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While I'm probably more of a cat person than a dog person, I found much to appreciate in Julie Klam's Love at First Bark: How Saving a Dog Can Sometimes Help You Save Yourself. Giving rescued animals a forever home is something that is near and dear to me. While not all the animals in my life have come from a shelter, they've all been rescues.

My family never bought an animal in a pet store. We got our cat from the local animal shelter. We lived in the country and we "rescued" a lot of animals who lived in barns. There are animals that can have very happy lives as farm companions. These were not the animals we rescued. I remember one day my family saw an ad in a community paper about a farmer that had a litter of puppies they didn't want. When we arrived there was just one pup left -- a small yellow dog that was friendly but a rather frightened. And she stank to high heaven of cow manure. We took her home with us that afternoon. If you've ever wondered, the smell of cow manure can linger quite a while -- even after multiple baths and romps in the rain.

My current pet is a cat I've had for 12 years. She came to me when the superintendent in my apartment building told me someone on the first floor of the building had a litter of kittens that needed homes, indicating that the kittens would not come to a good end if they were not claimed. I knew that if I looked at them I'd take one, and I resisted for awhile. My student budget was tight and there wasn't a lot of wiggle room for human emergencies, let alone feline ones. But one day the super dragged me to see them. I held a little fluffball of fur in my hand and claimed her. When it was time for me to take her home she quickly got named "Piper," though on the Internet she's more commonly known as the "Fake Cat."

 

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"Piper, the (not so) fake cat." Image credit: sassymonkey (used with permission)

 

Prior to living with me, my husband had never owned a pet. His grandparents had a dog on their farm but him? Not even so much as a goldfish. (I am not counting his sea-monkeys ... ) He didn't really get why people had pets, especially cats. Piper is also a rather particular cat. I am her human. She had no use for any others unless it was feeding time, and then she'd love you until the food was on her dish. Sure, she'd tolerate people, but that was about it. Over the last few years, it's been rewarding to watch the two of them bond. Piper has learned to trust another human, and my husband has learned that pet ownership can be pretty darned rewarding.

Have you rescued an animal? Has a rescued animal made an impact in your life?

BlogHer Book Club Host Karen Ballum also blogs at Sassymonkey and Sassymonkey Reads.

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jtsillini 5 pts

About 8 years ago, my family got a dog named Louie. He is a Brittany - we already had one Brittany (a popular hunting dog), so we were contact with hopes that my dad knew someone else looking for one. The family who had him needed to unload him and were going to drop him off at a shelter if they couldn't. My mom happened to get the call, and, surprising to all of us, before she even passed the message on, she confirmed that WE would take him.

He is a great dog - wonderful demeanor, house-trained, not aggressive in the least of ways. He is high energy and a little bit 'chewy' so he just wasn't the right fit for the former owners.

My mom claims she's heard somewhere else (maybe on oprah) that 'the dogs in our life choose us'. I thought maybe she'd made this up, however, I couldn't help but think of it when I read about 'Clementine Eve Bows'. Louie, similarly, just landed in our lap.

kapachino 6 pts

All three of our dogs have been rescues: two from the shelter, and one off the street. One of them my husband had before we met, and she's ten years old now. I think this dog is obsessed or infatuated with him. If he let her, she would lick his face for thirty minutes straight. It's hilarious and kinda gross, but you can just see the love radiating out of her. It makes our lives much fuller.

beansylovescakes 5 pts

One day my co-worker brought in a puppy she had seen wandering on her way to work. He was so cute and I wanted to take him, but she'd already called the Humane Society so I had to go through them if I wanted to adopt him. I went back and forth and after a couple days, no one had adopted him, so I decided to adopt him. He was a crazy puppy who liked to bite and chew everything, but he was such a good companion. I moved to LA a couple months after I adopted him. I didn't know anyone and he was such a comfort. He eventually outgrew my townhome so he had to live with my parents. My dad really took to him and he was his buddy for the next several years.

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

beansylovescakes Aw, I'm sorry that he couldn't stay at home with you but glad that he found a good one with your parents.

StreamDoubleTrouble 5 pts

All of my dogs have been rescue dogs. In public, I am constantly saying how neurotic they are - but it is their quirks and foibles that make them so lovable. My own Love at First Bark #bhbc review (http://www.streamdoubletrouble.com/2011/10/22/love... details how my guys have saved me with each addition to our family. No matter how little time we were able to spend with them.

Dogs make me happy (or cats if that's how you roll) :)

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

StreamDoubleTrouble lol I do tend to roll with cats but I'm pro-dog too. ;)

ewillse 12 pts

Aww, this thread is going to be fun. I love reading beloved-pet stories, especially about rescued animals.

I grew up with a shelter cat- when we went to get Watson, he was the cat who would absolutely not stay put in his cage, he wanted to be where people were. All his life, if he found himself alone, he would yowl and yodel (part Maine Coon) til you called out to him, then he came running!

I used to volunteer at a cat shelter, which was, thankfully no-kill. I fell in love with a new cat every couple of weeks, but didn't wind up taking any of them home. Because I knew they could stay at the shelter and be fed and loved until they went to exactly the right home.

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

ewillse The fake cat is part Maine Coon. I've become a big fan of them.

Indigo 7 pts

We have two dogs and three cats, all but one of our dogs came from the Humane Society of Wisconsin. I couldn't imagine my life without them.

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

Indigo That sounds like a busy household!

SweeterLemon 9 pts

Our family had a dog when I was very, very young, but I haven't had one since. I admit that after reading this book, I've found myself looking at adult dogs on Petfinder, and wishing we didn't have a "no dogs" clause in our rental agreement.

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

SweeterLemon Oh I hate no dog/pet clauses. I lived in a lot of apartments and it was sometimes a struggle to find ones where you could have pets. Cats were usually more accepted than dogs.

lifeasaSAHM 7 pts

I have 4 cats, 3 of which were rescued. Sometimes they're a pain :) but most of the time they are well worth it. My oldest is turning 9 this year.

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

lifeasaSAHM I only have one and sometimes she's a pain. I'm pretty sure I told her she was a pain in the butt earlier today. But I said it with love. ;)

kemerselis 11 pts

We've considered adopting a dog but it hasn't happened for us yet. I didn't grow up in a dog house so we thought that it would be easier for me to learn to train a dog with a puppy. We have also run into the problem that the humane societies in our area as well as many rescue groups ask that you have a yard to be able to adopt. Maybe at our next house.

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

kemerselis Yeah, that can be a problem. We wouldn't be able to adopt a dog from the local shelter because yeah, we have a yard but it's not fenced in.

FarewellStranger 11 pts

I would love to rescue a dog, but I'm desperately allergic to most of them. We looked and looked but ended up having to get a hypoallergenic one from a breeder. My sister rescued a dog and he's just a totally awesome dog (aside from the shedding. Oy, the shedding!). If I could find one that wouldn't make me sick I'd absolutely take it in. What a great thing to be able to give a home to an animal that needs one.

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

FarewellStranger Allergies rot. I totally understand why people with allergies go to breeders.

isaselby 6 pts

My family adopted a dog when we first moved to SC from Washington state and my husband and I currently have a cat that we were supposed to be fostering for 2 months... but I think we all know how that turns out! They've both been great pets (though both are a bit aggressive!) and I'm glad that they found a home with us.

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

isaselby I would be horrible at fostering. I'd never want to let any of them go.

Fiddledeedee 5 pts

I had a very clear NO PET CLAUSE written into my marriage contract. And then a sweet rescue dog named Mater entered our lives. Nothing will ever be the same... :)

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

Fiddledeedee lol. It's funny how that happens isn't it?

TexasRhea 7 pts

It's so rewarding to watch someone who didn't love animals, fall in love with an animal, I agree! And I think rescuing animals is wonderful. Our sweet labrador, Annie, was a rescue, and she's such an amazing part of our family. Pets are truly a wonderful bonus to our lives, and we need to remember that and give back in return.

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

TexasRhea I love labs. :)

Patton 11 pts

I have never rescued an animal although I almost did when my adult son developed eczema. His lovely new wife is a cat whisperer and their family consisted of the two of them and Desdemona and Harlem, their two cats. I did not like cats but came to love these two because they acted more like dogs than cats thanks to the cat whisperer. Anyway they found new homes where they could visit the cats. So I missed my opportunity or motivation to have this experience.

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

Patton Some breeds of cats are quite dog-like. And I have to say that Desdemona and Harlem are awesome names.

roses2me 6 pts

Our family has adopted several dogs over the many years of familyhood!! We also adopted our children, we didn't rescue them (well, maybe in a sense we did)! We have loved our pets as family members and I am in the place to find an addition. My husband passed away this past Christmas Eve and I'm thinking about finding myself a buddy, just a little friend to keep me company and make me smile again. This book couldn't have come at a better time :)

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

roses2me I am so sorry about your husband. A companion animal sounds like a lovely idea.

mamainjammies 8 pts

I am a little sensitive about this topic since my youngest child was adopted - so I would never ever refer to our adopted pets as 'rescues'. But all of our pets - cats and dogs - have been adopted from local humane societies. I lived on a farm as a kid, so animals were always wandering up to our house and blending in with the cats already milling around at feeding time. I can't imagine going to a store to choose a pet... mostly, they are supposed to choose you!

labuenavida 11 pts

That's an interesting point about not referring to adopted pets as "rescues" just as most people don't refer to adopted children as being adopted in every conversation. I've never heard anyone bring it up before in terms of pets...

Farmer Julie 5 pts

Blue the Chihuahua was a "purse dog" in New York City during my single days, and is now the shortest, fiercest farm dog you've ever seen.

And I never would have had him in my life if not for Petfinder and the good people at Fallston Animal Rescue in Fallston, MD. Thanks to all the rescue workers and fosters who make families like ours possible :)

The UDG 16 pts

Both our girls are rescues. Husband saw Mandie in Petsmart during an adoption day and refused to leave without her (like stamping his foot toddler style refused). She is most commonly referred to as "the baby." Melodie was supposed to just be a foster pup but she and I just couldn't let go of each other. We have talked about a purebred dog at some point, but every time I look at Mandie with that big lab head on her doxie body, I can't help but wonder who will capture our hearts next.

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

The UDG Aw. I love that your husband refused to leave without her. That's awesome!

labuenavida 11 pts

We adopted our cat. I can't imagine us ever buying a pet at the pet store or from a breeder--only from a shelter or a friend whose animals were having pups or kittens.

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

labuenavida I can't see us doing it either.

Jessica@teamrasler 5 pts

Both of my cats are rescues (one from a shelter, one from an aunt's backyard), and my husband had never ever had a pet before, either. I think we both feel guilty that the cats get a lot less attention now that we have two small children, but we can't imagine our home without them. This sounds like a book that would make me want to adopt another animal, and feel very sad that I can't right now!

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

Jessica@teamrasler It made me want to adopt another animal. We can't right now either.

mytemperedtantrum 6 pts

I am not much of an animal person, and we have no pets here. However, I really enjoyed this book! Although I cannot fathom permitting a fecally incontinent dog to sleep in my bed, I do admire anyone who has that much passion and commitment towards a cause. I would never take in and care for a Clementine, but I sure did enjoy reading about her!

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

mytemperedtantrum I don't think I would have been the right human for Clemmie either, but I'm glad that Julie was.

lauralohr 5 pts

We have two 7 month old puppies that we rescued through the Labrador and Friends Rescue. Both of their moms were abandoned just before they were born. We had recently lost our two dogs we had for 7 and 8 years. They got out of our yard and were found on the freeway. I cried for weeks later before we adopted the two puppies we have now. They healed our hearts and filled the empty places in our hearts where our other dogs were. They could never replace the first two doggies, but they comforted us in our time of need.

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

lauralohr Oh! I'm so sorry about your two dogs. How heartbreaking.

julieklam 7 pts

Thank you for all the kind words, and I LOVE reading about all of your animals and rescues! It's wonderful hearing about how your pets have changed your lives!

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

julieklam Thank you for all that you do to help people like us get those lovely animals.

TW 24 pts

I grew up with a rescue dog--Ginger, who died three days before I got married. (possibly the best dog ever) We had Maggie, a St. Bernard (or maybe the best dog ever; except the fur, and her habit of pulling me down ice slickened hills.) I found in a shelter in Wisconsin. She was such a mess I thought she was much older. We had a roaming soul of a dog named Mikey at one point.We had Jake and Chanel--rescues of a sort.

Throw me at petfinder and I will find a dog I want to give a home. Keep me out of animal shelters--I am hopeless at hardening my heart to dogs. Even cats and rabbits at shelters have found their way into our lives.

My father had a firm stance against purebred dogs and I can't get rid of that (even though Jake, Chanel and my mother's dog were/are all documented purebred. Maggie was possibly purebred but I will just assume she wasn't.

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

TW I can't go into animal shelters unless I plan to leave with an animal. I want to take them all. And those adoption centers at PetSmarts? KILL ME.

BShallue 8 pts

Our dogs were both strays - one wandered up to our house, on death's door from being on his own. The other showed up at a house miles away, but we agreed to take her. Otherwise, she was headed for a shelter, and it wasn't a "no-kill" shelter, either. She exudes joy and life - I can't help thinking that if we hadn't taken her, she wouldn't be alive. Yes, they both impact my life greatly in a joyous way (I go into more detail in my review on my blog.)

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

BShallue I'm glad that two dogs found their way to a loving home with you. :)

jordy liz 5 pts

Most of our dogs and cats growing up were "rescues" - from a friend who couldn't keep them anymore, from a litter of puppies on a farm that needed a home, from a cat who had kittens in our roof - they were all rescues somewhat unconventionally. But they ALL needed love and attention, which we could provide. The presence of an animal that is so loyal and loving makes all the difference in the world.

sassymonkey 196 pts moderator

jordy liz It does. I couldn't imagine our house without our cat.

livytay 6 pts

Growing up, we always had pure-bred Boston Terriers, and they were worth every penny. Eventually, my mom started breeding one of ours, and we were able to recoup some of our initial investment in the mama dog.

In college, I was surprised when my mom adopted a shelter dog to be her Boston's friend. I'm all about animal rescue myself, though. Newly married and poor, my husband and I couldn't afford a pure-bred dog, nor did we want one. We found our sweet little doggy at petfinder.com and I was able to pick her up at an adoption event at a local petstore. She's been a great dog, and I'm sad to think that I'm her THIRD home. How could she have been given up twice before?!