Is Bob McDonnell Bad For Women?
by American Princess

Okay, that's an incendiary headline, isn't it? I'm not one to enter the circular firing squad on Republicans (okay, so yes, I am, but not fresh-out-of-the-box governors who are serving as a bellweather for the Democratic agenda's chances in 2010), but there are certain issues on which I feel, as a libertarian feminist, on which I have to seek clarification, the question of whether a certain candidate actively works against the interest of women being one of them.

So when I got an email from the National Organization of Women accusing Governor-elect McDonnell of saying this:

[The] " dynamic new trend of working women and feminists ... is ultimately detrimental to the family."

naturally I was concerned. Sure, I'm not always ideologically in line with NOW, but I'm not always presented with a situation wherein a politician actually states, for the record, that he's opposed to women working outside the home. NOW's mission is to preserve and promote the rights of women, and they need the support of their members (active and financial) to continue to pursue their goals, and generally speaking, Republicans are a huge roadblock to those goals. They show up and they start snooping in your bedroom, around your gay marriage and your reproductive rights. Note the use of the term "feminist" as a pejorative. Its so classic, so stereotypical, so perfect...so I had to investigate.

Bob McDonnell appears to have made a pretty strong statement...in a paper he wrote about the current Republican Party platform for a policy class 20 years ago. From a September column by Ruth Marcus in the Washington Post, which called McDonnell's statements his "Macaca Moment:"

Bob McDonnell, the Republican candidate for governor of Virginia, didn't really mean it when he equated homosexuality with drug abuse and pornography as evils that "the government must restrain, punish, and deter."...Or when he described "feminism" as one of the "real enemies of the traditional family" and criticized federal child-care programs because they "subsidize a dynamic new trend of working women and feminists that is ultimately detrimental to the family."

Or if he did mean it, he doesn't any longer. When he wrote his thesis on "The Republican Party's Vision for the Family," McDonnell, you see, was a "college student at the time, albeit a little older college student, within an academic environment and completely not restrained by the real policy world."

The paper was written in 1989 when McDonnell was a 34 year old student who had already earned a Bachelor's and Master's degree and was working on a joint law/public policy degree. He had already served in the Army and was currently serving an internship in the US House of Republican Policy Committee. So its not like it was his first time around the block. McDonnell brough the report up himself in an interview with the WaPo's Amy Gardner.

But here's the thing. The paper wasn't a 93-page blog post, stuffed to the gills with McDonnell's personal beliefs. He wasn't writing about what he had on his agenda, but rather what the Republican Party had on its agenda for the American family in 1989. Sadly enough, 20 years ago, it was acceptable to call co-habitating couples "fornicators" and warn of the dangers of gays getting the idea in their heads that they might like to have legally-recognized relationships. And while we can argue until we're blue about the propriety of such beliefs - and whether they've evolved over the last 20 years even in the public realm - that they were on the Republican agenda at the end of the Reagan era is without question. Pornography and drugs were bad (I'm pretty sure this is still the GOP position), Griswold v. Connecticut is still a case that introduces substantive due process and the right to privacy, which radically changed how the government viewed liberties and the laws that infringe on them, and the existence of federally funded childcare programs could snowball into (OMG!) children being raised by the collective and not their parents, I guess.

Hey, I didn't say the positions were good positions or that they...um...even make sense. But they were the GOP's in 1989. And that last part? That's what Bob McDonnell was referring to - its clear when you put the quote back into context.

“Further expenditures would be used to subsidize a dynamic new trend of working women and feminists that is ultimately detrimental to the family by entrenching status-quo of nonparental primary nurture of children,”

Virginia Gubernatorial Candidate Bob McDonnell Holds Women's Rally

Okay, I'm still not feeling that "feminist" invective (really? federal child care = working women = nonparental primary care is the norm?), but the clouds are parting here. And McDonnell spent 90 minutes on the phone with reporters trying to part them further (from National Review):

The controversy over McDonnell’s thesis, with its inflammatory language about working women, risked destroying all this effort. But McDonnell handled it deftly. He spent 90 minutes on a conference call with reporters exhausting every possible question about the thesis. Then, the next day, when he was asked about it again at an education event, he said he’d answered all the thesis questions the day before and wanted to keep the campaign on the here and now.

McDonnell, who is generally recognized now as a "pragmatic conservative" who champions a traditionally conservative agenda along with innovative fiscal policy, also says that nowadays, he doesn't feel this way. That was 20 years ago, he maintains, and he's had daughters grow up and enter the working world, and political realities and a moderating culture have probably had an effect on his opinions, even if they did fall in line with the hard GOP in the late 80s.

Now, if only he'd voted with NOW on some key issues like federal child care and federally-mandated equal pay laws? Yeah, he didn't. As Arianna of MomsRising.org points out:

[Ruth] Marcus wasn’t the only woman who was skeptical of McDonnell’s defense that he was just a kid (at 34), and that hey, he loves working women now. Why, his wife and daughters even work!

What undermines McDonnell’s defense? His actual votes against two...issues, child care and equal pay for women.

McDonnell countered these attacks with his own ad, entitled “Trust” featuring women he himself employed when he was Attorney General. He is also airing another ad, featuring his daughter, and Iraq war vet, called “Working Woman.”

Even this doesn't get my blood boiling. I'm not a fan of government-funded anything, or government-mandated anything, and federal child care programs are no exception. As a libertarian, I happen to agree with the idea that where it can be done better by the free market (and probably cheaper), it should be. Is federally-funded child care necessary? Maybe, but voting against it doesn't necessarily mean one is "anti-woman," and neither does a vote against a measure that would expand equal pay laws that are already in existence by extending the time and analysis period for lawsuits. As much as it might pain people to admit it, we have a pretty good system in place to fight sexism, and given that companies aren't falling all over themselves to have workplaces full of supposedly-cheaper women in order to maximize profits in a troubled economic time, I'm fairly certain they're at least working a little.

And, to be really honest, these are pretty standard conservative positions. Even if I disagree with them (and him), Bob's allowed to be a social conservative. If the Washington Post crowed about it and he still won independents by almost a 2 to 1 margin, I think most of Virginia might agree with me.

If you're into these laws, then I can see where the Bob McDonnell case, as a whole, might convince you that he was an evil, woman-hating Republican, but I'm just not buying it. Given the context, and the fact that I'd probably vote agains those measures, too, given the chance, I have to say this is a little thin. I'm open to being convinced, though.

I mean, he just looks terrifying.

Comments

 

Feedback

First of all, thank you for an article which I felt like was very well written. I didn't feel like it was an expression one way or the other of political belifs but your feedback on Bob McDonnell.

My response to people who question whether or not working women are detrimental to the family is this: it's not working women who are detrimental to the family, it's the lack of support by many companies, for working parents (men or women, I was raised by a single dad) that is detrimental to families. I am lucky enough to work for a company and in a position where flex time is completely available and up to me to use how I need. If I need to leave early for a football game, no problem, at the end of the day, they are more concerned that my job is done than from where I am doing it. But, I work as an HR Consultant and what I see 95% of the time is the absolute opposite. Most businesses are obsessed with their employees being at work the minute the clock strikes 8 and not leaving one second before it turns 5 pm or later. Flex time is not an option, it's still seen as cheating the company by many executives, even though technically salaried employees are paid to do a job, not based on the hours they work.

I have three teenagers, our after school schedule is hectic. My husband works offshore and is gone for 4 days at a time. It would not do me a lot of good to sit at home and do laundry while my kids are in school all day, and I wouldn't ultimately be happy. After years of fighting and inching along for equality in various areas for women, do we really want to force women to choose between having a family or having a career? I went back to school a few years ago and got an MBA while my kids were younger. I didn't need to do it at the time, but I feel like higher education is important for women and I really want a Master's degree. But the idea that women still have to defend their decisions to have a professional, working life, makes me a little crazy.

My bigger goal as a working parent, is that my kids know that I am here for them, and that I am able to make school plays, ensure the homework is done, and that I am engaged with them, working or not.

For many women, and many families, having one parent at home is not an option for various reasons. So, I come back to the idea that working women are not detrimental to the family. Working parents with no support system at all are a bigger issue.

I think I wrote more than I planned, a little rambling!

The funny thing? My boss, who is the VP of my division, is a female excutive whose husband is an attorney but now a full time stay at home dad. :)

 

What about single mothers?

Shannonr - I agree with everything you said in your comment.  This is a subject that I know something about.  When I was 23 years old, I was divorced with a small child.  My ex-husband never paid a dime in child support and even escaped to another country for a while to prevent being caught by the courts.  For a short time, while my son was under 2 years old, I lived with my parents and got a small amount from welfare on a monthly basis (to be exact, it was $34.50) a month!

Being on welfare is not the day at the beach that some people seem to think it is.  At that time, I was expcted to visit the welfafre office to review my status on a weekly basis.  I imaging this process is much like having to go to the unemployment office every week to show that you ARE still unemployed and are REALLY looking for work.  I was treated with disdain by the state employess there simply BECAUSE I was on welfare.  It was demoralizing.  I was grilled as to how I was spending that $34.50 a month (uh, let's see - Pampers?).  I tried to qualify for a work incentive program wherein I could receive training for some kind of job and work toward my independence from welfare.  I was turned down.  I was told, "No.  You need to stay home and take care of your son."

So what was I to do?  I was 23 years old, I had completed 3 years of college (which equates to NO years of college unless you actually complete your degree program).  I was living with my parents and during that time my mother passed away.  I was miserable and depressed.  Was I the best mother to my son at that time?  I don't know.  But what I DID know was that I was never going to be a really good mother if I was not happy in my own life.  So I threw down the gauntlet, went off welfare, took out loans and got some scholarships and went back to school to finish my degree.  I took my two and a half year old son with me and took steps to turn my life around.  I completed my degree in one year taking 21 credit hours of course work in the first semester, getting a full time job in between semesters and taking another 18 credit hours the second semester while working full time.  I also, cared for my son, did the grocery shopping, cooked, cleaned the house, did the laundry, dealt with the bills, saw to it that my son had a good living environment & a good baby-sitter situation, read to him, played with him, loved him, nursed him when he was sick and taught him the importance of family.  Although I was not married for a long time, I did not change my last name back to my maiden name for my son's sake.  I felt his life would be less confusing for him as he went through the early school years if he and I had the same last name.  Meanwhile my ex-husband was traveling the world, smoking pot and selling it, and pretty much living a fancy free life.  Which one of us was more detrimental to the family?

Was it always easy for us? No.  Did my son suffer for it? Maybe, a little.  But I can tell you this, he learned a lot about work ethic and money management.  He learned a lot about community and charity because as broke as we were for much of those first few years, we always donated his outgrown clothes and even some ofi his toys.  We lived in a community of university students who were all in pretty much the same situation as us - so we worked together as a community babysitting for each others kids, helping to feed our kids together when things were really tough and lending emotional support when any one of us was crumbling under the pressure.

The people who make statements like Bob McDonnell's live in a bubble.  They live in a "Leave it to Beaver" existence.  Hey Bob, you think working mothers are detrimental to the family.  What do you think of deadbeat dads, or abusive dads, or alcoholic dads, or just plain absent dads?  What contibution are they making for the strength of the family unit in our society?