most of us hope to be ready to help when crises arise.Regardless of the 70s or 80s-inspired efforts, let's dance  Right? :)Farrah Fawcett would celebrate the intention here....more

Teens and Sex, A Reality Based Approach

Teens and sex are always a tough topic, but even more so nowadays. Kids are mostly all either having sex, or they are exposed to sexual content constantly through electronic media and many of us just want to avoid the issue because we feel torn between being “open” and unsure how to teach our kid’s boundaries in this day and age....more

Second rinse

It worked better on my nipples then it did in my mouth. I felt it dance around, leaving a trail of saliva that side down the side of my boob.“Don’t stop!”Yes it was a shout and not one of those soft whispers in his ear, it’s strange but his motion was tender but firm, fine not rough, and a touch of happy with joy. He was making love to me and that is when I remembered. During out friendship, Maz was a good friend, someone I loved....more

Solo Masturbation is Normal Even for Married People

Many people feel bad about masturbating. Bad they are doing it, bad they caught their spouse doing it, bad that they aren’t having good enough sex that they or their spouse don’t stop doing it. But in reality MANY people masturbate, and most have done so in the last 90 days....more

Dear "Nice Guy," You May Not Be As Nice As You Think You Are

Dear "Nice Guy", Hi! Yes, I see you there. You've made a point of being around me, and like lots of nice guys I've known through the years, you're interested in being more than just the nice guy who's hanging around me. Maybe you've watched me dating guys who are, in your opinion, vastly inferior in what they can offer me compared to you. Maybe I've been dumped, heartbroken, even possibly abused by guys like that, and there you are, so nice, so perfect for me if I'd only open my eyes and see it, waiting in the wings for me to notice you. ...more
funkyzoom I have to disagree. While there are plenty of guys out there who prioritize sex over ...more

My Thoughts On What Lifetime TV Did To My Memoir

Ever since the premiere date of The Secret Sex Life of a Single Mom was announced (May 31st on Lifetime) , I’ve been inundated with the same questions by people:  Have you seen the movie and what was it like to watch it?  What do I, as the author of the book, think of the movie?...more

What Kind of Sex is Everyone Else Having?

I believe all sexuality is experimental to some degree (we learn as we go). Yet I, like perhaps almost everyone you know, wonder how my sexual activities stack up against the folks next door. Especially in our present era of non-stop reference to a variety of sexual practices in movies, on TV, on the Internet, I’ve often wondered if my sex life was keeping up with the Joneses or not....more
This is so interesting to see the statistics involved in these areas!  I recently attended a ...more

The Journey Into BDSM 'Subspace'

Sometimes, you have to allow your sexual journey to flow. Other times, you have to grab it by the balls and say "I'm going to get laid". It was more the latter of those choices when I decided to say "Yes" and get together with [Mostly Harmless]....more
A great read!  People who are into kink function differently in the bedroom...although a lot of ...more

Welcome to My World: Where Sex, Science and Nature Come Together!

Your Sexual Self I write this blog with the hope that my personal story, matched with scientific knowledge, will help you to better understand who you are sexually. Learning about the places in life where Sex, Science and Nature come together can empower you to find fulfillment in the unique sexual person you are, as well as acceptance of yourself....more

Is It Safe To Share Your Toy?

Forget all those rules you learned in kindergarten. Sometimes, sharing isn’t the best option.Toys are awesome, and often, we want to share that awesomeness with our partners (check out our Spiciest Toys For Couples!) But there’s potentially some danger in sharing toys. A basic rule of thumb is this:...more