Keep it Spicy: 5 Fun Indoor Date Ideas

The hubs and I don’t get out like we’d like to so that we can have adult time that’s special for the two of us. It’s so easy to fall into the “I’m comfortable” rut once you have kids but keeping that connection between husband and wife is so important. Once you’re done raising the kids, all you’ll have is each other!...more

Single Mom Chronicles: Diary of a Divorced Cocoamommy-10 Reasons Why I Embrace Divorce

  When life gives you Lemons, make Lemonade!Sometimes I really believe we have to take a situation and turn it inside out and upside down!Here is why I refuse to let these letters D-I-V-O-R-C-E define ME!...more

Single MomChronicles: Diary of A Divorced CocoaMommy-Q&A with Tanai Benard

Have you read a story on the internet that totally moves you?  Well that was my reaction when I read about Tanai Benard who was featured in a post by Tenille Livingston on the Huffington Post.  Please check out her story here. Tanai Benard is an African-American mom of three children (2 sons and 1 daughter), ages 8, 9, and 10 living in Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates....more

Is Keeping Your "Cookie" in the Jar Unrealistic?

I am on strike and it’s nothing new. When I am single I usually do not partake in casual sex. Honestly it’s a bunch of effort creating a false sense of intimacy with a guy, so we can have real sex.  Creating false trust with a man is like watching sand fall through an hourglass, it’s just a matter of time before something shady goes down....more

How Love Changed Me

I’ve always felt that feeling of love is sacred.  I thought I fell in love twice by the time I was 17 years old, but when I truly fell in love I knew that the previous ones were just infatuations....more

When to Splurge and When to Save on Your Wedding

Weddings are expensive. Way more expensive than I thought before I started wedding planning. Since most of us don’t have an unlimited wedding budget, difficult decisions have to be made. It’s important to take a hard look at your priorities and decide where your money should be allocated. While we all have different priorities, there are some areas where your money will go a lot further and where I would recommend splurging. Here are the areas (in my opinion) for where to splurge and where to save on your wedding!...more

Choosing Your Spouse, One Day At A Time

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Still Missing

Still missing himIt’s been over a month, since my ex-boyfriend cheated and walked away from me. Only to have her move in with him a week later. I spent nearly five years with him. ...more

How To Tame Your Picky Husband (In Three Easy Recipes)

I get this from clients all the time, and you might even relate: they want to lose weight, they want to eat better and introduce more foods into their everyday - if only for the picky eaters in the house.And I'm not talking about their five year olds....more

Say No to Being A Side Piece

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